i'm wonder

[sweet bride]

hi all iam asking all the married girls are they happy? is the life after wedding is good? is your step mother nice with you realy i'm so afraid of dealing with her we wilol live near to her :bbcry:

[MOB Karen]

hi all iam asking all the married girls are they happy? is the life after wedding is good? is your step mother nice with you realy i'm so afraid of dealing with her we wilol live near to her :bbcry:

Do you mean Mother-in-law, sweet bride? I think most of the ladies are deliriously happy. That's what I get from their threads anyway. How about it, newlyweds, tell us how happy you are? :D

[LaceyinPgh]

I am quite happy in my married. To be honest I haven't seen a change at all in our relationship. If I even had the thought that things would have changed or that my husband or I wouldn't have been happy, I wouldn't have gotten married. If you think you might not be happy being married than you need to post pone things until you can come to a better understanding of your feelings on the issue. It is far less an investment in time, emotion, energy, and economics to post pone or call off a wedding as opposed to go through a divorce.

As for the mother in law. Mine knows her place. I suggest that you teach yours the same. If she causes an issue, stand up for yourself and let her know that her opinion is not warranted, wanted, or appreciated. Your husband should back you up on it. If he doesn't or won't you don't need to be with him. You are his main priority not his mommy. His mother raised him, if she did a good job on it, she shouldn't be worried about the end results.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I agree with Lacey! She said it all, so if you wanna know my answer read her post! However, I have no problems with my MIL, she is wonderful but if I did I'd do exactly what Lacey suggested.

As far as the married life, see my sig below!! I love it!! IT's better then when we were just dating or engaged. I really feel like I am more in love with Matthew now that we are married then I have ever been before!! It's like something changes but doesn't really! It's hard to explain. But again if you're having doubts, see Lacey's post because she hit the nail on the head!! :0

[Kacie_bride]

I am not married yet, but I hope to feel just the same after we are married. If it was going to change I wouldn't want to get married. I am happy with the things I feel right now. The only thing I want to change, and I would like it change now, would be to get rid of our roommate! That just is an extra boost to the marriage because I also graduate 2 weeks before the wedding and we cannot afford to be roommate free until after I graduate!

[cowboysbride]

Yeah if I thought for a minute that I wouldn't be happy after the wedding it wouldn't be happening, Eric is the reason I am so happy...he changed my life and made me whole again!

Sweetbride, may I ask where you are from?

[CindySue]

Yeah...Im very happy to be married. If anything our realtionship seems more relaxed now. We have that "committment" thing going on I guess.
I love my MiL to death. Shes the greatest.

[rainbowtreat]

I have been married for under a month and it has been great/ I love Nicholas to death and I love him more and more every day. I can feel the love from him even more now that we are married. Not that I didnt before, it just got stronger after we were married. I was not nervous about marrying him at all. He is the one I need to be with, want to be with, and do believe am ment to be with. Nothing has changed. We lived together before the wedding so that is the same. I could not be happier.

For example we finished moving my stuff out of my storage unit yesterday. My hpe chest was in there and its contents had been replaced from things for my home to things I want to keep. Most of it was my wedding stuff from my first marriage. He asked me how it was going and I told himw hat I found. He asked if I was ok. I told him it was hard to see this stuff but that it is in the past. Jason is not theman for me. He asked if I was sure he was the one. I assured him he was. I have waited all my life for him. All those stupid little saying like I knew you before I met you and stuff like that. Well all tha stuff makes since to me now. I love this man and in a way always have even befor I knew him but he is here now and I cnat get enough of him. He is amazing, he makes me laugh, he is great to talk to, hard times and good times, he is the man for the job. And to top it all off..... my kids love him to death. And he loves them and does not favor one over the other. ( a problem in the past with some people )

OK I have gone over boared here but I couldnt help it. I am in love and I want to shout it some times.

So to answer your question...... YES I am very very happy.

As for my MIL....... she is nice and not bad to talk to, still dont know her that well but over all she is nice. And she lives 13 hours away.

[WebLady]

I've been married for a little over a year (we've been together for a little over 7 yrs) and I have to say I am very happy :D

My MIL is no longer with us, but I loved her just like she was my own mother and we had a great relationship, she was a wonderful woman. Now I don't think my DH can say the same about his MIL (my mother) :bbconfused: all he has with my mother is a civil relationship, but I don't really have much more that myself ... I love my mom, but she is hard to take sometimes.

Anyway, I am very happy with my life ... but since we've been together for so long, our daily lives didn't change too much after we got married. But I do like to be able to say his is my husband now ... and I like all the 'Wife' cards I get on the holidays :D

[Jenn060306]

I am sooo happy to be married! It's been wonderful!
My mother in laws are great as well! They are hardly ever a problem. My father in laws are awsome too! my DH's parents are divorced and re-married so i get 2 of each!
Being married has been everything i expected and more. I look at him some days and just smile because he is my husband and i am the luckiest girl in the world to have him!

[Mrs. Pickering]

I've been married for over a year now and we've been together for 6 years total. I feel like our relationship has gotten even better since we've gotten married--kinda like CindySue said--there's that commitment thing.
Ryan's mother and I get along great but we're both pretty laid back people and we don't get uptight about too much. :)

[Crystal05]

We are very happy. Once in awhile, we'll have arguments, but who doesn't right? It's all worth it in the end.