LovingLife
09-27-2008, 05:03 PM
Now my baby is only 10 months old. And I dont plan on having anymore for a while.
The only problem is that DH does not want anymore. He didn't want any in the first place. But when you see him & our son together its just amazing. He loves him so much and is an amazing dad.
I dont want to force it on him, and I hate pressing an issue but when other kids were dreaming of being doctors, sports stars, and actresses I was dreaming of being a mommy. I was told when I was 14 that I wouldnt be able to have children, and when I found out I was pregnant I was scared and nervous because I was young, but I was sooooo amazingly happy knowing I could have a baby.
Now that I know I can have babies, I want another one. Again, I dont want one right now, but I just dont know a way of expressing to DH how much being a mommy means to me.
He keeps thinking about now, about how right now we cant have another baby, we dont have the money, he is in school fulltime and works parttime, I work full time and go to school parttime, and I understand where he is coming from....BUT......
I just feel like he isnt giving the idea a chance. I dont want to be the pushy wife, but I dont want to push aside what I want too.
Any opinons?
p.s. sorry if i kind of rambeled
The only problem is that DH does not want anymore. He didn't want any in the first place. But when you see him & our son together its just amazing. He loves him so much and is an amazing dad.
I dont want to force it on him, and I hate pressing an issue but when other kids were dreaming of being doctors, sports stars, and actresses I was dreaming of being a mommy. I was told when I was 14 that I wouldnt be able to have children, and when I found out I was pregnant I was scared and nervous because I was young, but I was sooooo amazingly happy knowing I could have a baby.
Now that I know I can have babies, I want another one. Again, I dont want one right now, but I just dont know a way of expressing to DH how much being a mommy means to me.
He keeps thinking about now, about how right now we cant have another baby, we dont have the money, he is in school fulltime and works parttime, I work full time and go to school parttime, and I understand where he is coming from....BUT......
I just feel like he isnt giving the idea a chance. I dont want to be the pushy wife, but I dont want to push aside what I want too.
Any opinons?
p.s. sorry if i kind of rambeled