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What are you doing for your man for Valentine's day?
I want to figure out something special, unique, and that doesn't cost much money - since we're buying a house and he's not allowed to buy me anything. I need ideas ladies!!
kgvettegirl
02-12-2009, 10:15 AM
I made a card and I'm making him a apple pie.
WebLady
02-12-2009, 10:22 AM
We don't usually do anything special for the "halmark holiday" ;) But I will make him a card :wub:
nutfry
02-12-2009, 10:27 AM
I usually just give him a card and candy and make him a special supper.
I like the idea of cooking him something special. I always cook for him - and usually it's something a little different and out of the ordinary, but I think I'll ask him 'nonchalantly' what his absolute favorite meal is (besides mashed potatoes and spaghetti LOL).
amisteratwisterandme
02-12-2009, 10:29 AM
Last year I made him a cd of songs that reminded me of our relationship from beginning to present tense.
Since we were friends first, I started out with a song that was about friendship turning into something more, then went through the songs that were special to us over the years.
Last year, I bought a heart shaped pizza and baked it and we had a picnic in the living room.
This year...IDK yet.
Last year I made him a cd of songs that reminded me of our relationship from beginning to present tense.
Since we were friends first, I started out with a song that was about friendship turning into something more, then went through the songs that were special to us over the years.
Last year, I bought a heart shaped pizza and baked it and we had a picnic in the living room.
This year...IDK yet.
I think the heart shaped pizza is genius.. I saw that at Papa Murphys! That CD idea is awsome!
Micah's bride
02-12-2009, 10:31 AM
Ugh...I usually love Valentines, it's always been my favorite holiday, but this year I'm just not that into it. I am blaming it on the fact that this wedding is consuming my life. I guess I'm going to get FH a bottle of Greg Norman wine(he loves wine and Greg Norman, so I can't go wrong with that) and a new holster for his handgun. Not very romantic, but it's what he wanted.
savepaws
02-12-2009, 10:35 AM
This year we aren't buying each other gifts because of our financial situation but I did buy bacon, sausage & eggs when I went grocery shopping so that I could make him a nice big breakfast. If we eat breakfast its usually cereal so this will be a special treat for us. We are going to rent movies and just have the whole day to ourselves. We usually go out Saturday nights so it'll be nice with just the two of us.
JJsWifey08
02-12-2009, 10:35 AM
We are getting a hotel room for the night and eating out or maybe in and watch movies and spend quality time since we have 3 children and really need it
Ninedays9
02-12-2009, 10:36 AM
I was thinking it'd be cute to write a little love letter, saying how excited I am to be getting married to him and how happy I am that we're together. It's sappy, of course, but I think he would love it. When we were in our apartment, I once taped a little note that just said "I love you!" (folded with his name on it, so it didn't show what it said) to the door before he got home from work, and he loved it.
Hmmm... I might do it.
savepaws
02-12-2009, 10:37 AM
Ugh...I usually love Valentines, it's always been my favorite holiday, but this year I'm just not that into it. I am blaming it on the fact that this wedding is consuming my life. I guess I'm going to get FH a bottle of Greg Norman wine(he loves wine and Greg Norman, so I can't go wrong with that) and a new holster for his handgun. Not very romantic, but it's what he wanted.
LOL It doesn't sound romantic to you or I but I know my FH would love it if I bought him a holster or anything for his glock. That would make his day. :)
Kfancii
02-12-2009, 10:43 AM
I already bought him his gift - a set of Bose headphones so that he can plug into his PA system and play all of his instruments without the sound consuming the entire house. (We really need that music building because I'm cramping his musical creativity)
We have decided to go to a Flyball Tournament on Saturday to check out the sport to see if our 2 youngest fur-kids might be trained to play. It looks really neat and since our dogs are such a big part of our life, this looks like a good hobby we could share as well as tire out the boys!
After the Flyball Tournament, I thought I might cook him dinner- Chicken and Dumplings which he loves and I have never made before. I guess I should start looking for a good recipe!
I was thinking it'd be cute to write a little love letter, saying how excited I am to be getting married to him and how happy I am that we're together. It's sappy, of course, but I think he would love it. When we were in our apartment, I once taped a little note that just said "I love you!" (folded with his name on it, so it didn't show what it said) to the door before he got home from work, and he loved it.
