RSJ 2gether 4ever :)

[Jacobs_Girl]

Well it's been 7 months since we eloped from Vegas and a few weeks from our big wedding and life is almost back to normal again. Getting rid of all my wedding left overs on ebay and craiglist. Not too much left kind of sad to see them go but what else am I going to do with it. I already have a keepsake box with all the extras of everything.

I should be getting the wedding DVD soon, my mom said it was 2 hours long whoa lol We've been working on a jigsaw puzzle for the past few days, well let me correct that I have been and he's been playing his playstation 3 I got him for his birthday. lol

One good news is my family are coming down here for thanksgiving which they never do. My mom may come twice a year but my brothers have never been in Georgia. It will be my mom, my older brother with his girlfriend and 2 little flower girls lol and possible my younger brother. That is if he can pull the stick from out of his butt.

For Christmas we are driving to visit my mom 16 hour drive here we come. Jacob wants to rent an RV but I told him that would be a waste of money. $1,300 to rent an RV for a week, not including tax and other fees. I told him we should just rent a car but we will see how much we spend on gifts and stuff.

As for his family I am not really sure, I was nice to his mom last weekend. We saw her and I said hello and she looked at me for a minute then said hi back. I told Jacob to go spend time with his grandmother before she goes back to Czech which would be in like a week and he refuse to. He says he doesnt see her the same way anymore. He said she talked a lot of **** about me and how much of a b1tch I am. :bbeek: Which I dont know what I did wrong. The only thing she could say about me was I gave her a dirty look. (which it wasnt, it was a what are u doing look)

I tried to get him to say something to his mom but he just wont do it. She must of said some really mean stuff. I dont even understand why she would say anything but nice things about me. I've never did anything to her. I mean I would rant about her most times but have always been nice to her.

oh well some people are just hard to please.

[Nekochanpurr]

Oh boy! Good luck with his side... At least you are trying to be nice! *^^*

[Jacobs_Girl]

Oh boy! Good luck with his side... At least you are trying to be nice! *^^*

not for long though lol I am so getting tired of her. I know I havent seen her since that time I said hi but all the things she has done in the past, it kind of built up inside and now is all coming out.

I seriously do not know how Jacob came out so great from HER! It's possible he got his dad's attitude (NO WONDER HE LEFT HER). I remember when his dad was in the US he use to "hug" me for a long time lol I use to joke with him about it. Like I miss your dad when is he coming to visit us? It's funny because he looks exactly like his dad! Who is a very handsome older guy.

Its like George Clooney lol he has the great hair going for him. lol

Well his grandmother is leaving in a few days to go back to czech and he hasn't talked to her since that day. I dunno what to do, I dunno how family could do that to each other. I mean when my family gets into a fight a few days and all will be good.

Well we took the first pregnancy test and it was negative. We have been trying for the big 2 months lol not even long. He thinks it only takes one try, what is he retarded? I said sometimes it takes years!! :grinhappy:

14 more days until Hawaii, Jacob thinks I am crazy because I started packing already. WHAT? I'd rather be prepared!! I am sorry I dont have just 7 t-shirt that I wear everyday of the week like him lol So far I packed my socks, lingerie, digital camera - after I charged the battery and cleared the memory card, charger, extra memory card.

I even made a list of what to pack. But I like making list! they are fun for me and keep me organized! LOL

So I got my younger brother a ticket to come to Georgia. Imagine him, tall geeky guy whos never left the state of New York. He has no social life except AIM and he lives in my moms house in the basement like a troll. I am trying to get him out into the REAL world and help him out. My mom isnt going to be there all his life. I just want the best for my family.

Anyway he argued with me because I got him on a separate flight from everyone else coming to Georgia. One main reason my older brother has the week off so he is coming Tuesday with his family. They got their tickets 2 weeks ago at $204.00 Per person. I told my mom to ask for time off so I can get her ticket quickly so the prices doesnt go up! She told me last weekend so I got her ticket it was for $361 a little high but its thanksgiving weekend. Anyways my younger brother tells me MONDAY! Which now the ticket for the same flight for my mom or my older brother have gone up to $500 per person. I saw that there was a flight the same day as my mom but at 2pm instead of 5:25pm at $361 so I got it. I told my brother and he was getting mad at me.

