Who said, "I love you" first?

[MOB Karen]

Just thought this was an interesting question to ask.

[WhiskeyGirl]

One night as he was dropping me off at home, Matthew leaned over and whispered in my ear "I'm starting to fall in love with you!" That sent shivers up and down my spine. I think it was a few short days later that I blurted it out and told him that I did indeed love him. That's when he confessed that he'd loved me for a while but didn't want to say it because he was afraid he might say it too soon and scare me off!! I laughed about that one!! :)

[Amber818]

Jason...what a sap! Whispered it to me when we were cuddling in bed...

[WebLady]

I don't really remember ... I think I may have said something like "I think I am falling in love with you" and then he said "I love you" a few days later.

I know He was the first to say " I Love You Baby" in code on my pager ;)

[rainbowtreat]

I was the first to say it to Nicholas. We were on the phone s he lived 13 horus away. For a long time I wold say I feel like I should say more but... He would just say I know. Then I finaly told him I loved him. All he could say was I know. He confessed later that he loved me at that time but was scard to let me know. He did eventuly let it out. Now I get it all the time. I love hearing. He can never say it enough.

[hummingbird521]

We both started out our relationship saying we would never fall in love again. Well we know how that ended. But we started out saying to one another and jerry said it first, we would say "I likey you lots". Then one night we crawled into bed and i slipped and said "i love you lots". i just sat there stunned at what i had done for a few minutes and then crawled under the covers. jerry just grinned and didn't say anything. then the next night while talking on messenger he said he had something to tell me and that it was three words. I honestly guessed everything else but that. then when it hit me i told him i didn't want it spelled out i wanted to actually hear it first. my phone rang and while i went to answer it he wrote out "i love you" and then when i answered the phone the first thing he said was "i love you lots to honey". i started crying and we talked a long time. then when we hung up i walked back into the living room and seen where he had typed it to me and said as well "wanted this to be the last thing you read before going to bed". i knew i was done for then!!!!

[AngelinLove]

Treasia...that is such a sweet story!!!

With Joel and I it was soooooo quick. I actually think that I loved him before I ever met him, but anyways...I was so paranoid to say anything like that, but I am one of those people that cannot keep my feeling in, so one night we were cuddling on the couch. I snuggled up real close to him and I said "I love you", and he looked at me...and it was sooo intense...and he said it back!!!!

[ikkin510]

Steve said it first to me. I had felt it, but wanted him to say it first. It was before I had move up here, and I was getting ready to take the long drive home after spending some time up here visiting. As I was getting ready to leave he told me it was getting harder and harder for him to say goodbye to me since he was falling in love with me so fast. It was so sweet. I was so happy driving home after that. Then the next week I decided to move!

[hummingbird521]

Treasia...that is such a sweet story!!!

With Joel and I it was soooooo quick. I actually think that I loved him before I ever met him, but anyways...I was so paranoid to say anything like that, but I am one of those people that cannot keep my feeling in, so one night we were cuddling on the couch. I snuggled up real close to him and I said "I love you", and he looked at me...and it was sooo intense...and he said it back!!!!

Angel, i love your story as well. Nothing like that intense feeling and look.

[WebLady]

man, you guys are making me cry now ;)

[cowboysbride]

Eric and I had a long distance relationship for a little while and we talked on the phone EVERY night from Feb 6th to Feb 26th 2 and 3 hours a night...we had our first real date on Feb 26th...we spent the day holding onto eachother tightly and laughing and walking around a gorgeous park here in Kentucky...complete with waterfall and all! We drove back to my apt and were sitting on the couch and well........afterwards I was standing in front of him and he had his arms wrapped around my waist and I started crying and it scared the **** out of him, little did he know I was crying because I was so happy...I blurted out I love you and he said I love you too and we've been saying it every day since then!

[AngelinLove]

Eric and I had a long distance relationship for a little while and we talked on the phone EVERY night from Feb 6th to Feb 26th 2 and 3 hours a night...we had our first real date on Feb 26th...we spent the day holding onto eachother tightly and laughing and walking around a gorgeous park here in Kentucky...complete with waterfall and all! We drove back to my apt and were sitting on the couch and well........afterwards I was standing in front of him and he had his arms wrapped around my waist and I started crying and it scared the **** out of him, little did he know I was crying because I was so happy...I blurted out I love you and he said I love you too and we've been saying it every day since then!


Awwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[usahgrad]

Jason and I started out as an online friendship and then moved to the phone. I had to ask Jason to clarify and he couldn't really remember as much either, except that we were on the phone and he said it because he wanted me to hear it. I think we both knew already; we were very much in love for a long time. We say it too each other everyday a bazillion times a day. It's always been a part of our relationship...I can't remember a time I didn't love him and I didn't know that he loved me too...:)

[sweet bride]

of course my fiance said to me first he said i love u he love me for 6 years before he said it to me can u imagine that

[StaceyMc]

Joe said it first. It was kind of funny. We were cuddling on the couch and he was kissing me. He looked up and said "Guess what..." I said "What..." He said "I love you." I just looked at him - it was a feeling like I'd never felt. Then, of course, I told him I loved him too and hugged him really tight. I totally didn't expect "I love you" when he said "Guess what..."

[MOB Karen]

Joe said it first. It was kind of funny. We were cuddling on the couch and he was kissing me. He looked up and said "Guess what..." I said "What..." He said "I love you." I just looked at him - it was a feeling like I'd never felt. Then, of course, I told him I loved him too and hugged him really tight. I totally didn't expect "I love you" when he said "Guess what..."

That's really sweet!:)

[Kacie_bride]

Justin said it first! We had been together for only 4 or 5 months. I knew I was in love with him, but I was to afraid to say it because I thought it might scare him off.

[CindySue]

I don't really remember ... I think I may have said something like "I think I am falling in love with you" and then he said "I love you" a few days later.

I know He was the first to say " I Love You Baby" in code on my pager ;)
I dont remember who said it first either. It was just something we knew we felt. But I do remember that is was said over the phone and the next time we saw each other was really special.

[tha_mrs]

It was me. It had been almost 2yrs of being single. I had left my ex and was just angry with all men! And then Tommio called me and we sort of began to pick up where we left off in high school.After about 6mths I asked him to teach me how to love again. Teach me so that I can fall in love with you. And you know what.....he did just that! He was extra patient with me and when I told him that I loved him, he knew it was real.

[katieandalex]

I think he did.

[Jenn060306]

Mark said that he loved me first. It was 3 weeks (maybe) into our relationship. I was 17. We were at an awards banquet for scouting because his mom had won an award. We were slow dancing when he first said 'I love you' and because a. i was 17 and b. my friends and i were super close and to say 'i love you' in the i love being with you your a totally awsome friend kinda way. So i sad i love you in the giddy friend way and nothing more was said at the time. Then later on he said it again, but said he really loved me. Which totally through me off gaurd and i knew i couldn't say the same because i felt like i was to young to really know what real love was and honestly i had only known him 3 weeks. The rest of the night was a little quieter after that.
This was on a Saturday night. By Tuesday Mark was really quiet on the phone and somthing really seemed to be bothering him. He wouldn't tell me what was going on for a while then finally he told me he didn't think the relationship would work out and he broke up with me. I was absolutely devistated. I cried all night and felt so sick i couldn' go to school the next day. I just sat at home and moped.
Late the following afternoon Mark called me to see how i was doing. I told him i felt like sh!t and he said he felt the same way. He asked if i could come over after dinner and we could talk. So my dad drove me to his house and i remember standing on the front steps looking in the screen door and seeing him come to the top of the stairs from the basement. I burst into tears because i knew at that moment i loved him too. For the life of me i couldn't figure out why i was so upset about breaking up with someone i had only known for 3 weeks. It was suddenly all clear to me.
I step in the door and he hugged. He started to cry too. That's when i first told him that i loved him and he looked at me like 'are you sure?' and i explained everything to him and he agreed.

The reason he broke up with me after telling me he loved me was because his dad had left about 4 years earlier. And he remembers hearing his parents in their bedroom at night and his mom would say to his dad... 'I love you' and his dad wouldn't respond. Not long after that his dad actually left his mom for the woman he was having an affair with. So Mark was completely freaked out and scared that the same thing would happen to him. Which i totally understand.