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Scrwballsgrl
11-17-2008, 01:40 PM
Okay so I spent the weekend with Fh b/c we were going to his last race of the season (go-carts) and its all the way over in Foley (1hr 1/2) from were either of us live and so by the time we get back we're just ready to fall into bed so I just crash over there. Well the next morning we're lying there talking (my fav part of spending the night with Fh:) ) and he says outta the blue...
"So when are you gonna stop taking Bc after were married?" I just looked at him b/c it was so outta the blue...and we don't talk about kids alot (mainly b/c we don't know if he can have children so I try not to bring it up unless he does) but I told him "we'll I would definatley tell you if I stopped taking it but I figured we'd wait til after we move out of the apartment. "(Our plan is to stay in the apt. for 2 years and save up to buy or build a house) He said "well how long can you take it..."meaning the Bc. I told him they used to say 5 years but that was when it first came out and was stronger doses than nowadays, so I figure I can take it til I get ready to stop and just kinda prep my body for pregnancy til we get ready to try; ie vitamins, healthy eating, exercise(stuff I should be doing anyway:)) but it just made me think AW! that he'd been considering that stuff too!

MrsPopetobe09
11-17-2008, 01:57 PM
lol. awh. looks like you have got a plan.
FH and i dnt really have a plan.
but to get my birth control taken out after wedding.

Scrwballsgrl
11-17-2008, 01:59 PM
lol. awh. looks like you have got a plan.
FH and i dnt really have a plan.
but to get my birth control taken out after wedding.

You have an IT? isnt' that what they are called? my sister is using that. She's has nothign but good things to say about them!
Yea we just dont' want to get caught unawares and have a baby with no where to put him/her in an apartment:)

tootsie
11-17-2008, 04:30 PM
You're so lucky. My hubby is scared of me getting pregnant. We call the pill the "no baby" pill. He wants me to stay on the pill until we're both ready for a baby. I keep having baby dreams and researching about pregnancy. I'm just curious, that's all. It freaks him out when I talk about having a baby, but I know he wants one, just not now.