Do u wish your guy would... [Archive]

theweddinghelper

06-29-2006, 03:46 AM

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You can't live w/ them and u can't live w/out them! ( I def. could but wouldn't want to live w/ out my hubby!) LOL! Sometimes n e ways!
I can not stand when he stays up and plays Playstation @ night and then he acts like I am bothering him when I ask him if he's ready for bed! It's 4 :censored:
in the morning!! He acts like a baby sometimes if I don't want to go to bed when he does and then when I want to go to bed @ a reas. time he's like "I'll be there in a few!" and then an hr. and a half later u wake up and he's still playing :censored: PS! I could throw that dang system out the window!!!!
Don't mind me, just venting! I swear I could just choke him today! It's just one of those days anyways! I told him that's all he's going to be playing w/ @ night if he keeps it up!!!:bblol: (I know TMI but I thought it was pretty funny!)

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CindySue

06-29-2006, 10:49 AM

My problem with Brian is that he will catch his 2nd wind about 9:30pm and will want to stay up talking......like last night. Now granted we did have a very deep meaningful conversation, but we were both sooooo tired we were starting to get cranky so I called a halt to the talk and reminded him why we were having to have it in the 1st place.....because we had been fighting.

cowboysbride

06-29-2006, 10:58 AM

Okay this is the first poll I can't take...Eric works his arse off on the farm and taking care of me, then he's off to his job on 2nd shift...when we're together we're always doing something together (Karen, stop thinking that!:bblol: ). So right now no problems...ask me in October...I'm sure we'll both have something to say LOL!

countrygirl

06-29-2006, 11:00 AM

My only prob w J is that he falls asleep instantly. But, he works in 110 degrees all day, so I can understand him being a bit sleepy.

LaceyinPgh

06-29-2006, 11:03 AM

Sean is just tired a lot. I understand though. His job isn't physical at all, but the mental strain of what he does would kill most people. He doesn't play video games. He watched tv more than I would like but he is usually so burnt out from work there isn't much else he can do. I would say he is definately grown up. Plus, he does a lot of the housework during the school year when I work too and takes **** good care of me.

CindySue

06-29-2006, 11:14 AM

Plus, he does a lot of the housework during the school year when I work too and takes **** good care of me.
When Brian and I were talking last night, he thought I was bothered by him not helping around the house more. I asked him if I EVER acted like it bothered me. He said that no, I usually dont want help. This got us on a conversation on how he doesnt think he does enough and I had to expalin there are times when Im overwhelmed by how much he does for me.

Amber818

06-29-2006, 11:31 AM

Jason and I have been together for almost 5 years now so I have a list....but the only one I will talk about is the fact that he will stay up until like midnight and sometimes 1am....he is a musician and a very dedicated one so his mind is going all the friggin time...which keeps me up...

usahgrad

06-29-2006, 11:37 AM

I guess I can't complain too much about the video games, because that's how we met and he doesn't play them when I'm home. BUT, he does play them all day while I'm not home and doesn't do anything else! I also wish my guy would be more sociable so we could go out a little more often. He's really a homebody--but I love him anyways!

katieandalex

06-29-2006, 11:46 AM

Mine is just grow up sometimes...the rest of those he doens't really ever do...

bnd94

06-29-2006, 12:29 PM

WhiskeyGirl

06-29-2006, 12:54 PM

I also can't do this poll!! There is nothing like that that bothers me!! He usually let's me have the remote, we both play video games and he always wants to go to bed early!! lol

theweddinghelper

06-29-2006, 02:48 PM

theweddinghelper

06-29-2006, 02:56 PM

You guys are so funny! Michael works out of town alot and has diff. contractors. He is usually gone for a while which sucks! He has been home for a while now bc their contract ended. (He's been home for about 2 mos. now) so it's like we have to get used to eachother's scheds. every time he gets home! First. he is so tired bc he's burnt out from wrk then a few weeks later he's up till 4/5 in the morning not going to sleep! I love him to death but we just have our days! I play video games w/ him sometimes, we watch TV together(although, sometimes he does try to get ahold of the remote:)) and he helps me around the house for the most part. Yesterday I just had to vent before I choked him! He's been kissing my :censored: all day today though! LOL!

WebLady

06-29-2006, 03:43 PM

I voted 'Go to bed earlier' ... DH doesn't play video games and he will let me hold the remote sometimes or he will ask me what I want to watch. We have much the same tastes in stuff, but sometimes he likes to watch the History channel or Nasa and that bores me half the time ;)

We both usually stay up late, but I tire about 2 or 3am and he can stay up till dawn sometimes :bbeek: I wish we could go to bed and get up together more often.

There really isn't much about him that bugs me, there are a few but not really big things.

LizabethDavis

06-29-2006, 05:20 PM

If anything, it would be I wish he would stop playing video games!! He is usually glued to XBOX Live, but he has been being a lot better about it lately!

Kacie_bride

07-01-2006, 01:27 AM

Well I voted for I wish he would grow up sometimes. He hates video games and I am the remote hog! The reason I say this is because he is still into the whole bar scene. He's not always in the bar or anything like a drunk, but he likes to go out to bars that I don't care to go to. I'm only 23, but I don't really care to go to a bar where everyone is 18-25. People my age are stupid in a bar! I know I was one of them. Just in the last 1 1/2-2 years or so I decided I didn't want to go to bars anymore. I don't mind a nice sit down bar now and then, but not these other bars.

