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Kirby
10-29-2008, 01:50 AM
My wedding has come and gone, and I was here for most of my engagement. During that time, I spent a ton of time here, looking at wedding journals and threads about dresses, flowers, cakes, etc.
Now that my wedding is over, I still come here, but don't like to look at those threads very much anymore. I feel like I am all wedding-d out. I still like to come here because I made lots of friends, but I tend to stick to the non-wedding topics. I feel bad because I'm not keeping up on what is going on with everyones' weddings.
Am I the only one? :ooh:
Ninedays9
10-29-2008, 02:33 AM
I haven't had my wedding yet, but I know other people have said they felt the same way. I think it's why some people disappear not long after their weddings... bht hopefully you don't! :)
Nekochanpurr
10-29-2008, 02:37 AM
I sort have been bad for that, too...
Have you found yourself trying to obsess over something else to replace it? o.o; It was a delayed reaction for me.. But geez! I can't stop looking at houses now! lol
mitch
10-29-2008, 04:32 AM
I try to help out with colours etc. But when i go to google for ideas for others. If i don't find something nice within ten pages of images i think fook it and click off the page. Now that's BAD LOL.
Or i read the stresses and think get a grip. It's one day out of Your life. Stop stressing :bbeek:
I only stressed about one thing during My Planning and that was when i looked on Our Witnesses Website and it said they had a gig booked for October 11th. But that stress only lasted 20 minutes and was sorted with a couple of text messages.
So i understand the "All Wedding-d Out" bit.
I think it's because We have come through it We can see that half and a quarter of the worry doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. The "I Do's" were still said even if nothing matched. Or someone wore the wrong colour shoes. We're Married and there's a whole new life ahead of Us.
SerendipityCrafts
10-29-2008, 06:57 AM
Am I the only one? :ooh:
I rarely know what's going on :)
I admit, I am bad for keeping up with journals but I do like the challenges - ie when someone asks for inspiration help.
neebelung
10-29-2008, 08:18 AM
My wedding has come and gone, and I was here for most of my engagement. During that time, I spent a ton of time here, looking at wedding journals and threads about dresses, flowers, cakes, etc.
Now that my wedding is over, I still come here, but don't like to look at those threads very much anymore. I feel like I am all wedding-d out. I still like to come here because I made lots of friends, but I tend to stick to the non-wedding topics. I feel bad because I'm not keeping up on what is going on with everyones' weddings.
Am I the only one? :ooh:
Nah, you're not the only one.. this is actually the ONLY one of my wedding sites I'm still coming back to, and I've deleted the series recordings I had set up on DVR for all my wedding shows... I'm wedding'd out! :lol:
MrsDM
10-29-2008, 10:19 AM
Even though I'm not a Mrs. yet, I don't spend nearly as much time on here as I did during the first part of our engagement. We kinda have a lull in our planning as most everything is planned, just need to get some DIY projects done this winter. I just want the wedding here already!
Jacobs_Girl
10-29-2008, 10:23 AM
Dont worry your not alone :D
I still browse through "New Posts" but dont respond to as many as I use to. Just the ones I am real familiar with, but it seems same topics get asked over and over again so most of the time I just skip over them.
I think to myself I asked that same question 9 months ago, I wonder what happen to that thread lol
candars
10-29-2008, 10:28 AM
Dont worry your not alone :D
I still browse through "New Posts" but dont respond to as many as I use to. Just the ones I am real familiar with, but it seems same topics get asked over and over again so most of the time I just skip over them.
I think to myself I asked that same question 9 months ago, I wonder what happen to that thread lol
I do the same. And sometimes, I don't reply to threads because they already have responses that I agree with.
It's horrible, I get bored, so I get on here. I don't read too many "wedding" posts, I'll mostly read posts where someone needs help or is going through a tough time and needs support or advice.
sweetvenus
10-29-2008, 10:54 AM
Even though I'm not a Mrs. yet, I don't spend nearly as much time on here as I did during the first part of our engagement. We kinda have a lull in our planning as most everything is planned, just need to get some DIY projects done this winter. I just want the wedding here already!
I agree! I have six months to go and I'm already weddinged out, lol.
Jenna5366
10-29-2008, 11:12 AM
I'm getting wedding'd out too, and I'm not married yet either. LOL. I’ve come to the point where I realize that there is nothing more that I can do other than to just enjoy these last 4 months of planning and hope it works out for the best. Yes, I have a lot to do, and no, I don’t know if it will all get done in time, but at the end of the day, it will still be a wonderful day, and I’ll be married to the love of my life. :)
The one big stress I have had was about the BM dresses – and that was because it affected the girls, not me. :rofl:
But yeah, back to the topic. I’m finding I don’t reply to a lot of the thread here anymore, like I would have 5 months ago.
BarceloMayaPalaceBride
10-29-2008, 12:06 PM
Hmmm...I'm not quite married yet but I have to say that I'm not "weddingd out" at all. In fact, I am trying to not count the days down TOO fast because I know it will come and go so quickly. Wedding planning comes very natural to me, and I've SO enjoyed every aspect of it. I LOVE to help other brides out and help in any way I can. I'm one of the few Destination Wedding Brides on here and want to sort of "pave the way" for other DW brides in the future. I also work in an office in front of a computer all day, so I have LOTS of time to get on here. I definetely want to stick around 67 days from now (my wedding date) and help as much as I can. :)
Ohio888Bride
10-29-2008, 12:38 PM
I'm all wedding'd out, too. In fact, I'm not feeling the least bit excited about planning the second wedding. The first one was a private, destination wedding - just DH and me, but we really wanted to have a second wedding and reception to celebrate with friends and family. I also want to be remarried in my church by one of our pastors.
Over lunch one day last week, DH admitted to not wanting to have the second wedding, because we want to do a few major home improvement projects. It was sort of a relief for me at first, but now I'm feeling like I want to have the wedding. LOL! I'm going to drive him crazy - he should be used to it. :D
I keep coming to OW to get the "spirit" that will move me to get jazzed up about planning. I work well under pressure, so maybe the spirit will move me when I'm down to six months.
He_calls_me_Angel
10-29-2008, 11:24 PM
I am very much so over wedding stuff, even though I have a second reception in Oregon coming up in a week lol but I keep coming here because I like the people!
Brian's Bride
10-30-2008, 11:16 AM
Yep, I'm over it, too.
Brian's Bride
10-30-2008, 11:18 AM
Yep, I'm over it, too. And I barely give input anymore because I also agree with what someone else wrote! I mostly log on now while I'm at work out of habit and to see what's new with everyone. But I've noticed that Tango hasn't been around for awhile and Uptown Girl, either. So it does seem that people drop off once the big day has arrived! I've joined a New Kids on the Block forum, but it's just not the same as Onewed! So I keep coming back! :) I really need to find something that occupies my life like the wedding did! I just can't get into the home buying thing yet because our lease isn't up until February, so that seems like too far away to even look.
RosieAngel
10-30-2008, 03:35 PM
Nope, not for me! I don't think I'll ever get tired of reading the wedding planning processes and drama - and looking at all of the pics!
Then again, I was reading my auntie's bridal magazines and shopping for bridesmaid dresses for Bride Barbie's friends before I even liked boys, even though I was raised by parents who encouraged me to be a tomboy. Maybe I'm warped?
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