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kheath10
04-19-2006, 11:24 AM
Hello every one haven't posted in a while beacuse I have been so darn mad at people and its not getting any better it worse an I am about to explode:bbredface: Well I emailed a while ago with the bridalshower issues I read your post and I am still not happy at all not about the post but with my decsion makeing. I feel like the bridal shower should be what I want I think theres nothing wrong with spiceing it up a little it is still traditonal but with a little like kich hey im am getting married and I don't see any ting wrong with a pleasure party for the begging with games and food and then once shes finished do whatever!
I called my mom (shes in florida guys:( I miss her so we talk each day) and she said it sound great and to give every body in invite and they can choose if they will come or not!!! Shes wishes she could be there(if she was they would have a :censored: thing to say trust me) She will be here in may for my graduation and she will be right back for the week of the wedding and trust me the family won't do nothing while shes in town. But anyway my anut and my cousin are she keepin it comeing acting very strange and It is very hard to be around them acting all funny and **** I am totally sick of them both!! We had church easter sunday and in service the preacher(my uncle) told every on to go and hug 4 people and tell them you have been down but yo are comeing up. so I did and one of those people i hugged was my fiance". so I went back to my seat. And the next thing you know my aunt pulls my shirt and says !! You need to go hug ya grandma. Ok yall just don't know I hug my grandama and talks to her all the time) Yall she did that out of spite because she don't have a man to hug. Ok because the church was pack and people were all over the place and if she was hugging people how could she know who I hugged excuse me but Im mad . She could'nt have been interested in what she was doing? Now my cousin she is so fake she speaks one day and not the next I am sick of her . One thing i hate is a lier and fake people. Be real!~! Well after church we had a faimily dinner we were a little late so of course when we walk if feel like we were being talked about or someting . That was the first time me and my fiance felt like we were uncomfortable. we did'nt stay long at all. So like I said some funny act **** is going and I have'nt addressed because i might go off really bad. What do you guys thing what is it jeoulsy that don;t have a man or not haveing a wedding or what! I know one thing they better leave me alone.

CindySue
04-19-2006, 01:31 PM
Honey.....I dont know what to tell you. It does sound like your family is giving you a hard time but why, I cant tell.
Youre right, it is your shower and you should do what you want. There might be a lot of people not come so be prepared for that. If it were me (and this is just my opinion) Id have a more "traditional" shower and let people know that afterwards there is going to be a "passion party" and the ones that dont want to stay are free to leave. You still end up with your "spice" but you were also able to celebrate with people who wouldnt be comfortable with just the passion party.
Good Luck!

WebLady
04-19-2006, 02:13 PM
Sorry you are having problems with your family. All I can say is try to talk to them. If that doesn't work, your only options are to accept them the way they are and try not to let it get to you, or distance yourself from them.

I have similar issues with my family and I just try not to let it bother me. I don't see them very often either.

Best wishes and good luck!