SoontobeMrsClark07

07-10-2006, 06:40 PM

FH is hard to take shopping or anywhere like that because he's like a kid who has to touch everything and play with it. He also acts really immature when we're out. Although he leads a pretty "grown-up" life (married and divorced already and works full time as well as goes to school full time at age 21) he's such a kid sometimes, which is cute, but not always appropriate.

nikkiana

07-10-2006, 06:52 PM

I mostly wish he'd just grow up sometimes... none of those other issues are really a problem... other than A... sometimes he plays video games too much, but that seems to go through phases.

rainbowtreat

07-11-2006, 09:34 PM

There isnt any of these things I would vote on for Nicholas. He does more then I do arond the house most days. He spends his days off cleaning most of the time. So when eh does take a day and wants to do nothing but play his video games I cant and dont get mad. I dont want him to grow up. He is mature but he and I can be just as silly as we want and get just as excited over the little things. I love the way he is. He works his butt off for us and takes care of me and my kids. He is amazing. No complaints here.

joelyann

07-11-2006, 09:57 PM

I wish mine would be off the computer at a reasonable time or when he is off not be on the xbox playing till 3:00 in the morning. When I have to be at wk early (7 am) thats when he wants to do something and stay up till 1:00 in the morning. BUT I still love him and can't wait to be his wife. Maybe after I am his wife I will have more of a say :bblol: .....yeah right?!

Mrs. Pickering

07-11-2006, 11:05 PM

Ha--I chose stop hogging the remote!! In our house we may as well have only 3 channels--ESPN, ESPN 2 and FSN!!

He acts like it's the end of the world if I want to watch TV while something he wants to watch is on. And I don't watch TV all that often!!

CindySue

07-12-2006, 11:19 AM

Ok...I want to change my vote!!! I voted for Brian to go to bed earlier. But after him staying up last night watching PeeWees playhouse,:bbeek: I think I would rather he grow up a little!!!!!!

MOB Karen

07-12-2006, 11:26 AM

Ok...I want to change my vote!!! I voted for Brian to go to bed earlier. But after him staying up last night watching PeeWees playhouse,:bbeek: I think I would rather he grow up a little!!!!!!

PeeWee's Playhouse? How funny!!! lol :bblol: It is a pretty funny movie. Did he like it?

CindySue

07-12-2006, 11:36 AM

PeeWee's Playhouse? How funny!!! lol :bblol: It is a pretty funny movie. Did he like it?
Well Brians always imitating him to the kids (which my 5 year old finds hilarious) and I believe he has even dressed up as PeeWee for Halloween. He used to watch the show all the time. When they put PeeWees Playhouse on Cartoon Networks Adult Swim, you would have thought Brian just won the lottery!!!:bbconfused:

MOB Karen

07-12-2006, 11:40 AM

Well Brians always imitating him to the kids (which my 5 year old finds hilarious) and I believe he has even dressed up as PeeWee for Halloween. He used to watch the show all the time. When they put PeeWees Playhouse on Cartoon Networks Adult Swim, you would have thought Brian just won the lottery!!!:bbconfused:

I can already tell, I really like Brian!!! :D

CindySue

07-12-2006, 11:52 AM

I can already tell, I really like Brian!!! :D
You want him? Ill give him to ya!!!

SerendipityCrafts

07-12-2006, 12:04 PM

I don't have any complaints about Hugh (unless him zoning out when he watched tv is something serious enough to complain about)

Now if you asked me to complain about my first husband well, I would tell you to pull up a chair, make yourself comfy and you might as well plan for a long chat!

cowboysbride

07-12-2006, 12:09 PM

I can't really do this poll either. After 12 years together there isn't one thing I can think of that I wish he wouldn't do. Anything I am doing whether it is cleaning the house, folding the laundry, working in the greenhouse or garden, washing the car.....whatever, he is usually right there by my side helping me. He is amazing!! :wub:

AMEN Sister! I know how you feel...the only thing I wish he wouldn't do is work 2nd shift (and he can't help that) I guess Ford Motor Co needs him right where he is, but is sucks! It does make our time together even sweeter though!

CindySue

07-12-2006, 12:25 PM

Im with Elizabeth on the loooooonnnngggg chat if we were discussing my ex. :bbmad:
But I have a question ladies......what it this question was asked to our sweeties. Do we know what they would say? If we have little minor beefs about them, then you can bet your *** that they have some about us.
Mine would be me staying off in my own little world.

HalloweenBride

07-12-2006, 08:23 PM

Mine likes to sleep too much, and it drives me up the wall!

BriansBride07

08-19-2006, 12:12 PM

My only real complaint is that at times he thinks that he is still a teenager and also has the mind/body of a teenager not really sure what he thinking at those times apparently he isn't LOL. ex. when he thinks he is invinsible on the big boy toys ends up getting hurt at times.

EarlyBird

09-22-2007, 03:15 PM

its actually a list :)

I wish that he would
help around the house, not spend so much time in the media room, come to bed earlier so he wasnt so tired all the time, stop working in the middle of the nights, help with the puppies a little more and cook (i do NOT want him to clean!!!!! he sucks at it)

okay now while all of you are going "what a b*tch, why are you marrying hjim then?" I think everything is a trade off- those things are all what i would want him to do IDEALLY!! however, like i said everything is a trade off- and i am lucky enough to be able to work from home and not have to bring in as much money as i used to b/c he has a great job and allows me to just kind of take care of the house and stuff while he pays the bills. Now thats not to say im in it for money- im just saying everything is a trade off- if he were to do all that stuff, i would have nothing left to do and he would probably remember that i should get out there and start working full time again hehehe :) but seriously i love my fh so much and everything is a trade off-