Rehearsal who comes?

[derricksdoll]

So I'm sending out the invites for the rehearsal/dinner...and it's a very small one and so far I'm including:

*Parents
*Wedding Party
*Pastor & his wife
*Ushers
*Immediate family (my sis-in-law)

But I'm unsure do I invite:
*Personal attendants
*Grandparents

????

Help!!!

[gwenshack]

I'm pretty sure that attendants are invited. Anybody included in the rehearsal itself. As for grandparents, hmmm, not sure. I'm sure somebody else can field that one.

I think you're also supposed to invite out of town guests.

It's coming up soon, huh??! :) Excited?

[Cassie'smom]

For the rehearsal we invited everyone that had something to do with putting the wedding together as a thankyou for helping us. We did include close grandparents. Out of town guests are not neccesary as this is a time for the rehearsal and close family to have a little time together before the BIG event.

[neebelung]

I'm pretty sure that attendants are invited. Anybody included in the rehearsal itself. As for grandparents, hmmm, not sure. I'm sure somebody else can field that one.

I think you're also supposed to invite out of town guests.

It's coming up soon, huh??! :) Excited?

+1 Spot on. Can't forget the out of town guests!

[derricksdoll]

we're not including OOT guests to the dinner...too many!! we're inviting them for drinks after dinner.

[RevMatty]

How did I miss this thread? Oh well....

the rehearsal/dinner is usauly for tose that will participate in your wedding. As for any other guets you may want to attend thats up to you.

One word of advice though, if you plan to drink that day, make sure the minister aint around. I had one party I was invited to, and they started to down a bottle, then a keg, and with in minutes were plastered. Unforunately the next morning the witnesses where hung over and almost cost the couple from not being married, since I knew they had partied the night before.

[Karyanne20]

I would say grandparents would be invited if you are close with them. Mine will be invited.

[Kay]

So, are you supposed to invite your two ushers and their spouses??? I didn't even think of this??!! Oh Geez... I hope not!!