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MOB Karen
06-29-2006, 12:18 AM
Let us know who you think will cry first at your wedding.

WebLady
06-29-2006, 12:21 AM
My dad cried a little at our wedding during the pictures afterward and then I just couldn't stop myself ;) I Love my Daddy!

SerendipityCrafts
06-29-2006, 01:12 AM
Hugh - Hugh will definately cry first.

Amber818
06-29-2006, 01:37 AM
It is a toss up between myself and my mom...I am a ball bag and my mom is an even bigger ball bag..who knows?!?!?

sweet bride
06-29-2006, 07:05 AM
i'll say unexpected answer mygrandma will cry first because i'm living with her she will miss me so much

AngelinLove
06-29-2006, 07:07 AM
I will say me!! I am pretty emotional and I honestly don't know how long I will hold it together!!! I think my FMIL will be a close second though!!!!

Jopet
06-29-2006, 07:44 AM
Oh that's a hard one it's got to be between my dad and FH hmm i'll say dad because he will see mw first then my WHOLE family then me seeing all them cry will make me cry and I am not much of a cryer. :bbeek:

MOB Karen
06-29-2006, 08:38 AM
It is a toss up between myself and my mom...I am a ball bag and my mom is an even bigger ball bag..who knows?!?!?

Thank you, Amber!! I think it will be me too!! I start crying when I read the words to our Mother/Daughter dance song, I Turn to You, by Christina Aguilera. :bawling: LOL!!

LaceyinPgh
06-29-2006, 08:57 AM
Sean and I didn't cry when we got married. My mom and MOH bawled though. You would have thought that they were at an execution instead of a wedding.

brewsells
06-29-2006, 09:03 AM
Like, Amber, I think it will be a toss up between my Mom and I. Honestly, I think my mom will cry before the ceremony starts! LOL. I can guarantee you though, that I will cry.

hummingbird521
06-29-2006, 10:36 AM
I was the first to cry. But it took a little while, during the whole ceremony jerry kept making faces at me and sticking out his tongue, rolling his eyes. anything to keep me from crying. There were a few times i had to bite my tongue to keep from actually laughing out loud at him. You should see the videotape of it. it's sooo funny to watch him making the faces.

cowboysbride
06-29-2006, 10:42 AM
Sean and I didn't cry when we got married. My mom and MOH bawled though. You would have thought that they were at an execution instead of a wedding.

LOL My first husband's mother and little sister (who also stood up with me, I won't call her a bridesmaid) absolutely SOBBED during the wedding I mean we're talking long, ragged ,deep breaths followed by sobs that shook the chapel! I actually turned and looked at my ex-MIL and told her to stop...I couldn't hear the officiant! That's an entirely different story OMG the **** I took from those people!

Anyway Dad teared up the last time and had a death grip on my hand (after the divorce he said he wanted to say something but Mom told him not to) and I had to actually pull myself free (you can see it in the video) and my ex b*tched about it for months! This time I know he will get emotional because he loves Eric so much and is genuinely happy for us! So dad will cry and then I probably will!

usahgrad
06-29-2006, 02:10 PM
I don't know if this truly counts...but it was my friend right before the wedding who started crying. I almost cried...I was on the brink most of the ceremony...but no tears! One nasty snot drip that made for an interesting joke later...:) but no tears. Jason didn't cry either...he was really happy!

countrygirl
06-29-2006, 02:11 PM
My mom, then me. Then my mom, again, and again, and again.

She's more of a baby than I am.:bawling:

WhiskeyGirl
06-29-2006, 02:27 PM
Lol...we actually cried at the rehersal first. My mom,dad,me, my MOH and one BM let the water works start. At the actual wedding I believe it was me who shed the first tear.I think Matthew actually had tears in his eyes when my dad and I came up the aisle. I love my man!!

LizabethDavis
06-29-2006, 05:40 PM
Hard-telling, but I am guessing it will be me. I would really like for it to be Patrick though so that he can't tell me to stop crying! My MOH will probably start in with it too I am sure.

rainbowtreat
06-29-2006, 07:24 PM
Well I did the crying first. Nicholas had to wipe the tears from my face and Lizabeth told me to stop or she was gonna cry. Now the officant crying while marrying us would have been interesting. My mom said she had to stop herself a few times. Like when she put my hand in Nicholas' and shen she danced with me. And just watching us. I thik as she left the dance floor after dancing with me she had a little tear.

Nicholas' mom cried during her dance with Nihcolas. She told him she was gonna get him for this lol. She also held his pants up for him lol. Another sotry if ya havent read my journal its in there.

LizabethDavis
06-29-2006, 07:27 PM
Well Gwen, the officiant did have a little tear in her eye! I told you to stop so that I wouldn't start bawling!!:D

katieandalex
06-30-2006, 12:35 PM
Probably my FH....hes a very emotional person. I doubt that I will cry on my wedding day at all....but I'm almost positive that he will at least pop out a couple tears.

