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cowboysbride
06-16-2006, 02:46 PM
Well today was a day from hell, I got up this morning and my mother decided to tell me that she wasn't going to look for a dress she couldnt find anything she liked, nothing fit and blah blah blah. My sister fought most of the day yesterday with her 2 girls (in their 20's) becasue when mom's away the girls do play and then she threatened going home today (my shower is tomorrow)!

Work went to hell in a handbag, we went off the air twice ,our soaps were out of order and preempted due to GOLF and every bon bon eating, potatoe couch woman between the ages of 20-80 decided to call me and scream at me because Days or Our Lives wasnt on at it's normal time..........

My FSIL decided today would be the day that she starts contributing (starting telling me what colors the mothers dresses shoudl be) to my wedding (she is also the 2nd MOH) and hasnt done jack **** until NOW and wouldn't even acknowledge the wedding until today for some freaking reason. She also chose to call me and start drilling me about where HER dress was expected to be here...again no interest until today, I ordered it and paid for it because she kept putting it off....not to mention that she's elpreggo and it had to be ordered 2 sizes bigger and hope to God it can be altered to fit...(while I was writing this it came in) and its HUGE, dear Lord please let this work.

I have been crying since 1030 today, my head is screaming with a Migraine and the only peace I have had was when two of the girls here went to lunch and bought us a milkshake maker off of our registry and brought it and lunch to me...which made me cry (they knew what a horrible day I was having).

I'm sorry I'm frustrated, exhausted and feel like crawling into a hole.

CindySue
06-16-2006, 03:20 PM
Oh Ellen....I feel for you girl!
I can remember the days right before my wedding when it seemed like everything went wrong on the same day. And I definitely did my fair share of crying.
Hang in there girl...It WILL get better!

WhiskeyGirl
06-16-2006, 03:37 PM
Ok! Ellen! take a deep breath! Let it out. Breath girl friend!! Breath!

Sorry this is all happening today! Like Cindy, I spent many days crying before my wedding too! lol. My SIL/MOH decided to pull rank on me a month and a half before the wedding and quit taking her daughter (my FG), son (my RB) and husband/my brother (and my MC for the reception) with her!! It was horriable, I literally almost needed to be medicated I was hyper ventalating and crying so hard. Luckily it all worked out, and we made up (not completely as we still don't talk much anymore! Oh well) and it will work out for you too! Tell your SIL the number for the place where her dress is and tell her to handle it. Tell your sister that her leaving will hurt you immensley and that you need her! Tell your mom that she HAS TO GET A DRESS and TO QuIT stressing you out!! lol. It will all get better. Oh and tell all those women who call in about the soaps to get a life and find something better do with their time when the schedule gets messed up. It's not your fault and you don't have to take their BS...however you may lose your job but hey, you're planning a wedding and you don't need their whining! lol Take care Honey! It'll fall into place I promise and if it doesn't, I give you full permission to fly here and kick me!! Lol!! :)

Kacie_bride
06-16-2006, 03:39 PM
I'm sorry Ellen. I hope you get to feeling better.

CindySue
06-16-2006, 04:01 PM
Actually Ellen, If it was my mom, Id tell her has has until such and such date to find a dress or she can give me her size and I will pick one out for her. Our opinions differ greatly on our wardrobes!!! Make sure she understands naked is NOT an option!!!!

WhiskeyGirl
06-16-2006, 04:05 PM
Actually Ellen, If it was my mom, Id tell her has has until such and such date to find a dress or she can give me her size and I will pick one out for her. Our opinions differ greatly on our wardrobes!!! Make sure she understands naked is NOT an option!!!!

lol...with my mom that is definately NOT an option either! lol hee hee!! But I love my mommy anyhow!! :)

CindySue
06-16-2006, 04:53 PM
lol...with my mom that is definately NOT an option either! lol hee hee!! But I love my mommy anyhow!! :)
Oh I love mine too....now. Shes 52 and sometime areound the time she turned 50, she decided shes a biker chick. Her BF just bought her a Harley. I have a pic but dont know how shed feel about me posting it.
Oh well heres my mom and her bike!
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b364/Cindysue3132/PATS_BIKE_3.jpg

Sorry Ellen didnt mean to hijack!!!!

Jenn060306
06-17-2006, 03:06 AM
Awww Ellen, I'm sorry you've been having such a miserable day. Sometimes it seems like if one thing is going to go wrong in a day everything eles is going to as well.
Defintatly you should tell your BM that she needs to go and take care of the alterations herself and that you haven't got the time nor energy to take care of it any further for her.
I was pretty fortunet in having really helpful bridesmaids. But i definatly had days from h3ll it seemed where everything was going wrong and i was crying all day at the slightest thing going wrong. I promise you will have some really great days where everything goes perfectly right!
It sounds like you work with some super nice girls who really care about you! I hope you have a better day tommorrow!