Made me laugh

[LaceyinPgh]

You all know how my grandmother isn't speaking to my mom and I because I won't allow my cousin's kids at the reception. She is causing all types of problems now no one in my mom's family is really speaking to she or I all over the freaking guest list. Plus she is doing this at the pinnacle of stress for my wedding righ tin the middle of my mom's newest health crisis and her divorce.

Yesterday afternoon with my mom as sick as she is, my grandmother called her to infomr her that she was making dinner for her real family. Then she gave the list of who all was coming and what they were having. Then she pointed out that my mom and her real family (meaning me) should try that sometime. What a :censored:

Anyway last night my dad called me. Apaprently my grandmother and her boyfriend (I guess that is what he is anyway) called my dad yesterday to ask him to drive to their house because the boyfriend's boat's motor wasn't running properly. After all this bs they have caused not to mention the fact that my grandmother hasn't spoken to my dad in years and when he and my mother were married he was the bane of my grandmother's existence.

Seriously, they must have a set of balls on them that they need fork lifts to carry around. I can't get over it. And yes it actually made me laugh. Then it made me mad. Then I realized what idiots they were and I laughed again.

[CindySue]

Good grief Lacey! No offense, but I thought MY family was bad. Yours is starting to make mine look REALLY good! :bbeek: The BS your gramdmother is pulling sounds exactly like something my own would do. And she wonders why none of her grandkids dont want to be around her.
They are seriously trying to get under your skin. Does she think she going to turn your dad away from you too? Please tell me shes not really THAT loony!
Good Luck Lacey! Please try not to go :chair: on these people no matter how bad they might need it!

[WhiskeyGirl]

I have to agree with Cindy. And I also thought my family was bad! I'm sorry to say but your grandma sounds like she lost her marbles!! In my family I refuse to call any of my mom's sisters my aunts, they are merely my mom's sisters!! lol. If it were, I'd write or call my grandma and tell her to have fun with her "real" family because clearly she has never treated me in such a way that thats how I have EVER felt!! And then I'd tell her what a b*tch she was!! I'm sure you'll deal with this very accordingly Lacey!! Take care!!

[LaceyinPgh]

Good grief Lacey! No offense, but I thought MY family was bad. Yours is starting to make mine look REALLY good! :bbeek: The BS your gramdmother is pulling sounds exactly like something my own would do. And she wonders why none of her grandkids dont want to be around her.
They are seriously trying to get under your skin. Does she think she going to turn your dad away from you too? Please tell me shes not really THAT loony!
Good Luck Lacey! Please try not to go :chair: on these people no matter how bad they might need it!

My grandmother is certifiable. There is no way around it. She pick sand choses her relationships by who is doing the most for her at the time. Unless it is my mom and my mom is just in general treated like :censored: while my jackass uncles all rule the world. She is jealous and petty because she thinks that Sean and I have more than she does. Plus she had horrible social anxiety problems that she won't address. She sits in her house all day in her nightgown with the windows closed and the curtains pulled. If she thinks she hears a car outside she runs tot he bedroom and peeks out the window and won't answer the door if it isn't someone she wants to see. It is ridiculous.

She isn't worth breaking out the chair for. She just isn't worth much at all anymore.

[LaceyinPgh]

I have to agree with Cindy. And I also thought my family was bad! I'm sorry to say but your grandma sounds like she lost her marbles!! In my family I refuse to call any of my mom's sisters my aunts, they are merely my mom's sisters!! lol. If it were, I'd write or call my grandma and tell her to have fun with her "real" family because clearly she has never treated me in such a way that thats how I have EVER felt!! And then I'd tell her what a b*tch she was!! I'm sure you'll deal with this very accordingly Lacey!! Take care!!

I have never called my dad's parents anything but Mike and Emily. Even when I was really little and forced to go and spend time with them I wouldn't call them anything but Mike and Emily. I refer to them ad my dad's parents. But my mother's mother and I were close when I was little. But now that I am grown and have a life and a sembelence of success and happpiness she has to ruin it. She is miserable and lonely and stuck in her life so she feels that everyone needs to be the same way.

I won't call her because I have no deisre to talk to her or any of the rest of them. I flat out told my mom and dad that I do not want her at my wedding. If the rest of them show, fine but I doubt that they will.

Sean's mother and I just recently started to get along well. I guess we both came to the realization that the other one isn't going away anytime soon. She is so mad about the whole situation that she has offered to just adopt my mom for family functions and holidays. My mother who has never really liked Sean's mother is actually considering it.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I have never called my dad's parents anything but Mike and Emily. Even when I was really little and forced to go and spend time with them I wouldn't call them anything but Mike and Emily. I refer to them ad my dad's parents. But my mother's mother and I were close when I was little. But now that I am grown and have a life and a sembelence of success and happpiness she has to ruin it. She is miserable and lonely and stuck in her life so she feels that everyone needs to be the same way.

I won't call her because I have no deisre to talk to her or any of the rest of them. I flat out told my mom and dad that I do not want her at my wedding. If the rest of them show, fine but I doubt that they will.

Sean's mother and I just recently started to get along well. I guess we both came to the realization that the other one isn't going away anytime soon. She is so mad about the whole situation that she has offered to just adopt my mom for family functions and holidays. My mother who has never really liked Sean's mother is actually considering it.

Lacey

I am happy you and your MIL are starting to get along! And its great that they would like to also include your mom. They sound like they are turning out to be decent people! I wish you the very best and you're right, your grandma is probably not worth the time by the sounds of things. Its kinda sad when Older people get these ways but most times they've been that way the majority of their lives. Like my grandmother and her stupidity in allowuing my cousins to steal money from her and my mom and her sisters! Grandma will never learn as she keeps trying to get the rest of us to invite them to family functions! Well that will never happen!! I guess 450,000 dollars is worth more to us then some stupid a-hole cousin/nephew!