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firespirit
09-08-2008, 06:27 PM
Thursday I got my certified copy of our marriage license, so Friday I left work early to start taking care of changing my name.

First I went to the DMV. This has to be the most frustrating experience ever! When I left work, the online thing said the average wait time was 20 minutes. Well, 20 minutes after I get there I call Ryan and ask him to check the queue time and it's now 55 minutes, ugh. It's just horribly frustrating because you watch these people behind the counter call a number and when no one comes up, turn off their sign and leave the counter. They spend more time talking to each other than helping customers. There was a point in time for 5 minutes straight where not a single person was being assisted! I'm not making this up either. So after I get to the counter, I have to wait to get my photo taken. 15 minutes later an employee walks over to the camera calls Scott, takes his picture and then turns around and gabs with another employee. I see that he's about to leave the camera without calling me up there, so I politely ask to have my picture taken so I can get out of there because I still have to make it to the social security office and they close in an hour. (At this point I'm pretty shocked at my own restraint for not voicing my true opinion of their lazy arses, I figured it wouldn't do any good.) Oh and now my picture looks like crud, because I'm well I'm annoyed and have someplace I need to get to and am not sure how long that line is going to be either. With all frustration I forgot to re-register to vote while I was there. But at least that form is simple and I don't have to be there in person to do it.

Lucking the social security office I chose to go to was not crowded at all. When I was looking online for name change information some people said you have to go the SS office first, the woman behind the counter asked for my new ID. She said it was a good thing I went to do that first because they sometimes are not allowed to process the name change without a new ID. (I wasn't really sure what she meant by "sometimes" but I didn't bother to ask.)

Today I went to my bank, it was a good thing that this was a really slow process, because otherwise I probably would have totally forgotten to order new checks.

So now I'm in the process of changing over credit cards, and AAA membership and I can't forget my hotel points and frequent flyer memberships (my primary one will have to wait until I've finshed the travel I've completed under my old name, otherwise that's just going to be a pain and I might not earn the miles I'm supposed to).

tortoisegirl
09-08-2008, 08:12 PM
Wow sounds like you've been busy. I'm not looking forward to the running around part, but am excited that I'll get a last name that is a million times easier to spell and pronounce. I gave up long ago about caring if my last name was spelled or pronounced correctly because people don't get it...

WebLady
09-08-2008, 08:50 PM
There is something about the DMV; they always seem to be slack and/or slow :worm:

Dani
09-08-2008, 09:23 PM
I feel your pain! At our DMV I had to go to 4 lines! One was to buy my license sticker, the other was to register of why I was there (Name change on DL), then I get called they change all the paper work then I had to sit in another line to get my picture taken! I think that I was there over an hour and a 1/2. Ugh

Ninedays9
09-08-2008, 09:25 PM
Wow, sounds like a pain in the butt. I'm not at all looking forward to the process of changing my name.

Sorry to hear about the bad license picture. I think those are just meant to be bad. At the place here, the guy seemed very bored and did things in a very routine, bland way, and he snapped my picture with no warning. I looked terrible, and he gave no option to redo it, as the people working at the one in my hometown always did. (I always take a really bad picture on the first try.)

firespirit
09-09-2008, 11:57 AM
I feel your pain! At our DMV I had to go to 4 lines! One was to buy my license sticker, the other was to register of why I was there (Name change on DL), then I get called they change all the paper work then I had to sit in another line to get my picture taken! I think that I was there over an hour and a 1/2. Ugh


4 lines! Holy cow.

firespirit
09-09-2008, 11:59 AM
Wow sounds like you've been busy. I'm not looking forward to the running around part, but am excited that I'll get a last name that is a million times easier to spell and pronounce. I gave up long ago about caring if my last name was spelled or pronounced correctly because people don't get it...


Haha people even have a problem with my new name and it's only 4 letters long. (My maiden name only had 1 vowel but was 7 letters long, and that confused people because they really wanted to put extra vowels in there....)

firespirit
09-09-2008, 12:01 PM
There is something about the DMV; they always seem to be slack and/or slow :worm:

Yeah, what's up with that?!? It's like they try to be the model of inefficiency.

firespirit
09-09-2008, 12:04 PM
Wow, sounds like a pain in the butt. I'm not at all looking forward to the process of changing my name.

Sorry to hear about the bad license picture. I think those are just meant to be bad. At the place here, the guy seemed very bored and did things in a very routine, bland way, and he snapped my picture with no warning. I looked terrible, and he gave no option to redo it, as the people working at the one in my hometown always did. (I always take a really bad picture on the first try.)

At least I get to take a new picture in a year and a half. In Iowa they let me approve my pic before I was done, here they haven't let me do that with either pic. And they make you look down at the camera, which I don't understand, do people looking at my license need to see up my nose?

Nekochanpurr
09-09-2008, 01:37 PM
It took me about an hour and a half at secretary of state... The trick is though.. Go right before they close! You'd be surprised how quick they move those lines, lol!!

Honestly for me though, everything has been really easy to change.. Sides my health insurance. Ugh.

uptowngirl
09-10-2008, 12:23 PM
I just went through the same thing - but I actually missed the SS office because DMV took so long... I do have to say though once I finally made it up to the counter the guy who helped me was really nice - He called me Mrs. Allen, twice! :)

Scrwballsgrl
09-10-2008, 01:41 PM
I totally feel ya'lls pain on the DMV, I work in the Revenue Commissioners Office next door (property tax) and we constantly hear complaints about them. Its gotten bad enough I just mail my tag in b/c I don't want the hassle of going in person. Its sooo worth that extra Dollar.

caligal85
09-10-2008, 07:50 PM
Is it sad that I'm actually looking forward to doing the name change stuff? My name has been wrong on my social security card my whole life and I'm looking forward to having it right.

GuardianAngel
09-11-2008, 07:01 PM
I'm actually all done. After the honeymoon I went right to SS, then DMV, called all my credit cards and memberships and so on.. Now just waiting for all my cards and stuff :)