husband's family

[sweet bride]

hi all
i have alot of problem with my fiance's family i'm trying to make my ralation with them is too limited but i'm afraid of what will happend after marriage i want to have not any relation with them is that right or wrong iam confused

[OneFishTwoFish]

Is your FH close with his family? You know what they say, "You marry the man, you marry his family." While i can understand not wanting to deal with them, if he's close with them, then you have to. It's not fair to him otherwise. Just try to be civil and kind and let him handle any drama that may arise.

[greencargirl]

i sorta had this problem at the beginning. my husband has a brother and i'm an only child... i just couldn't understand why he had to see his brother so much but it's just something that i, being an only child, would never understand... i've learned to accept it and actually like it now when his brother comes to visit :)

[CindySue]

I really lucked out on this one. Im very close to some members of my family and Brian is very close to his. Or only problem is going to figure out how to divide our time. This past year was easy since my family was galivanting around the country!!!!

[Kacie_bride]

Like Cindy, I lucked out on this one too. Both of us are close to our families. I have always heard though, when you marry someone you marry the family too. That is the way it is with us. It is probably one of those things you will just have to learn to live with.