CindySue
05-07-2006, 01:06 AM
Ok...I have 7 days left until my wedding and well things arent going so good.
I found out last night that the family friend that was going to do the photography isnt going to be able to do it. He went in Friday for his yearly stress test and they told him some time when his last one (a year ago) and this one, he had had a heart attack. He doesnt understand why he didnt know it. They are going to run tests next week and admit him into the hospital on Friday to do an angiopasty (sp?) to check for blockages, and if they find any, they are going ahead and putting in stints. Im WAY more worried about this mans heath than I am stupid pictures anyway, but Im already stressed to the point of a nervous breakdown and this definitely didnt help.
Oh...wait it gets better! I get an email from my sister in Louisiana today (she had tried to call and it was busy so she thought we might be on the computer) and she told me they wouldnt be able to make it. The kids had been sick with upper respiratory infections for about 2 weeks that they cant seem to shake and now her and her husband are coming down with them. She has done all the flowers, bouts and coursages and shes over-nighting them to me. That also leaves me without a BM or FG. She feels really bad, and now Im ALSO worried about her and her babies.
Found out theres NO way my mom can fly in from Florida for the wedding either.
The only person I know for a fact from my family that coming to my wedding is my dad and he threatening to wear a tank top with cut off blue jeans, and knee socks with his tennis shoes. :bbeek: Oh good grief.....thats worse than what Brian said hes going to wear!!!!
Every body is sooooo worried that Im upset over all this and ok.....I am but I more worried about these people than I am the changes that have to be made in the wedding.
Brian, bless his heart, wanted me to go with him to get his shirt for the wedding. I wasnt going to go because......well hes a big boy and has been picking out his own clothes for a long time now. Little did I know that he was going to surprise me with a shopping trip for my "honeymoon wardrobe". Its my wedding/mother's day presents from him. I definitely cant complain because it was 10 times more than I was expecting for both. Hes going out of his way to keep me pacified and happy and I just want to :chair: . He doesnt get it that my frustrations right now have absolutley nothing to do with the wedding. I get the feeling that he thinks Im highly unstable and liable to go postal at any moment.
We did go out to eat tonight just the 2 of us and I explained a little to him and Im hoping he understands how I feel right now. He semi-thought I was wanting to back out and Im not......he knows that now. At least this evening he was treating me like he normally does instead of like a **** china doll. :bbconfused:
Sorry this was sooo long, but I really just needed to vent. Im scared to even think what else could go wrong.............or who else is going to get sick.:(
I found out last night that the family friend that was going to do the photography isnt going to be able to do it. He went in Friday for his yearly stress test and they told him some time when his last one (a year ago) and this one, he had had a heart attack. He doesnt understand why he didnt know it. They are going to run tests next week and admit him into the hospital on Friday to do an angiopasty (sp?) to check for blockages, and if they find any, they are going ahead and putting in stints. Im WAY more worried about this mans heath than I am stupid pictures anyway, but Im already stressed to the point of a nervous breakdown and this definitely didnt help.
Oh...wait it gets better! I get an email from my sister in Louisiana today (she had tried to call and it was busy so she thought we might be on the computer) and she told me they wouldnt be able to make it. The kids had been sick with upper respiratory infections for about 2 weeks that they cant seem to shake and now her and her husband are coming down with them. She has done all the flowers, bouts and coursages and shes over-nighting them to me. That also leaves me without a BM or FG. She feels really bad, and now Im ALSO worried about her and her babies.
Found out theres NO way my mom can fly in from Florida for the wedding either.
The only person I know for a fact from my family that coming to my wedding is my dad and he threatening to wear a tank top with cut off blue jeans, and knee socks with his tennis shoes. :bbeek: Oh good grief.....thats worse than what Brian said hes going to wear!!!!
Every body is sooooo worried that Im upset over all this and ok.....I am but I more worried about these people than I am the changes that have to be made in the wedding.
Brian, bless his heart, wanted me to go with him to get his shirt for the wedding. I wasnt going to go because......well hes a big boy and has been picking out his own clothes for a long time now. Little did I know that he was going to surprise me with a shopping trip for my "honeymoon wardrobe". Its my wedding/mother's day presents from him. I definitely cant complain because it was 10 times more than I was expecting for both. Hes going out of his way to keep me pacified and happy and I just want to :chair: . He doesnt get it that my frustrations right now have absolutley nothing to do with the wedding. I get the feeling that he thinks Im highly unstable and liable to go postal at any moment.
We did go out to eat tonight just the 2 of us and I explained a little to him and Im hoping he understands how I feel right now. He semi-thought I was wanting to back out and Im not......he knows that now. At least this evening he was treating me like he normally does instead of like a **** china doll. :bbconfused:
Sorry this was sooo long, but I really just needed to vent. Im scared to even think what else could go wrong.............or who else is going to get sick.:(