I was like WTF beggers cant be choosers. He is 23 years old and is scared to go on a plane alone. Not that he is scared of planes or scared of heights but because he doesnt know where to go. LMAO I told him ASK SOMEONE WHERE TO GO IF YOU GET LOST! or read the freaking signs!!

I mean my mom comes to atlanta,GA by herself and she doesnt read or speak english that well at ALL! I said if she can come here alone I am sure you will make it just fine. Thats what you freaking called sheltered. :D

[caligal85]

Taking separate flights definitely isn't fun but come on; your brother has to realize prices and availability change. And I can imagine he's in for some culture shock. :) My dad's originially from New York and I swear every time he goes somewhere, it hits him that it's not the Bronx.

[Danielle9608]

I am sorry about your MIL that really stinks. Relax and have fun in Hawaii :)

[Jacobs_Girl]

OMG i am going to be so busy the next few MONTHS! I cant believe we have so much planned and the whole economy going down hill.

This weekend I have a sewing class at Joanne to help me prepare on making my Halloween costume.

We leave for Hawaii Next Thursday! Yay! getting excited

Then Halloween party at the end of the month, making my own costume :D

The we are moving Nov 15, so that means we will be packing ALOT. We hired movers for the big stuff.

After we move my family are coming to visit us. Meaning our guest room needs to be set up and everything unpacked in a week.

Then during the whole thing we need to buy Christmas presents because then we go up to NY for Christmas. :bbeek:

[caligal85]

Wow you do have a lot to do! But you'll get all rested in Hawaii and come back fresh and ready to go.

[Jacobs_Girl]

:-) for some reason I am in a posting mood today. Prolly cause I have nothing to do at work. lol

So we have 6 more days until we leave for Hawaii only 3 of them a work day! W00t

Anyways so Jacob finally told him mom yesterday that we were moving and will only help her out for the next FEW months. (NOT the whole amount he's been paying) It's how funny how fast the water works come out when he told her that. They didnt come out when she was biatching me out, cursing at me in her language in front of Jacob, his grandmother and his Uncle. Sorry lady that doesnt work with him anymore, it only works when I do it.

That I have realized! I just start tearing up and BAM I get what I want. I mean I dont do it often and throughout the 2 years I've only used it once and that was us moving.

Well she tried to turn it around and blame EVERYTHING on me, pointed out things I did wrong instead of saying sorry for the things she did wrong. BUT the only thing she could say was I stopped saying HI to her LMAO so that gives her the right to curse me out? She said she wanted us to sit down and bury what happened in the past. I just laughed yeah what about his grandmother going around bad mouthing us in Czech, can we bury that too?

I told my mom everything and she was so appalled. His mom acted so nice to my mom then talked **** about her behind her back.

I called my dad yesterday and asked if he wants to come visit me as well for thanksgiving. He of course said no he is working. Like always!

Jacob is a little disappointed about not being able to go deep sea fishing in Hawaii. The people we booked it through canceled on us because there boat needs some repairs. They were the cheapest ones for $130 per person for 4 hours. Otherwise we would have to get a private charter for 6 but only 2 of us go for $550. It's not like we could carry all the fish we catch on the plane anyways lol

I have started xmas shopping frugally on ebay. I got my dad a tie from china for $4.99 free shipping, Jacob a NEW the Planet Earth DVD set for $28.00, My SIL a pink baby Phat watch - she likes that stuff, I am re gifting his moms gift to me and giving it to SIL as well. A J-Low perfume set still in box lol and I got the kids a few things. Lexie a cute Asian outfit and a The Little Mermaid DVD. I even got me a Dooney and Burke purse :D

[Jacobs_Girl]

3 more days until Hawaii :D 2 more days of work :p

Just got back from lunch with the husband. He is so adorable! I am so glad I married him. I remember when we first started dating, I wasnt sure if I even wanted to date him. I gave him that we should be friends and start slow if we want this relationship to work. This was when he was slowly moving into my apartment without me knowing, he would spend the night and bring over like 2 outfits LOL

I look in my closet one day and was like what happen too all my clothes?? *scratching my head*

I feel so right with him! And I always want to give him everything he wants and he does that with me too. So we spoil each other. For our 1 year anniversary we plan on going to San Francisco for the weekend (also Valentines Day weekend) He wants to see Alcatraz prison and do their tour.

