Looks like we will be ttc again eventually

[flyerso6]

I went for u/s today and it was bad news. Baby was about 7 weeks in size but no heartbeat. We are sad but ok, I just felt something wasn't right from the begining. Now the hard part is waiting to misscarry.

[Kirby]

I'm so sorry to hear that. :(

[Moon.Dust.]

I'm so sorry!

[LovingLife]

I am so so sorry.

[Danielle9608]

I am so sorry.

[BarceloMayaPalaceBride]

I am truly sorry for your loss...

[tha_mrs]

I am so sorry.

[gwenshack]

Oh wow. I'm so sorry for your loss. We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

[WebLady]

Oh no, I am so sorry :flower: :hug:

[Dani]

I am sorry!

[Tadswife]

I will keep you in my prayers! This is so sad to hear! I'm so very sorry you have go through this. I pray God gives you the strength to get through this!
:hug:

[acidcookie]

Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you and FH!

[ikkin510]

(((hugs))) I'm so sorry!

[Brian's Bride]

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss... I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

[NurseLau84]

((Hugs)) My thoughts are with you and your family. :flower:

[kgvettegirl]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. If you need to talk PM me I've been through it 3 times. Hang in there.

[Goin2thechapel]

Oh no...I'm sooo sorry sweetie! Hang in there :)

[bichonlvr]

That stinks!!!!

The good news is that you DID get pregnant!!!!

Hang in there!

[caligal85]

I know your heart must really be hurting. I'm sorry you're having to go through this. Many hugs and prayers to you.

[val24]

oh no i am so sorry :(

[flyerso6]

Thanks guys. We are doing ok for now. The worst part is waiting for the actual miscarriage, hopefully it happens soon. I am not sure how long I can deal with carrying it around. Im not exactly looking foward to it as the dr. said it will be painful but I just want to get it over with and move on with our lives.

The dr. was really nice about it and tried to make us think positive. He said for most couples the hard part is getting pregnant and now at least we know we can do it. It just wasn't meant to be this time around. He said we have bad sperm and eggs and 25% of the time one of those are bad and it just doesn't work out. Its nothing we did or didnt do. He said next time around I will get in as soon as I find out Im pregnant and be monitored more closely.

[NOTKT]

:( I'm so sorry hun. Everything happens for a reason, maybe it was just not meant to be. This will make you both stronger, I promise.

[Nekochanpurr]

I'm so sorry. :( I'll be praying for you guys!

[Hope75]

Oh I am so sorry to hear that. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[ChristineLS]

((((Hugs)))))

[MrsDM]

I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers your way!

[Jacklynn]

I'm so sorry! I didn't see this until now. Again I am so sorry!

[flyerso6]

well I had a D&C this morning. I had been trying to schedual since monday and yesterday she called and said you are good to go ahead and the dr. is available tomorrow morning (today) but i need to check with the hospital or we can do it next week. The hospital was available today!! It was not what i expected, i figured it would be a typical outpatient thing, going from one waiting room to another ect. well I had to be in the labor and delivery area at 6:30 this morning. I got there and i was the only patient in sight and they were waiting for me. I had the entire outpatiet curtained off area to myself. I was impressed.

The nurse got me ready before shift change and i thought she was going to kill me. She missed on the first iv attempt, it went through my vein so when she turned it on my skin puffed up. She took it out and tried again. both times were pretty painfull but the missed one hurt 10 times worse. Also I hate needles. I was feeling a little weak after that and freezing, the liquid in the iv was ice cold. Then a few min later a lady from the lab came to take my blood. It all went down hill from there, my blood pressure dropped, i almost threw up, got really hot, and came close to passing out. The nruses came, cooled me off and a few min later i was ok. I told them i didnt like needles haha. Dh probably thinks im a drama queen because this isn't the first time this has happend. After about 40 min they were ready for me. I was taken into the operating room, i remember moving to the weird table (im guessing same table used for c-sections) them giving me warm blankets because it was freezing in there. The I remember waking up, i didnt even see them put the drugs to knock me out in my iv.

All I had to do to leave was eat, drink and keep it down, and pee. My surgery was at 8:20ish, done by 8:45, and I was awake around 9:45 (they had a hard time waking me up). and leaving by 10:30.. I dont have any pain either. Over all I am sooo happy its all over and i can get on the long road to getting pregnant again. He said I only need to wait for one period but im going to wait till at least 2 or 3. I would absolutly recommend a D&c to anyone in my situation over misscarrying naturally.

[kgvettegirl]

Also I hate needles. I was feeling a little weak after that and freezing, the liquid in the iv was ice cold. Then a few min later a lady from the lab came to take my blood. It all went down hill from there, my blood pressure dropped, i almost threw up, got really hot, and came close to passing out. The nruses came, cooled me off and a few min later i was ok. I told them i didnt like needles haha. Dh probably thinks im a drama queen because this isn't the first time this has happend.


It's called anaphylactic shock and it is caused by stress. I have it. The doctor fussed at me cause he didn't know that I tend to pass out during stressful medical procedures. Getting my ears pierced, braces put on, wisdom teeth stitches getting taken out.

Hope your feeling more like yourself.

[NOTKT]

Glad it ended up going well. :)

[Mrs.Goff]

So sorry to hear about you lose.

My MOH went through a miscarriage in July at 5 weeks. She waited until Oct. to try again and is now 13 1/2 weeks and baby is doing great.

Glad that your doing well.

It'll happen keep your head up.

[Brian's Bride]

I'm also glad you're feeling better. There are two girls I know who were in similar situations, a co-worker and sis-in-law. SIL now has two kids, and my co-worker also carried her next baby to term. There's hope for you yet!