Are you serious??

[dylansmom011908]

I'm so disappointed right now in my best friend aka MOH. Every day is a new drama with her... "yes, i'll be up there" ...."no, i don't have the money to come up for the wedding".... no, yes...no..yes.. MAKE UP YOUR MIND!!!

Either you're in the wedding or your not! but do you think she'd let me know a head of time? no.. she has to wait till we're 3 months from the wedding! I understand that times are tough but she knew the cost of this a year ago when i began planning the wedding!

Now, i have no problem replacing her..in fact.. thanks to all the stress she's caused me.. I'm counting on replacing her with one of my bridesmaids!

**background info:
This all started when she couldn't come up with her deposit for her dress. So, i put down the deposit ($114) and she said she would pay me back that friday because that was money i took from my bill.. well, she never paid it back.. and her fiance keeps coming up with excuses on why they don't have the money to pay us back!
Then she says to me.. "why are you even getting married if you can't afford it?" hello!!! we're making do.. but it doesn't help when i loan you money and you can't even pay me back!!! ugh!


I seriously can't wait till the wedding is over! I'm stressed to my limit..but at least I know who my real friends are! MOH.... more like B**ch of Honor! ugh!

[lilmsjess]

heehee, BOH.....

that sucks she's doing this...i'm kind of rude, so honestly i'd replace her as MOH, make her a BM, tell her she owes me money, and to figure out the rest on her own...

as for asking why you're getting married if you can't afford it, #1 that's not her business! #2, as a bridesmaid it is HER duty to pay for her stuff, and if she thinks you can't afford a wedding b/c you can't pay for her, then she needs to go anyways...at the last minute, you don't need her not showing up, and her fiance running his mouth.

[ChristineLS]

:(

I'd hope at a minimum MOH's would be supportive of the decision to get married. I'm sorry that you have to put up with it, as if the stress of the wedding weren't enough, you have that to put up with too. Good luck!

[savepaws]

I'm sorry you are going through this right now. It really sucks having a MOH who causes stress. I'm starting to find that out myself. :(

[HisDelightfulFaerie]

What a b*tch. Screw her and just nip that in the bud now. It's not gonna get any better.

[RosieAngel]

I agree with HisDelightfulFaerie. You can save yourself some stress day of by either asking her to step down. If she's so nasty and unsupportive, you don't need her as your friend anyways.

Sorry that you're dealing with this :hug: You deserve better.

[scarymary48]

I can't believe a so-called-best-friend would whip out the 'Why are you getting married if you can't afford it' line. That is so rude! Who does she think she is? You deserve better, more supportive friends than that!
I think you need to ask her to step down, or let her know why her behaviour sucks and try to talk it out, because the last thing you need is this stress on your day.
Why do weddings always bring out the crazy in our previously normal friends???