I need help!!!!!!!!!

[gothicchick]

i have a serious problem. my fiance's parents are divorced. his father remarried. the woman he married is my fiance's aunt. his mothers sister. the two women are at odds. how do i involve both mothers without a fight? pls any suggestions would be helpful.

[LizabethDavis]

Touchy situation. My only suggestion is to honor the Aunt/Step-mother on a smaller scale then FH's bio mother. I have to do the same thing with my step-mother,although, it isn't quite the same boat as you. Good luck and hopefully someone else can give some better advice.

[Jenn060306]

Wow that is a tough situation. My best suggestion is to honor your FH's mother first then his aunt/step-mother. I would hope that they would understand that you and your FH are trying to please them both and not make a huge situation.
For invitations if you want to include all their names i would suggest putting his biological mother first then his father and step-mother. That is what we did with ours. My FH's parents are divorced and his father has been seeing the same woman since he left. He was having an affair with her while he was still living with my FH's mother. She absolutly hates her. We've put it the way it is and everyone seems happy. But they are also doing their best to support their son/step-son and make things pleasant for him and i.
Good Luck! Let us know if you need anymore help. We'll definatly give it a shot.