I've come to realize that we don't really have problems in our relationship. It the people around us that have problems and cause us stress. Thats what sucks the most. I wish I could just be rid of these people.

We have been trying harder than ever to conceive. So far nothing since I just got my period. I went to a sewing class at Joann's this past weekend and this girl in my class was 2 months pregnant. She was also my age as well and I wanted to get her number and further converse with her after the class but I left early, perfect opportunity to make a friend with similar interest but I kind of chickened out. I am kind of shy with those sort of things and I mesh well with someone who is more of a dominant personality. I'm a go with the flow and she takes charge yanno? My ex-best friend a while ago was like that. She was one of the best best friend I had. But she got really jealous of me and my life style I guess.

She would want to date the guys I dated and kind of be like me. She would go shopping with me and want to get clothes I would get, always wanted to hang out and etc etc which I didnt mind until she got drunk one night and told me how she really felt about me. How much of a "princess" attitude I have.

Anyways I am rambling, lol guess trying to keep myself busy for the next few days and not think of it otherwise I am going to go crazy lol

[Danielle9608]

Have fun on your trip. That will be the perfect time to really TTC ;)

[brendalin]

ONE MORE DAY OF WORK!!!!!:jphappy:

[Jacobs_Girl]

Have fun on your trip. That will be the perfect time to really TTC ;)

thanks! lol it's perfect timing too since I am ovulating when we are there :D

ONE MORE DAY OF WORK!!!!!:jphappy:

Yay! one more day!!

[Jacobs_Girl]

LMAO I found a pic of my husbands mom from the back :bbeek: Mind you this is what she wore to the wedding

http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z303/b3m3rchic/wedding/IMG_1357.jpg

from the front

http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z303/b3m3rchic/wedding/jacobandmom.jpg

[Danielle9608]

Oh wow you were not joking - you really can see her thong. Ewww

[brendalin]

OMG!!!!!!:bbeek: What was she thinking!!! Tha is somthing that you see people wear when they are stading on the side of the road looking for work! A LITTLE inappropriate! WOW!

[Jacobs_Girl]

I know crazy right? lol She is still not talking to me lol and or giving me a dirty look when she sees me. She doesnt do it in front of Jacob because I think she's playing some kind of game. Making her seem so friendly to me and I was the unfriendly one. Of course now I already told Jacob I am NOT going to be nice to her. After he told me more stuff that happened during the wedding after the fact.

Also he wants to invite her to thanksgiving dinner ha! I refuse to invite her.

1. I dont like her
2. My family will be there and they dont like her from all the BS she talked about them. (she talked down to my mom because she has a smaller house and talked BS about my brother and his girlfriend how they treat their little girl, which is none of her business anyways)
3. She would start some trouble and say something rude
4. I will be forced to throw her out
5. She's not welcomed

He wants to because she doesn't have anyone else to spend time with. She's like the troll under the bridge. She ruins all her friendships and relationships that no one wants to be with her.

Well its the last day at work I am excited about Hawaii! I found out Jacob's friends wedding is this weekend and they invited us but we will be in Hawaii :( but it looks like they are going to Hawaii too for their honeymoon but they will be on another island. What a coincidence!

I did more Christmas shopping :D I got 2 pink Atlanta falcons jersey for my nieces. Got my dad one too since he is into sports lol

I am lost on what to get my brothers and my olders brothers girlfriend. For Jacob I am going to either get him some fishing stuff like floaters lol or buy him some new clothes maybe just t-shirts :D

I went yesterday evening and got my legs waxed, pedicure and manicure :D Jacob got his hair cut - hasnt had one since the wedding!! He looks so handsome when he gets cut lol He was groping me all night while he was SLEEPING! LOL I asked him about it this morning and he didn't remember any of it.

I hope today at work goes by fast

[caligal85]

Lol the groping thing made me laugh out loud. And ohmigosh I want to circulate the picture of your MIL as a "what not to wear" email. I'm so sorry she had such poor decision making skills and chose that dress. Did any body say anything to her at the wedding? I so would have done that.

