I Want To Brag!!!!

[countrygirl]

I have an amazing future husband.

I have been very stressed out lately over money, J's ex, and my MOH. Personally, I think that I have been slightly unbareable. And last night when we went to bed, I was irritated, not at J, but just everything else going on.

So, when I couldn't sleep, J stayed up unitl about midnight chatting w me about our childhoods. When I still couldn't sleep, and couldn't even get comfy, I got up to take a shower, to relax. Cover your eyes!!!! Kidding, nothing obscene, but washed my hair (he does an amazing massage on my head), brushed my hair (which was a new experience) and gave me a massage.

We both had to be up at 530 this morn, and he stayed up w me until about 1 am just trying to relax me enough to help me fall asleep.

I am sure that there are many many men who do things like this, but I never had anyone that would do anything like that for me. I love him so much. I cannot wait to become his bride!!!

[Kacie_bride]

That's so sweet Heather. You are a lucky girl indeed!

[MOB Karen]

I'd say you definitely have reason to brag!!!

[CindySue]

Brians like that too. Isnt it wonderful? I have never had a man do stuff like that either. It will make Brian mad when I cant sleep and get up after hes fallen asleep. He says I should have waken him up and he would have stayed up with me.

[Valmai]

aww thats lovely Heather, he sounds great - isnt feeling loved a wonderful feeling!!
Valmai xxx

[cowboysbride]

I agree guys! Eric is that way too (funny how I had to kiss and marry a TOAD the first time to find my prince)!

Eric and I usually go to my place on Sunday nights after church and last Sunday he fluffed up some pillows, got me a blanket and a nice cold glass of Dr. Pepper and then proceeded to rub both my legs from the hip to the toe (again, nothing x-rated)...by the time he was done I couldn't even spell stress much less be stressed!

I am so happy that we all have found the man of our dreams!

[countrygirl]

I agree guys! Eric is that way too (funny how I had to kiss and marry a TOAD the first time to find my prince)!

Eric and I usually go to my place on Sunday nights after church and last Sunday he fluffed up some pillows, got me a blanket and a nice cold glass of Dr. Pepper and then proceeded to rub both my legs from the hip to the toe (again, nothing x-rated)...by the time he was done I couldn't even spell stress much less be stressed!

I am so happy that we all have found the man of our dreams!

That is way cool!! COWBOYS ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!

[WhiskeyGirl]

Hey its not just cowboys but plain old country boys too!! lol. Matthew is always loving and attentive to when I can't sleep too. The other morning he came in to say good bye to me (at 6:40 in the morning) and accidently woke me up. Knowing that he might be late he laid down beside me and started playing with my hair! (It almost instantly makes me fall asleep!! lol) Then I was asleep again, he tip toed out the door and went to school. Matthew is so full of sweetness I get a stomach ache from him sometimes!! lol. For our very first Valentine's day together he planned the most romantic weekend away in the mountains. (We had been together for like a month and half.) Thats when I knew he was a keeper, he was sweet, kind and caring, cute and loveable and I wasn't about to let him go. Lately he's been such a cuddler and I love that! He is the best man I could ask for! We are a bunch of lucky girls, Ladies! These men are priceless!!! Congrats on finding your prince charming!

[countrygirl]

Hey its not just cowboys but plain old country boys too!! lol. Matthew is always loving and attentive to when I can't sleep too. The other morning he came in to say good bye to me (at 6:40 in the morning) and accidently woke me up. Knowing that he might be late he laid down beside me and started playing with my hair! (It almost instantly makes me fall asleep!! lol) Then I was asleep again, he tip toed out the door and went to school. Matthew is so full of sweetness I get a stomach ache from him sometimes!! lol. For our very first Valentine's day together he planned the most romantic weekend away in the mountains. (We had been together for like a month and half.) Thats when I knew he was a keeper, he was sweet, kind and caring, cute and loveable and I wasn't about to let him go. Lately he's been such a cuddler and I love that! He is the best man I could ask for! We are a bunch of lucky girls, Ladies! These men are priceless!!! Congrats on finding your prince charming!

Yeah, they rock too!! Acutally it's funny that you say 'country boy' because when J was in Korea, they nicknamed him 'BIG COUNTRY". He's a big boy. I acutally was going to change my screename today to go along w that.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Yeah, they rock too!! Acutally it's funny that you say 'country boy' because when J was in Korea, they nicknamed him 'BIG COUNTRY". He's a big boy. I acutally was going to change my screename today to go along w that.

Matthew originally moved her from Germany, but he has always been a farmer's son. However they don't really do the wrangler thing in Germany. He went back to Germany a few years ago to a school reunion and all his classmates were ohhing and ahhhing over his new style of dress. (before I came along) There is a picture of one girl hanging off his belt buckle, I laughed so hard at that. I said to him "oh look, she's a buckle bunny and she doesn't even know it!!" I love my country boy! He is the best!!

[countrygirl]

Matthew originally moved her from Germany, but he has always been a farmer's son. However they don't really do the wrangler thing in Germany. He went back to Germany a few years ago to a school reunion and all his classmates were ohhing and ahhhing over his new style of dress. (before I came along) There is a picture of one girl hanging off his belt buckle, I laughed so hard at that. I said to him "oh look, she's a buckle bunny and she doesn't even know it!!" I love my country boy! He is the best!!

That is just way too funny!!!!!!!!! J has always been a country boy. He grew up on Iowa, and lived on a farm for a while, but always worked on farms. He is one of those that will go to a hip hop joint w a straw or felt hat on. It's great. He ex wife never liked the redneck thing, but he still did it all anyway. Now, he doesn't have to worry about it. I AM his buckle bunny!!!

[WhiskeyGirl]

That is just way too funny!!!!!!!!! J has always been a country boy. He grew up on Iowa, and lived on a farm for a while, but always worked on farms. He is one of those that will go to a hip hop joint w a straw or felt hat on. It's great. He ex wife never liked the redneck thing, but he still did it all anyway. Now, he doesn't have to worry about it. I AM his buckle bunny!!!

Oh Matt has always been on the farm, but he was almost killed as a child when his brother ran over him with a tractor. So his dad wouldn't let him do too much and because his mom had almost lost her youngest son she always took him with her every where she went. When they moved to Canada he started to work on the farm more and more. Now he's decided that he's going to spray using helicopters. His brother and dad are excited because it means he will still be apart of the farming operation! I get so mad at his dad and brother though because they still treat him like he could break if he has to do something heavy duty on the farm! Come on people, he can drive every tractor, combine, or Semi Truck he comes across! He knows what he's doing and I'm sure if he sees his brother backing up a tractor he won't be caught behind it again!! That happened when he was 4, how can you compare that to now when he's almost 24?? Sorry...I ranted a little there! lol

[countrygirl]

Oh Matt has always been on the farm, but he was almost killed as a child when his brother ran over him with a tractor. So his dad wouldn't let him do too much and because his mom had almost lost her youngest son she always took him with her every where she went. When they moved to Canada he started to work on the farm more and more. Now he's decided that he's going to spray using helicopters. His brother and dad are excited because it means he will still be apart of the farming operation! I get so mad at his dad and brother though because they still treat him like he could break if he has to do something heavy duty on the farm! Come on people, he can drive every tractor, combine, or Semi Truck he comes across! He knows what he's doing and I'm sure if he sees his brother backing up a tractor he won't be caught behind it again!! That happened when he was 4, how can you compare that to now when he's almost 24?? Sorry...I ranted a little there! lol

I am guessing that would hurt a bit!!!!! Good to know that he wasn't seriously hurt. Otherwise we wouldn't have been able to get to know you!! haha. J/K. I saw a cropdusting heicopter a few months ago. That was interesting. I bet it's fun though.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I am guessing that would hurt a bit!!!!! Good to know that he wasn't seriously hurt. Otherwise we wouldn't have been able to get to know you!! haha. J/K. I saw a cropdusting heicopter a few months ago. That was interesting. I bet it's fun though.

He was seriously hurt. He almost died. They said the only reason why he survived is because he was a child. They said an adult would have died. It's crazy! All the blood vessels in his eyes popped from the pressure of the tractor driving straight over the middle of him! They kept him in a medically induced coma for quite a while! It's really a scary thing to stop and think about. I've seen pictures of the tractor that ran him over, it ain' no John Deere thats for sure...the thing is like a truck but a tractor at the same time and its like twice as heavy. He still has major problems with his back and some of his joints because of the accident!

[countrygirl]

He was seriously hurt. He almost died. They said the only reason why he survived is because he was a child. They said an adult would have died. It's crazy! All the blood vessels in his eyes popped from the pressure of the tractor driving straight over the middle of him! They kept him in a medically induced coma for quite a while! It's really a scary thing to stop and think about. I've seen pictures of the tractor that ran him over, it ain' no John Deere thats for sure...the thing is like a truck but a tractor at the same time and its like twice as heavy. He still has major problems with his back and some of his joints because of the accident!