Hmmm... I might do it.
I would so do this - but he and I do that all the time to each other LOL. I don't think he'd find it out of the ordinary or especially special if I did this. I love the hotel idea - relaxing. We're supposed to be with family all day on Saturday :huh: I'd have to do something either early or late.
Jacobs_Girl
02-12-2009, 10:52 AM
I got him a card with a button he can wear it says I would be lost without my wife LMAO
I also got him a $25 gift card to Bass Pro Shops for his fishing needs
and I went to victoria secrets, they have a discounted section. I got a bra for $3 and mismatching underwear for $4 that I am going to wear that night.
Total = $35.50
amisteratwisterandme
02-12-2009, 11:05 AM
I think the heart shaped pizza is genius.. I saw that at Papa Murphys! That CD idea is awsome!
That's where I got it. We just sat on the floor with the coffee table between us and had candles and beer.
It seems like the simple things are what really make it great.
We are going to our favorite smorgasboard ...........so goes the diet
in the past I've:
baked him a heart shaped cake
bought him a diamond earring
made him his favorite meal and decorated the bedroom with candles and rose petals
turned the living room into an island, complete with sand and pretended we were in Hawaii, drinks/food/leis, etc
that one was cool
I'm fresh out of ideas, so he said we'll just go to the Shady Maple
he's gotten me cards/balloons/flowers and stuffed animals already
BarceloMayaPalaceBride
02-12-2009, 01:11 PM
I made him a card with all the love notes we've written eachother over the years. :) I'm also on a mission to find him 3 different kinds of beer that he can't find at the local liquor stores. There's a HUGE liquor store up the road so I'm hoping they carry the beer. Romantic heh? LOL
tha_mrs
02-12-2009, 01:34 PM
We are getting a hotel room for the night and eating out or maybe in and watch movies and spend quality time since we have 3 children and really need it
Here,here! We have 2 kids.
mitch
02-12-2009, 01:43 PM
A Giant slab of Chocolate with His Name in White Chocolate. That way He knows i wont take a bite. Because it's His. :winktongue:
I got one from a Friend for My Birthday and it was yummy. :)
Was fun looking for a Slushy Valentine Card with "Husband" on the front.
tha_mrs
02-12-2009, 02:12 PM
I didn't put what I wanted to do on here(lol)His fav drink is Jack Daniels. I know that he would love to get his hands on a bottle of single barrel. sooooo I'd like to get him a bottle. He'd be like a kid on christmas. He'd prob. never ever open it.(lol)
amisteratwisterandme
02-12-2009, 06:00 PM
I made him a card with all the love notes we've written eachother over the years. :) I'm also on a mission to find him 3 different kinds of beer that he can't find at the local liquor stores. There's a HUGE liquor store up the road so I'm hoping they carry the beer. Romantic heh? LOL
O O O...
Great idea. He loves dark beer. It is hard to find but I am on a mission!
Docsgirl
02-12-2009, 08:09 PM
We're going over to one of his higher ups' houses to teach him and his wife how to make sushi. The guys set it up and I reminded DH yesterday that Saturday was Valentine's Day. So he said that we'd just go over there on Sunday.......but today he asked if it was okay if we went over there on Saturday after all, because they don't have plans. I had a really romantic night planned with a candlelit dinner and a yummy cake for dessert, a bottle of champagne, and his favorite record that we could put on and dance to. Looks like that plan just went right out the window.:( Giving cooking/non-cooking lessons it is.
NurseLau84
02-12-2009, 08:17 PM
DH went out today and bought some filet mignon; we're going to cook dinner together. :) The plan is to cook, eat, he'll probably have a captain & coke and I'll have some wine. Then we're going to rent a movie and RELAX! It's been a hectic week.
On our little anniversary getaway, he had some port with dinner. He absolutely loved it and I tried to get him the same kind, but the restaurant orders it privately from Portugal. :( They told me a comparable bottle of port to get. I also got him a set of specialty port sipping glasses.
