tootsie
09-23-2008, 04:11 PM
Yesterday, I called one of our accounting employees about a problem we had and my boss asked me to put her on speaker. During the conversataion, my boss said, "I thought you said that she had the paperwork" After we hung up the phone, she said "You told me that she had the paperwork." But I never said that! Then, she said, "I know you told me twice." !!!!!!!! She is such a liar, maybe she is losing her memory or just being mean, I don't know.
She has been really rude and short with me today. First off, she asked me to insert 2 tabs (one named subproject, the other named notes) into one of our project's spreadsheets. Well, I noticed that I had already inserted the subprojects tab and I told her that I did. She said she didn't see it and she basically denied that I did do it. I told her again, I put the tab there a while ago (2 months ago at least) because I had invoices to put on there, and she said, "Well, when I reconciled the account, I didn't see it." Bull****! Then, a little while ago, I asked her what I should do about unreceded checks and she told me to get statements from the bank to see when the checks cleared. I called our accounting services person and put her on speaker so she could tell my boss what she told me. My boss made me look like an idiot and asked me, "What was the point of this conversation? We already discussed this," she said that while the lady was on speaker. I about died. I was about to scream; I really needed to. I hate holding my emotions inside.
She's been like this in the past month or two. She's getting out of hand now. I really don't want to be around her. It's good that we have our own offices, but she's always looking over my shoulder. I want to be the boss of me!
Now, I know that she is going through menopause and has a bigger work load than me, but I shouldn't be treated like that, nobody should be. I don't know how to approach her; she is always right, according to herself. She's a lot like my mom... Anyways, any advise would help me a lot.
She has been really rude and short with me today. First off, she asked me to insert 2 tabs (one named subproject, the other named notes) into one of our project's spreadsheets. Well, I noticed that I had already inserted the subprojects tab and I told her that I did. She said she didn't see it and she basically denied that I did do it. I told her again, I put the tab there a while ago (2 months ago at least) because I had invoices to put on there, and she said, "Well, when I reconciled the account, I didn't see it." Bull****! Then, a little while ago, I asked her what I should do about unreceded checks and she told me to get statements from the bank to see when the checks cleared. I called our accounting services person and put her on speaker so she could tell my boss what she told me. My boss made me look like an idiot and asked me, "What was the point of this conversation? We already discussed this," she said that while the lady was on speaker. I about died. I was about to scream; I really needed to. I hate holding my emotions inside.
She's been like this in the past month or two. She's getting out of hand now. I really don't want to be around her. It's good that we have our own offices, but she's always looking over my shoulder. I want to be the boss of me!
Now, I know that she is going through menopause and has a bigger work load than me, but I shouldn't be treated like that, nobody should be. I don't know how to approach her; she is always right, according to herself. She's a lot like my mom... Anyways, any advise would help me a lot.