Poor guy. Is there still damage to his eyes??

[WhiskeyGirl]

Poor guy. Is there still damage to his eyes??

nope thank god! He has the most beautiful brown eyes! lol He just finds he has pain in his stomach area sometimes as well. I can't imagine ever being in his shoes or his parents....or even his brothers. To live with the fact that you ran over your brother and almost killed him....and probably have now caused him to have serious problems with his health for the rest of his life....YIKES!

[countrygirl]

nope thank god! He has the most beautiful brown eyes! lol He just finds he has pain in his stomach area sometimes as well. I can't imagine ever being in his shoes or his parents....or even his brothers. To live with the fact that you ran over your brother and almost killed him....and probably have now caused him to have serious problems with his health for the rest of his life....YIKES!

Well, I can see where his fam would be worried about his doing dangerous things. But, he is an adult, and prob does things carefully now. Does he remember all of it??

[WhiskeyGirl]

Well, I can see where his fam would be worried about his doing dangerous things. But, he is an adult, and prob does things carefully now. Does he remember all of it??

He just says he remembers bits and pieces...like coming to in the ambulance and the EMT asking what his name was and such and Matt thinking his dad was dumb and why couldn't he answer the EMT's questions. He also remembers coming to in the hospital and seeing the clock and his mom and dad here and there. Then as he got better he says he remembers sticking his tongue out at the doctor and he remembers that his doctor was Kinda like Patch Adams. But he doesn't remember much more than that.

[countrygirl]

He just says he remembers bits and pieces...like coming to in the ambulance and the EMT asking what his name was and such and Matt thinking his dad was dumb and why couldn't he answer the EMT's questions. He also remembers coming to in the hospital and seeing the clock and his mom and dad here and there. Then as he got better he says he remembers sticking his tongue out at the doctor and he remembers that his doctor was Kinda like Patch Adams. But he doesn't remember much more than that.

Well, it sounds like they made it somewhat enjoyable for him. There needs to be more Patch Adams's in the world. Making the emotional health is just as important as physical health.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Well, it sounds like they made it somewhat enjoyable for him. There needs to be more Patch Adams's in the world. Making the emotional health is just as important as physical health.

I agree! This world needs a LOT more more caring physicians and not ones who only work Monday-Thursday!! Grrrr! I needed to make a time sensitive appointment this month and they aren't open on FRIDAYS????!!!! I tried last month and they yelled at me for not calling on the first day that I was supposed to! Hello lady that was a sunday!!!! Now I have to call on day four and I know she'll be like, oh you're tough outta luck!! I hate doctors, they make too much money if they can take friday's off!!!! Grrrr! i'm choked right now!

[countrygirl]

I agree! This world needs a LOT more more caring physicians and not ones who only work Monday-Thursday!! Grrrr! I needed to make a time sensitive appointment this month and they aren't open on FRIDAYS????!!!! I tried last month and they yelled at me for not calling on the first day that I was supposed to! Hello lady that was a sunday!!!! Now I have to call on day four and I know she'll be like, oh you're tough outta luck!! I hate doctors, they make too much money if they can take friday's off!!!! Grrrr! i'm choked right now!

I have worked in the medical field for about 5 years now, and have been w an orthodontist for about 6 months. I have seen some very uptight, money hungry doctors, and some very helpful caring ones. It really is amazing to see the ones who really care about thier patients. They are great to work for, and great to go to.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I have worked in the medical field for about 5 years now, and have been w an orthodontist for about 6 months. I have seen some very uptight, money hungry doctors, and some very helpful caring ones. It really is amazing to see the ones who really care about thier patients. They are great to work for, and great to go to.

In the city where I live, I can't even get a regular General Practioner because there are not enough doctors for the amount of people there are here. So I have no idea why this particular doctor would take Fridays off!! I am getting extremely upset because I am going through a rough time in my life and this guy is taking a FRIDAY off??? Come on buddy, at least be open half the day...its not like you don't get Saturday and Sunday off like the rest of the working population!! They've been kinda snotty to me each time I've called them and I hate the fact that I have to even go and see this guy! But its a doctor that I was referred to and can't just switch doctors because in this country you always need a damn referal!!! Grrrrr! Sorry, I'm a raving ranting grumpy person today! lol and the pouring down rain isn't helpin me much!

[cowboysbride]

Matthew originally moved her from Germany, but he has always been a farmer's son. However they don't really do the wrangler thing in Germany. He went back to Germany a few years ago to a school reunion and all his classmates were ohhing and ahhhing over his new style of dress. (before I came along) There is a picture of one girl hanging off his belt buckle, I laughed so hard at that. I said to him "oh look, she's a buckle bunny and she doesn't even know it!!" I love my country boy! He is the best!!