Kacie_bride
06-30-2006, 08:32 PM
I wont cry unless something goes wrong. I am not a happy cryer. I only cry when something goes wrong. My mom will be in tears though or one of my aunts. My mom will be the first I suspect. She bawled when I graduated from high school!

MOB Karen
06-30-2006, 08:45 PM
I wont cry unless something goes wrong. I am not a happy cryer. I only cry when something goes wrong. My mom will be in tears though or one of my aunts. My mom will be the first I suspect. She bawled when I graduated from high school!

That is so funny! I have never heard it put that way before, Kacie... a happy cryer! That is just what I am. Of course, I'm a sad cryer too, and a neutral cryer. I have been known to cry over a fricking commercial, for gosh sake! I'm just be a blubbering idiot sometimes.:)

WebLady
06-30-2006, 10:08 PM
I am just an emotional cryer ... happy, sad, it doesn't matter and if I'm on on my period LOOK OUT ;) I cry when I see others cry too, no cries alone in my presence ;)

GrantsBride2B
11-11-2006, 05:16 AM
I know it will be me then my daddy cause i know the minute he takes my hand to walk me down the isle im gunna lose it i cried like a baby when i moved from mississippi to north carolina!

MOB Karen
11-11-2006, 06:22 AM
It is a toss up between myself and my mom...I am a ball bag and my mom is an even bigger ball bag..who knows?!?!?

Back in June, Amber posted this. But in reality, at the wedding in September, I was the first one to cry. lol

BriansBride07
11-11-2006, 03:11 PM
I am a blatt a$$ so I will be the first to cry. Then it will be a close second between my sister and my mother.

lize566
11-11-2006, 04:04 PM
That is so funny! I have never heard it put that way before, Kacie... a happy cryer! That is just what I am. Of course, I'm a sad cryer too, and a neutral cryer. I have been known to cry over a fricking commercial, for gosh sake! I'm just be a blubbering idiot sometimes.:)
Karen-my mom and I are the exact same way! We cry over every touching or sad thing! That being said, I am sure my mom will cry, I will be shocked if my dad cries although he may surprise me, I will cry and my aunts will probably cry too. The first person crying though will be my grandma. The reason for this and for my aunts crying is because we are getting married on my grandfathers birthday and he passed away this past june so it is going to be super hard for some of us, ecspecially my grandma, but she was the one who suggested we get married on his birthday. She says it would mean so much to her, and that he would be honored.

Craigs_Girl
11-13-2006, 12:10 PM
It's a toss up between me and my grandmother... although she will probably be the first one and I will in turn cry then.

AllyM1
11-13-2006, 12:37 PM
I didn't cry until after the ceremony, I think it was all the emotions just coming out and I didn't have my Grandma or Uncle there because they passed away years ago.

But when I turned around and looked in the crowd, my DH's grandpa was crying and my friend was crying.

SaralovesMike
11-13-2006, 01:25 PM
Hmmmm, if it isn't me it will be a toss up bet my FH and my mom. Of course as soon as I see them then I'll start. No one cries alone in my presence either!

Valmai
11-14-2006, 07:13 AM
I am dreading this cos i know i will cry - i am a very emotional person and cry! Its the only thing im worried about incase it spoils my vows, my make up, the pics lol and so on! x

ikkin510
11-14-2006, 06:37 PM
I honestly couldn't tell you who cried first that day. I know I didn't cry, although I was close. The only person I saw was Steve when I was walking down the aisle. I know there was one little tear when I got to him (it was so sweet.) I don't know if my mom cried or not, or if my MIL did (although I'm sure she did at some point.)

Jenn060306
11-15-2006, 10:40 AM
My mom got a little teary eyed when we were in the church office. I got teary eyed walking down the isle.

jeni740
11-15-2006, 05:49 PM
Fh's sister or me guaranteed to be one of us, my sister is a maybe, I will not know until 08 though, by then no one will even care LOL JK, still trying to get FH to get married next year with no luck yet, but its worth a try

FutureBride
11-18-2006, 07:32 PM
Probably me.

kevinsbride2B
11-20-2006, 03:17 PM
kev and I are both teary people. I'll start to cy when I hear the music, but I know Kev will start to bawl as soon as he sees me and he'll be choking back the tears long before.

lea m
11-21-2006, 06:41 AM
My mum definitely!! She cries at tv weddings never mind her own daughters!! in fact she gets teary everytime i mention the wedding!!! lol

ElizabethV.
11-26-2006, 03:23 PM
Most definitely my mom! She'll be crying from before I even walk down the aisle.

SoontobeMrsClark07
12-05-2006, 10:29 AM
It'll be me... I'm sure of it... and then it'll be my mom... We're a crying bunch. I think Jonathan might even shed a tear too.