When are you going to have children?

[MOB Karen]

Let us know when and if you are going to have children.

[ikkin510]

We are kinda in between the first two answers. We just talked about this the other day. We plan on starting to try next summer. So just under a year.

[LaceyinPgh]

Sean and I have no real idea when we want to start a family. We just knw that it won't be in the near future. We want to buy a new house next year, get a lot of traveling in, get better established in my job, and just enjoy being with each other first. It probably won't be for at least 2-3 years. My biological clock isn't ticking. But, Sean is going to be 38 in July so we can't afford to wait too many years either.

[WebLady]

Well as some of you may know, DH and I are not having children. He got a vasectomy just before we met, and since I didn't want kids either, it was just a big bonus for me :D

We do have two 'furkids' (our dogs) though ;)

[MOB Karen]

Well as some of you may know, DH and I are not having children. He got a vasectomy just before we met, and since I didn't want kids either, it was just a big bonus for me :D

We do have two 'furkids' (our dogs) though ;)

It seems like you and your DH were meant for each other, Brandi! And I mean that in the most sincere way!!!

[WebLady]

It seems like you and your DH were meant for each other, Brandi! And I mean that in the most sincere way!!!
I really like to think so, we have so much in common and seem to want the same things :wub: :p ;)

[rainbowtreat]

I have children already and if for some reason we cant have one together it is not a huge issue, I wouldnt say my clock is ticking but we have started trying, actualy started before the wedding.

[MOB Karen]

I have children already and if for some reason we cant have one together it is not a huge issue, I wouldnt say my clock is ticking but we have started trying, actualy started before the wedding.

Have fun trying, Gwen!!! And good luck!!!

[AngelinLove]

Well as some of you may know, DH and I are not having children. He got a vasectomy just before we met, and since I didn't want kids either, it was just a big bonus for me :D

We do have two 'furkids' (our dogs) though ;)

I was just wonderin, did your DH have kids before or did he just decide that he never wanted to have them?

[AngelinLove]

Joel and I are planning to start trying about a year or so after the wedding. We both want to have kids soon, but not too soon. We want to get a house first!!!!

[theweddinghelper]

I couldn't vote bc I want them immediately but my biological clock isn't ticking yet! :) We have been trying for a long time, I should have already seen a specialist by now!

[Jenn060306]

Mark and i have decided we are going to begin trying in Janurary. Once i have been at my job a little longer and we have some money saved up so i can take some time off work. :D

[WhiskeyGirl]

Everyone knows my answer to this question, but we have been trying for almost two years. We are hoping that soon I will get pregnant!! After all I've put my body through with fertility meds and acupuncture, I would love for this to be over soon.

[LizabethDavis]

I already have two kiddos, but we want another one, I just don't know when we will be trying for another.

[darkangel090260]

we have a total of 3 children i would like a nother girl but not untill after our wedding. maybe when Adara hits 2 or 3

[Kacie_bride]

We are probably going to wait 1- 2 years after the wedding. We will see how things are financially and we would like to buy a house first. A lot of it will depend on Justin's success at his new job that he is starting and what I find after I graduate in December.

[katieandalex]

I voted for not for at least 5 years. We both want to be financially stable, living in a house, have most of a debt paid off and we both need to grow up A LOT. He keeps saying he doesn't want to have children...but its only because he thinks that if he says "Yeah, I want to have children some day" that we will end up having a kid tomorrow. But someday we want to have kids, but its definitely not going to be for a while.

[sweet bride]

hi everybody i hope i have baby a fter one year of marriage

[brewsells]

Well, i didn't know which one to click. I already have 2 but we plan on another in about a year. .

[MOB Karen]

Well, i didn't know which one to click. I already have 2 but we plan on another in about a year.


I would say not for a year or two.

[usahgrad]

We were going to start right after the wedding, but when Jason lost his job, we lost our health insurance and the finances for children. So we decided to wait at least a year. We discussed waiting until I was done with my graduate degree, but we haven't really decided one way or another on that yet either. We do know it will be sometime between now and menapause! :)

[cowboysbride]

Eric and I are going to start trying very soon, the only thing we may wait on is the farm...as some of you know we are in the process of waiting for the 130 acre farm of our dreams to post at auction (legal holdups). It should be this fall and then if we get it, it may take us 3-4 months to remodel the house and then we will start trying. If the farm doesn't come up for auction this fall we will begin trying, I was just trying to wait until we are settled so that we wouldn't be trying to remodel and move with a new baby...but we will deal with whatever happens.

[theweddinghelper]

hi everybody i hope i have baby a fter one year of marriage

Just wanted to say hi back and welcome you to our group. :) Incase no one else has said it yet.

[WebLady]

I was just wonderin, did your DH have kids before or did he just decide that he never wanted to have them?
Nah, neither of us have kids ... we just know we don't want them. I have a niece and we have the 'furkids' so that is plenty enough ;)