Dads Not Giveing Me Away

[kheath10]

Hey yall hope you guys can give me a little support cause Im felling sad, angry and disgusted all at the same time. And i just don't know whether I am going to break down or what!! Well you guys know the wedding in 4 months and I asked my day to give me away about 6 months ago and he said that he would let me know what type of:censored: is that but I said nothing. 1st of all he hadn't even really been comunicating with me for a while and not even asked 1 question about the wed or my finace its just to much!! His wife my new step mom said she would be thier(but my dad won't be) You guys don't know how that feels. I saw her today were I work she was asking about the wed and I said are you still comeing she said yes!! excited (I think) well anyway I got the impulse to ask her was my dad comeing since he had not commuincated to me. she said he told her no(but she was not in it and was not getting into that) cause shes thinks hes gonna regret it for whatever reason !! She said to go on with my plan and not worrry about it(but hey that comeing from my mother-in law of not only 10months but I have known her for about 5 years but just recently gotten on good convesation terms. So I don't know what to think she seems happy and siad she cant waint until the wed. I hvae to call my step dad and tell him the news. Cause he said he did not want to wait until the last minute. Which i can understand. And my mom and my step dad are the only GOOD support WE Have and the only MONEY support we have.:bblol: HELP HELP

[bnd94]

I am so sorry you have to go through all that!! Do you have any brothers? Maybe one of them could give you away. Or your step dad. You could even have your Mom do it. No matter what happens your Dad will regret it someday that he wasn't there for you on your big day.

[CindySue]

I am so sorry you have to go through all that!! Do you have any brothers? Maybe one of them could give you away. Or your step dad. You could even have your Mom do it. No matter what happens your Dad will regret it someday that he wasn't there for you on your big day.
Beckys right, or you could give yourself away. ANd she right too that hes going to regret not being there for you on this day!

[WebLady]

I am sorry about your dad dear, I agree with the other girls that there are other options.

But as sad as it is, if your father doesn't want to be a part of your life then let him go. Don't let him ruin your day and your future. Put your time an energy into the people that are there for you now, those that love and support you.

Best wishes and Good luck :D

[bnd94]

I totally agree with Brandi. Don't let your Dad ruin your day. Then you will regret it later cause you didn't enjoy your day like you should. We are all here for you too whenever you need support. :hug:

[MOB Karen]

If he's like that, Kim, who wants him. Your Stepdad sounds like he's pretty supportive and your Mother can do it. I am giving Amber away. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck!

[Kacie_bride]

I'm so sorry. You have to look at this way, it's his loss. He will regret it and you will get on with your life. In the end he will suffer.

[StaceyMc]

I'm so sorry that your dad is putting you through this. The girls and his wife are right, he will regret it someday. Don't let him ruin your day. If you and your mom and close, have her give you away. I think it would be a very sweet way to thank her for her support.

[LaceyinPgh]

Family is great sometimes, aren't they. I feel for you. But your dad will regret his choices one day. I know that won't help ease the pain you feel because he isn't there on your wedding day. I know how it is, my own grandmother who was super close to me won't attend my wedding because I am not inviting children. I suggest you take the stance that I have adopted.....so what if they aren't there. That is their choice. You can't force someone to be at your wedding if they don't want to be there. But you can focus on the fact that you will have friends and family surrounding you on that day that actually care enough to get dressed and to show up. I have people ocming in from around the country to celebrate with my FH and I. If my grandmother doesn't want to drive the 45 minutes, that is her deal not mine. I will be too busy to even notice if she isn't there. If your dad doens't want to be there, shame on him for not being an adult and putting bygones aside for one afternoon.

[brewsells]

I'm really sorry to hear about that Kim. My sister went through the same thing. Her Dad didn't come to her wedding and he has regreted it since. If he is not willing to come, it sounds like you have a ton of other options... Don't let him stress you out..