[Jacobs_Girl]

Lol the groping thing made me laugh out loud. And ohmigosh I want to circulate the picture of your MIL as a "what not to wear" email. I'm so sorry she had such poor decision making skills and chose that dress. Did any body say anything to her at the wedding? I so would have done that.

LOL well I told her when she got and tried it on for me that it wasn't a good idea to wear that dress since it's mostly formal wear yanno not slutty wear. Even after we agreed she was going to wear red and NOT PINK.

You could hear and see the OMG faces when she got up and danced with Jacob. I didnt expect any less from someone who use to worked in a strip club like 10 years ago.

[brendalin]

I can't stop looking at the picture! It just makes me giggle! I can't help it! I just can't look away!

[70707Bride]

Hey, I haven't stopped in here yet. Have fun in Hawaii! And that pic of your MIL is so funny. I just can't believe she wore that. LOL. Good luck on TTC. I want to after I get back from FL next year. I'm going there for a week the last week of May/first of June with my sister's high school choir. I like how its just Chris and me, ya know, just the 2 of us, but I want a baby, I'll be 24 next month and everyone around me either has a baby, or is going to have one.

[Aleta]

I didn't believe you. I really didn't. The front of the dress picture that I saw before was bad enough - but THAT picture of that back - O M G :bbeek:

[EarlyBird]

oh dear, thats the most terrible dress. to be honest, she resembled a drag queen from the show "Lips" (look it up)

[Jacobs_Girl]

Hey everybody! I am back from Hawaii!! I posted some pics and stories here

Check it out! I had so much FUN in Hawaii, Even though I was sick most of the time. Cough drops and cough syrup helped a BUNCH. I Learned to snorkel and guess what I LOVE IT!! I would do it again and again and again!

http://forums.onewed.com/showthread.php?t=21823

[70707Bride]

Good to hear that you had a great time! I want to go to Hawaii, maybe someday.

[Jacobs_Girl]

Well I am finally back to work lol After the honeymoon I went to work one day and boss just sent me home from being sick. I am so far behind on my work lol Things have been so unorganized without me here *hmph*

I took advantage of the days I had off sick and when to the DMV and got my Drivers License changed to my married name. I was able to get a new picture on my license as well and it was a nice one. Compared to the last picture. I was also able to go to Bank of America and change my name on my bank accounts.

We move on the 14th! I cant wait... then a week later my family comes to visit for thanksgiving weekend. I am almost done Christmas shopping, I just need to find something for my older brother, my boss and some more stuff for Jacob and I already have in mind what I am going to get for them.

We booked our flights last night for Las Vegas for our 1 year anniversary Yay! I cant wait, I been wanting to go but because the hotel prices were sky high last time I check. I checked again last night and they were down from last time I checked.

[Jacobs_Girl]

I havent updated in a while, been so sick. I been coming to work though with the economy as bad as it is I need to come to work even sick. I did go to the doctors and he said it was a sinus infection, gave me some antibiotics. Still sick a week later BUT I am getting better. I am able to finally get a good rest sleep and sleep throughout the night. Unlike the nights before where I would wake up in the middle of the night unable to breath through my nose.

We are finally moved and almost settled in, the new place is so nice and look some homy! We went to Ikea and spent like $600 on a sleeper sofa for the guest room and TV stand for the living room.

I love Jacob more then ever and our 1 year anniversary is coming up! YAY! He makes me so happy I don't care about anyone else. He always makes me laugh and I just love looking at him when he is talking. He always makes these cute faces its like OMG he is so adorable and I am so lucky to have him. Some days I just feel like **** and probably look like it too lol For our 1 year I paid for our tickets to Vegas - Where we eloped and am paying for the hotel. I will probably buy something little for him, last year I got him a chef apron with his name on it :D

On the other hand his mother *urgh* she treats me so bad and all I can do it grin and say thank you. You ugly biatch!

First she NEVER says Hi to me! I alway say hi to her, I had my last straw when she was standing in the kitchen talking to her friend and I walked up from her basement carrying some of our boxes we had there and I said Hi to her and she just laughed in my face.

I really had the LAST while I was moving the same day. She was outside on her deck SMOKING and decides she wants to smoke right above where we were moving. So Jacobs with the trunk loading something I walk towards the basement to get more stuff as I pass underneath her she flicks her cigarette so the ashes fall right on me.

What a bitach! :bbeek: