bridesmaids and alittle venting..

[Teribridetobe]

Hey Gals!

Its been awhile. The start to my summer has been a very busy one. Anyways..... Both of my bridesmaids are not speaking and i have one that wants to b**** about the other to me. I said that i didn't want to get into the middle of it and, all she needed to do was be polite and get through the day. Well everytime she calls she has something to say. As for the wedding preperations.. She was supposed to get her gown from the shop about two months ago. The girls are renting them. She hasn't gone down to put a deposit on it. And they only had one gown in her sizes.I asked her yesterday when she was going to go down. She said with in a few weeks. I feel alittle frustrated because its the only gown. What happens if its gone! Then my seamstress for my gown is moving at the end of the month to the states. I found that out through the grapevine. I asked her about it and she said where you worried about your alterations??? Well yeah! If you aren't going to be around for them. Well, glad to say i found someone else to replace her. Also our jp. has not gotten back to me after repeated attempts to contact her to confirm our date. Anyways. Thanks for listening. I feel bad i haven't been to the site for awhile and then i come and vent.

[Kacie_bride]

Sorry Terri about all the troubles you've had. When is your date again?

[Jenn060306]

How fustrating! I would tell them each how upsetting and difficult it is for you when they won't get along. Maybe they really don't like eachoher but they could definatly play nice for you.
As for your BM who hasn't put the depoist on her dress down you should reminde her that they may no longer have the right size if she doesen't do it soon. And possibly ask her if she is really that interested in being apart of the bridal party. It doesen't seem much like she is to me.
Good luck with your dress! You're seamstress sounds a little bizzar to me. I hope everything works out for you! Keep us posted!

[WhiskeyGirl]

As far as the two girls who hate each other:

I've been in their position. My SIL had me and her sister as a BM and we HATE each other. (hate probably isn't the right word for it, its much stronger than that!) But we both knew that that was what Lea wanted, so we sucked it up and put on happy faces and actually got along for one day! It was kinda weird! Of course now its back to the way it used to be! Lmao

I agree with the other ladies, talk to them and tell them to play nice or they can both take a hike! They are adults and should be able to get along in each others company for short bursts of time and then all day on the day of the wedding! If they won't stop back and forth, give them an ultimatum!! Good luck!

[usahgrad]

Don't worry about just coming on here to vent! We're all here to support you! I know that there was a lot of tension between some of my family members and hope that the people you're having problems with will do the same thing my family did; realize it is your day and do whatever they can to make it as perfect as possible for you because they love you!

Good luck and hope everything works out! Good to see you again too!

[Teribridetobe]

Kacie,
My date is october 14,2006

[Teribridetobe]

Thank you gals!! I will talk to them both. I find one who will be willing to let go while the other will carry on! Thats something they will have to deal with on there own time i guess. I don't want to know or hear about it!! There is enough stress involved. Then when you have two adults acting like children. It doesn't help. Thank you for the welcomed advice!!! Cheers!;)