CarlosHoney
04-13-2006, 03:30 PM
Here's the whole ordid tale:
I was on the phone with her now ex-girlfriend until 4 in the morning. My mom left her. Didn't tell her why. Everything was going fine.. Stacey (her ex) told my mom that she loved her, like, 2 days ago for the first time. They've been together for almost a year. My mom moved in with this mean butch woman who has a lot of money.. Leaving poor Stacey with nothing. No closure, no reason, nothing emotionally substantial.. and $1500 in the hole. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif
She let her order Madonna tickets on Monday that were almost $800. Mom said that she was going to pay for them, with the first paycheck from this new job. Well, there is no new job. She lied to everyone, again, and that's the end of it for me.
Oh, and she said that she was going to go to the wedding whether or not I invite her. So, we're hiring a couple of guys that do security at a Gentlemen's Club who used to come into Subway when Carlo worked there. They're going to have a guest list, and if you aren't on the list, you're not getting in. I'm not having her ruin my wedding. I will not stand for it.
So, she fled the state with my Dad trying to have her served with papers. He's taking her to court over the child support that she refuses to pay. Oh, and to top it all off.. My suspicions were correct. She stole my pajamas.
Yes, my very own mother stole my pajamas. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/angry.gif
She's probably Bi-Polar, at the very least. She's out of her F#%&$ING MIND!
My brother killed himself in August, and her ******** is the reason. She would leave absolutley no food in the house, leave for days on end, and give him no love and attention. I just need to vent..
I left a message on that woman's phone telling her that as far as my mom is concerned, her daughter is dead too.. Because no mother of mine would treat someone who cared about her so carelessly. I just had her first grandchild in December. She doesn't even call to check on him. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif She even forgot my living brother's birthday on Monday. Not even so much as a phone call.
She's such a victim, though, because none of this (of course!) is her fault.
We got into a fight over what she *claimed* that she paid for, and when I found out that she paid for NOTHING when she promised to pay for the flowers, the bridesmaids dresses, the cake, and 1/2 of the reception location... I had the invtations printed without her name. She's not on them at all. It says Mr. and Mrs. Greenie's Parents, but it's my Dad and Step Mom.. Becuase she's more interested and involved in my wedding than my bio-mom..
Twisted indeed.
I'm just so fed up. We've been having so many fights over her lying. She never calls. Never ever ever. She lies about where she's going, who she's with.. And after talking to Stacey all night, and off and on all day, we're both filling in the blanks for each other about the lies that she's told.
For instance, the money that was meant to g torwards the baby and the wedding.. Well, that was spent on an 8 day Carribean Cruise for my Mom and Stacey, but Stacey didn't know that she promised me that money. One night this week, my mom kept her phone busy for 5 hours. Stacey asked who she was talking to, and she said that she was talking to me and working out all of the problems that we have, *especially the things pertaining to Jens's death*. ********! She NEVER talked to me tht week, AT ALL, because we were fighting.. And she doesn't give a **** enough about her children to even *think* to try and make up with them. Stacey told her that she needed to make up with me, and work things out. She said that she would let me "cool down" and talk to me about it when I was ready to talk. Which would have been NEVER.
And the really messed up thing was, she lied about my Brother's Death to cover her cheating behind. That's so messed up. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/angry.gif
I was on the phone with her now ex-girlfriend until 4 in the morning. My mom left her. Didn't tell her why. Everything was going fine.. Stacey (her ex) told my mom that she loved her, like, 2 days ago for the first time. They've been together for almost a year. My mom moved in with this mean butch woman who has a lot of money.. Leaving poor Stacey with nothing. No closure, no reason, nothing emotionally substantial.. and $1500 in the hole. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif
She let her order Madonna tickets on Monday that were almost $800. Mom said that she was going to pay for them, with the first paycheck from this new job. Well, there is no new job. She lied to everyone, again, and that's the end of it for me.
Oh, and she said that she was going to go to the wedding whether or not I invite her. So, we're hiring a couple of guys that do security at a Gentlemen's Club who used to come into Subway when Carlo worked there. They're going to have a guest list, and if you aren't on the list, you're not getting in. I'm not having her ruin my wedding. I will not stand for it.
So, she fled the state with my Dad trying to have her served with papers. He's taking her to court over the child support that she refuses to pay. Oh, and to top it all off.. My suspicions were correct. She stole my pajamas.
Yes, my very own mother stole my pajamas. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/angry.gif
She's probably Bi-Polar, at the very least. She's out of her F#%&$ING MIND!
My brother killed himself in August, and her ******** is the reason. She would leave absolutley no food in the house, leave for days on end, and give him no love and attention. I just need to vent..
I left a message on that woman's phone telling her that as far as my mom is concerned, her daughter is dead too.. Because no mother of mine would treat someone who cared about her so carelessly. I just had her first grandchild in December. She doesn't even call to check on him. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif She even forgot my living brother's birthday on Monday. Not even so much as a phone call.
She's such a victim, though, because none of this (of course!) is her fault.
We got into a fight over what she *claimed* that she paid for, and when I found out that she paid for NOTHING when she promised to pay for the flowers, the bridesmaids dresses, the cake, and 1/2 of the reception location... I had the invtations printed without her name. She's not on them at all. It says Mr. and Mrs. Greenie's Parents, but it's my Dad and Step Mom.. Becuase she's more interested and involved in my wedding than my bio-mom..
Twisted indeed.
I'm just so fed up. We've been having so many fights over her lying. She never calls. Never ever ever. She lies about where she's going, who she's with.. And after talking to Stacey all night, and off and on all day, we're both filling in the blanks for each other about the lies that she's told.
For instance, the money that was meant to g torwards the baby and the wedding.. Well, that was spent on an 8 day Carribean Cruise for my Mom and Stacey, but Stacey didn't know that she promised me that money. One night this week, my mom kept her phone busy for 5 hours. Stacey asked who she was talking to, and she said that she was talking to me and working out all of the problems that we have, *especially the things pertaining to Jens's death*. ********! She NEVER talked to me tht week, AT ALL, because we were fighting.. And she doesn't give a **** enough about her children to even *think* to try and make up with them. Stacey told her that she needed to make up with me, and work things out. She said that she would let me "cool down" and talk to me about it when I was ready to talk. Which would have been NEVER.
And the really messed up thing was, she lied about my Brother's Death to cover her cheating behind. That's so messed up. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/angry.gif