We are celebrating on Sunday since we both work on Saturday. We're thinking about going to a local place that has bottomless mimosas for $10 per person with brunch. I'm going to try to surprise him and have a day of geocaching on our bikes. He's been wanting to start doing it and is sooo excited about a modern day treasure hunt. A stop by a book store and coffee shop along the way will probably happen too! We have a giftcard for the movies so that's something else that we might do.
NOTKT
02-13-2009, 01:53 AM
I don't know I'll probably just get him a card, I really wish I knew what he would like! Oh wait! I think I got an idea! Haha!
We are going to a comedy club Saturday night, that will be fun :)
Nekochanpurr
02-13-2009, 04:53 PM
I got a coupon for a free card (you know, the kind that plays music?) and i wrote a note in it. We are a bit broke this year. XD
MrsDM
02-13-2009, 05:02 PM
In all honestly, I'm not a huge Valentine person. Although, this year, I've made an exception. With all thats going on with the house drama, I'm surprising FH tonight with hockey tickets, just so we can kinda de-stress and have some fun! Even though it was more of a "just because" thing, I guess I can count it as V-day too!
WebLady
02-14-2009, 09:54 AM
Oh man, I just found the sweetest card on my desk from DH and I haven't gotten him one yet! I was going out to lunch with my sister and planned to get one on the way home ... I feel bad for waiting till the last minute now :(
Jacklynn
02-14-2009, 09:57 AM
I am on duty all day today, so we have to be home all day/weekend (literally I can't leave the dorm until Monday at 7:30am lol) so we aren't really doing anything. Maybe we will do something Monday, we both have the day off that day (which is a rare treat for us). But I did give him a card I made with my cricut and made him from pancakes for breakfast.
FutureKelley
02-14-2009, 12:14 PM
We decided not to buy gifts this year. There is just sooo much going on in the next couple of months (March: my birthday & bridal shower, April: wedding, May: his birthday, honeymoon) that we decided it would just be too much.
We are however going to get dressed up and go have dinner at our favorite restraunt. It's the only day of the year that we treat ourselves to expensive food. ;)
Micah's bride
02-14-2009, 12:41 PM
I ended up making FH breakfast in bed, which was supposed to be a surprise. But after his Gramma called to say his mom needed to go to the hosiptal at 7 a.m., that kind of got ruined. So I ended up telling him my plan when he got home around 10 and he went back to 'sleep' so that I could make him heart shapped cinnamon rolls and mimosas.
NOTKT
02-14-2009, 01:34 PM
I ended up making FH breakfast in bed, which was supposed to be a surprise. But after his Gramma called to say his mom needed to go to the hosiptal at 7 a.m., that kind of got ruined. So I ended up telling him my plan when he got home around 10 and he went back to 'sleep' so that I could make him heart shapped cinnamon rolls and mimosas.
Aww, that is really sweet!
Kirby
02-14-2009, 02:12 PM
I bought him LG Dare phone.
Today we are going on an overnight trip out of town and going to dinner, out for drinks, and staying at a hotel. :)
Docsgirl
02-14-2009, 02:26 PM
I made him a cake and wrote our little "inside" way of saying I Love You on it, along with a heart. He thought it was adorable...and has eaten about half of it already! LOL
ChristineLS
02-14-2009, 02:29 PM
Made a dinner of bruschetta, Italian bread, and smoked salmon last night, and today gave him some white chocolate truffles (his favorite) and dried mango slices.
WebLady
02-14-2009, 02:51 PM
OK, so I got a card ... he said he wanted pizza for dinner, so I am going to try to make a heart shaped one :)
tootsie
02-14-2009, 05:20 PM
We're going to Hard Rock Cafe tomorrow. We don't usually buy each other stuff for V-Day. We are saving every penny for our trip to Europe next year. Hubby keeps bringing up going out to eat; he's really excited about it. I am too. We really like spending time together and we have great conversations at lunch/dinner time.
L.J.Aguirre
02-15-2009, 04:10 AM
i took him out to outback steakhouse tonight and i'm still bloated from it haha! the food was great... and so was the bill but it's v-day so whatever :o
i also got him a funny card. well it wasn't funny till i started doodling all over it making it unique and a box of chocolates which i'm guilty of partially eating :winktongue:
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