Ohhhhhh, lawd don't get me started on Wrangler Butt's! TOO LATE! My nic for Eric is "Dumpling Butt", he has two perfect little drops on each side...just like grandma's homemade dumplins...round and firm and perfect:bblol: !

COWBOYS, COUNTRY BOYS AND FARM BOYS ALL ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[countrygirl]

In the city where I live, I can't even get a regular General Practioner because there are not enough doctors for the amount of people there are here. So I have no idea why this particular doctor would take Fridays off!! I am getting extremely upset because I am going through a rough time in my life and this guy is taking a FRIDAY off??? Come on buddy, at least be open half the day...its not like you don't get Saturday and Sunday off like the rest of the working population!! They've been kinda snotty to me each time I've called them and I hate the fact that I have to even go and see this guy! But its a doctor that I was referred to and can't just switch doctors because in this country you always need a damn referal!!! Grrrrr! Sorry, I'm a raving ranting grumpy person today! lol and the pouring down rain isn't helpin me much!

In Canada, you have guarenteed insurance if you are employed, right?? Is that why you HAVE to have a ref??

[WhiskeyGirl]

In Canada, you have guarenteed insurance if you are employed, right?? Is that why you HAVE to have a ref??

I am not employed and even when I was the insurance company that my company had wouldn't take me on because I was on anti depressants years ago. We do have insurance for basic health care visits...like to see a regular doctor, gyno and some specialists. This doctor SHOULD be covered under that but I am not sure about the procedure I need to have done. I am supposed to be seeing a Gyno but like I said before for some reason they are considered a specialist of sorts and there for you need a referal...which I find completely retarded!

[countrygirl]

I am not employed and even when I was the insurance company that my company had wouldn't take me on because I was on anti depressants years ago. We do have insurance for basic health care visits...like to see a regular doctor, gyno and some specialists. This doctor SHOULD be covered under that but I am not sure about the procedure I need to have done. I am supposed to be seeing a Gyno but like I said before for some reason they are considered a specialist of sorts and there for you need a referal...which I find completely retarded!

If you don't mind my asking, it is a major procedure you have to have done?? Do they only cover certain procedures??

[WhiskeyGirl]

If you don't mind my asking, it is a major procedure you have to have done?? Do they only cover certain procedures??

Its an HSG. They inject dye into my uterus and fallopian tubes to check for blockages or abnormalities by taking xrays. I'm sure it should be covered because it is a diagnostic procedure and nothing to do with infertility treatments. It just drives me nuts, I have to schedule this around my cycle and they take a day off!! Guess what people...my cycle DOESN'T take ANY days off! This is the second month in a row that I probably won't be able to get in and they will blame ME and MY body! Argggg! Every month that I don't get in is one month longer that I don't get answers!!!!! And it pisses me off completely! We've been trying for a year and eight months now to have a baby!

[rainbowtreat]

Well not to jump in the middle of your conversations or anything lol:p (hijackers :p )

I just wanted to say I know how you all feel about having the best guy in the world. I have one of them. Nicholas is the most amazing man. And I have not had the attention and the love given to me as this man does. In the beginning I actually had to ask him to back off just a little, I flet overwhelmed by it all. He does the same thing if I cant sleep and he is out already, he will ask why i didnt wake him, he would have stayed up with me. He does so much to help me out with the kids and what not that it is amazing. And the past week I have been waiting on him and he felt he was running me to much. He was apoligizing for always needed something. I told him I didnt mind that I wanted him better and he would do it for me any ways. So it was my turn. I love thisman and can not wait to be called his wife.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Well not to jump in the middle of your conversations or anything lol:p (hijackers :p )

I just wanted to say I know how you all feel about having the best guy in the world. I have one of them. Nicholas is the most amazing man. And I have not had the attention and the love given to me as this man does. In the beginning I actually had to ask him to back off just a little, I flet overwhelmed by it all. He does the same thing if I cant sleep and he is out already, he will ask why i didnt wake him, he would have stayed up with me. He does so much to help me out with the kids and what not that it is amazing. And the past week I have been waiting on him and he felt he was running me to much. He was apoligizing for always needed something. I told him I didnt mind that I wanted him better and he would do it for me any ways. So it was my turn. I love thisman and can not wait to be called his wife.

Lol I think its all good Gwen! Looks like we were finished with that other conversation! lol. Nicholas sounds like a wonderful man!! :)