all we want

[June_Bride2008]

All we want is to have a baby. Why can't we????? I'm kind of sad. This is all Darrin and I really talk about. We love each other way to much. I don't get why we can't have a baby. I'm confused...

[Nekochanpurr]

You went to the doctors, right?? What did they say? :( I'm sorry hun.

[June_Bride2008]

We haven't yet. Its not till the 15th of August. I'm just sad. I just hope everything goes well at the doctors next month.

[Nekochanpurr]

Good luck to you, then! I know its not the same, but if it doesn't work out, there are always things like adoption out there.. Always a child that needs love. :D

[Rainbow Brite]

Talking about it constantly before you can do anything about it is only going to make you crazy. Either try to put it out of your minds until the Dr. Appt or get the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler and start educating yourselves.

I know it's hard. I've got PCOS and I'm scared to death that I won't be able to conceive. But since it's not time for us to try yet, all I can do is educate myself as much as possible so that I'm prepared when the time comes.

Good luck!

[bichonlvr]

Is your STD cleared up?

[StaceyMc]

I'm not sure how long you've been trying, but I had an appointment with my doctor last week and she said that it's normal to take 12 months to conceive.

I have endometriosis and suffered an early miscarriage recently, but she said that even with all of that, I was doing well, as I did conceive within twelve months, so we're back to trying again.

Read the book that Katy suggested, it's wonderful. Learn about your body. Start temping and charting to be able to recognize your body's changes. Try not to stress about it (although I know, it's easier said than done) and enjoy eachother.

[June_Bride2008]

Yeah its all cleared up

[RosieAngel]

I'm not sure how long you've been trying, but I had an appointment with my doctor last week and she said that it's normal to take 12 months to conceive.

I have endometriosis and suffered an early miscarriage recently, but she said that even with all of that, I was doing well, as I did conceive within twelve months, so we're back to trying again.

Read the book that Katy suggested, it's wonderful. Learn about your body. Start temping and charting to be able to recognize your body's changes. Try not to stress about it (although I know, it's easier said than done) and enjoy eachother.

My Mom also had endometriosis (before her hysterectomy) and here I am! :bbmrgreen: So it is possible. She just stuck with one, though.

Good luck!

June_Bride: Tell us how the doctor's visit goes! I hope it all works out for you.

[StaceyMc]

My Mom also had endometriosis (before her hysterectomy) and here I am! :bbmrgreen: So it is possible. She just stuck with one, though.

Good luck!

Thank you for that! It always makes be feel better to read about a successful endo pregnancy. Although I miscarried, the silver lining, if there can be one, was that I know I can get pregnant, now I just have to stay pregnant.

And - we're also planning on sticking with one. I'm 34, he's 39, one is enough.

[rainbowtreat]

Two of my best friends wnet through endometriosis and one has 2 kids and the other is 3 months pregnant. It can happen. The first friend had a miscarriage between the 2 she has. The doctor told her that the endometriosis was coming back and the misscarriage fought it off. The other friend tried for 2 years to get pregnant and went through sugery and was on meds. to help her ovulate. The baby is growing adn things are great. I have all reasons to believe that you can get pregnant. Don't stress as it does make it harder. Stress is a major factor in causing problems. I know it is harder said then done but try. Good luck and keep us posted.