Will be gone for a few days!

[rainbowtreat]

By gone I mean not on here. We are in the process of moving. and with our schedules thie coming week I have to get asmuch done as possible today and tomorrow. I just got home from meeting with the apartment manager. I HAVE MY KEYS!! :D She still has a few things to get done in the place but she said we can start moving things in. It will official be ours by Wed. So tonight after Nicholas gets out of work at 6:00 he is picking up my freinds truck and i have another friend who might be down to give him and I a hand. We are going to be getting the big things moved tonight. And tomorrow I dont have to get the kids till later in the afternoon so I am going to be moving and packing as much as I can. So I can sit on here and read and post liek I want to. It might be a week before I can things settled enough where every thing is hooked up and I can get back. But I am so excited to be moving. I love the apartment and I am sooooo close to work. And I dont have to worry about morning care for my daughter. I can drop her off at school just mins before I have to be at work. It will work out perfect. And the after school care I got her into is only $10 a week. That saves us about $60 a month. And we got Nicholas onto my car insurance and the guy already listed us as married so we just saved about $100 a month there. We will be paying about $100 more a month for the new place then we are paying here but we wont be spending HALF as much on gas. So this is my last post for a while. I have to get my but in gear. Any one who has my for the fun stuff exchange and the post card exchange dont worry my mail will be forwarded and for the next round I will be sure to give out my new address. I will take care of the post card exchange once I get back on. So if there are any problems just PM me and I will take care of them when I get back. And again once every one has recieved theirs I will post the who had who list. Wish me luck all that I get this all done my Thursday so I dont have to pay this stupid landlord another weeks rent. I am off. I will be having withdrawls for sure and I will miss you all. Be back as soon as I can.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Good luck with you move Gwen! I know we will all miss you until you are back! Have fun! :)

[WebLady]

Good luck with you move Gwen! I know we will all miss you until you are back! Have fun! :)

Ditto :D When DH and I moved in to our house, we have to 'crissen' every room in the new place ;)

[brewsells]

Good luck with the move! I am excited for you.

[CindySue]

Ditto :D When DH and I moved in to our house, we have to 'crissen' every room in the new place ;)
Yeah.....well Brian and I said we needed to do that when we moved into our new house in December. We found out its VERY hard to do with children.

[OctoberBride06]

good luck with the move! and have fun!!!!!!

[bnd94]

We'll miss you Gwen. Hope the move goes well. Hurry back!! :bbmrgreen:

[WhiskeyGirl]

Yeah.....well Brian and I said we needed to do that when we moved into our new house in December. We found out its VERY hard to do with children.

And maybe a little creepy in the childrens rooms I suppose! Lol

[rainbowtreat]

Well I am here, in my new place. Things are a little crazy. We wont have DSL untill the 10th so I am on dial up at the moment. We are here but still unpacking. I am exhausted and still have tons to do. I miss you all ike crazy and from the looks of thigns I have alot to catch up on. I will soon but if I dont get some sleep I will get nothing done. And if I stay on here to read every thing I will for sure get nothign done. Soon enough I will be back as always. I will be taking pictures of my place once it is all together. I just love all the space we have and cant wait to get it all together. Talk to ya all very soon.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Glad to hear from you Gwen!! Glad the move went well. Take care and talk to you soon!!

[MOB Karen]

Welcome back, Gwen!!!!!!

[WebLady]

Glad to hear you are doing well in the new place. Get settled in and come back and post pictures ;) Take care :D

[rainbowtreat]

Thanks all. I am here and we are slowly getting settled. I have not felt like doingmuchof anything wedding wise or apartment wise. I just want to com ehome and sit in front of the TV. Nihcolas has the next 2 days off and I have half of Sat. and all day Sunday off with no kids. So this place should come together nicely. I cant beleive how much space we have. The kids love it. They can go outside without me and I dont have to worry. We are set back off the main road.

The stress of the move and not having the money we were supposed to have for the wedding ( spent $500 on getting Nicholas' truck fixed ) is getting to me. I have a christmas club that I might have to close out to use that money to finish up the wedding.

And now I am dealign with the dentist. OK I know I am gonna sound like a horrible parent for not having taken my kids who are 4 and 6 to the dentist before this. But my life the past 3 yrs has been crazy. I could barley afford to feed them for a while so a dentist was not the first thing on my mind. They are very healthy kids other wise. I know they have some bad teeth and all but I WILL NOT take back to that dentist. They treated me like I was the worst parent in the world. The talked at me not to me and they want to do over $1000 worth of work to my 4 yr old. They are all his baby teeth. I am not going to cap his teeth if not absolutely needed. He is going to loose them soon any ways. I know my daughter needs one taken out. She was on meds. for an infection from her back tooth. But the doctor and the one who did their cleaning were not nice to me. The dr looked into my sons mouth and asked me "What happen to this boy?" They brush their teeth and I make sure to help them. They dont sit around eating sweets all day either. If he has a few bad teeth I am sorry. I will do what I need to but those people are not getting my money. They WILL NOT work on my kids teeth. And to top it off I called the kids dad to let him know what was going on and he made me feel the same way. When I told him he could have just as easily made and appoinment and taken them he hung up on me. Very mature for a guy who is almsot 32. I called him back and he said they kids ar ein my care and he just sees them when he can. He also said that my son doenst even know him. That is a bunch of bull. He loves his dad and cant wiat to see him. I told my ex that and he said I see what I see. Ok now I have told Nicholas that since he is raising thekids with me and he will be their step dad soon that he is now going down as a gaurdian and their dad is just the insurance carrier. I am not goign to bother trying to include him in anything any more. I am getting the kdis records from that dentist and after the wedding I am taking them to see a different dentist. WIsh me luck this time that I get treated better.

So with all this going on I am just exhausted. Nicholas feels bad because he said he is supposed to be taking care of me and with the remondel going on at his store he has been very busy and working long hours. He said he hasnt been here like he needs to be to help me. He is doing great. He lets me have my time alone and deals with the kids for me. I have spent most of my time this evening on the computer for the first time in over 2 weeks and he has been cooking dinner and putting the house together. I love this man. I miss him though. I feel like I havent spent much time with him.

Ok I am now rambling. Thanks for the welcome backs. I am here trying to catch up on what has been going on. I will get there soon lol I hope.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Sorry to hear that you and the kids had such a horriable time at the dentist!! I hate dentists!! (just got sapped out of $4000 myself!! BOOO!!!) Did you explain to the dentist that you barely had money to feed the kids let alone take them to a dentist? I hope the next one will be more understanding!! Glad you are back!! Great to see you! Take care and good luck with everything!!

[WebLady]

Yeah I hate Dentists, they are all about getting your money IMO. I haven't been in years, if my teeth fall out I will go get dentures :bblol:

Good luck with everything and I hope you will have better days to come!

Enjoy your new place and your weekend with your honey :wub:

[MOB Karen]

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[AllyM1]

I think people just are so frightened or just don't like dentists, that if they have a tooth that bothers them they will wait until it gets really bad to get it fixed.

I DREAD going to the Dentist because everytime I go there something is wrong and something needs worked on. Plus, they are always talking about cosmetics and things like that... My teeth look fine! =) Arghh... It's annoying!

But anyway, I know it makes you feel really bad to have someone talk AT you and not TO you, but ignore it. Don't let that prick (pardon my french) bother you. He doesn't deserve to work on your kids teeth anyway with an attitude like that!

I used to go to a dentist when I was little who was rude and he used to hurt and if you said anything about it hurting he would say, "Only babies think this hurts and I didn't think you were a little baby..." Ugh..