My Bachlorette Party

[Shawna Bride]

Feeling a little woozy today, but wanted to tell you all about my bachlorette party last night.
I showed up, as instructed at 6:30pm at my sister's place to find 20 of my favorite girls in the world there! The place was decorated with so many cute stuff, and there was a huge spread of delicious foods available. The second I walked in, they made me change in to this adorable baby-doll tank top with a picture of my FH and I on the front, and a list of things "to-do" on the back.
My task list included:
- have a guy seranade you.
- Have a guy give you a condom
- Have a guy give you his boxers/underwear
- Kiss a guy on the cheek with the same name as your groom
- Order a 'blow job' shot from the bartender- yell out your order for others to hear it!
- Drink your Blow Job shot in a circle of guys
- Have someone tattoo you with a funny saying
- Sing your wedding song out loud
- Wear your bra on the outside of your shirt
- Dance like no one is watching

On top of this, they put on this veil hairband for me to wear all night!
They also made passes for everyone to wear. They looked like backstage passes, but each one had a picture on it, with my face superimposed!
There were Playboy covers, with my head on the body, Mother Teresa with my head... and so one! Each girl wore a different pass, and on my pass was my FH face on top of a sexy male model's body!

I'll continue in another post...

[Shawna Bride]

Then all of a sudden these 2 women came in, and gave us a "sex toy" show! They taught us how to give... well, certian pleasures.. we tasted flavored oils, she showed us lingeri, vibrators.. and all sorts of kinky toys... There was a charity box set up and all the girls donated money for me to purchase some toys!
Next, we all went outside and there was a party bus waiting for us, equipped with music, drinks and a very crazy driver!
We went downtown and club hopped, partied and I fulfilled almost everything on my task list!
Plus, I danced on a bar!!!!!!! If you knew me, you'd know that's something I would never ever do!
It's amazing how much attention you get at a bar with a big old veil on your head! I totally felt super-cool all night!!!
As soon as the girls email me the piictures, I'll post them for you! It was such a fun and wild night!
Only bad part was the McDonald's run at 4am!!! :eat: That part I could have, well should have done without!

[Shawna Bride]

It just totally feels so real now! Next Saturday I will be married! It sounds so amazing.. The last few weeks have been bumpy, but I'm feeling so amazng now. I guess I just realized that the wedding is just one stinkin night, but I get him forever and ever!

Eww.. I still taste the Mikey D's... ewwwwwwwwww

[Amber818]

OMG! That sounds like a blast. If I could imagine the perfect Bachlorette party that would be it. Was that the Bachlorette and Bridal Shower together?? Wow...good times!!

How was you finace's night?

[MOB Karen]

It just totally feels so real now! Next Saturday I will be married! It sounds so amazing.. The last few weeks have been bumpy, but I'm feeling so amazng now. I guess I just realized that the wedding is just one stinkin night, but I get him forever and ever!

Eww.. I still taste the Mikey D's... ewwwwwwwwww

Thanks, Shawna! Now I know exactly what to do with Amber's BP. Can't wait to see the pictures!!

Good luck with your wedding!! You are so, so close!!

[WebLady]

Glad you had a fun time and got home in one piece ... I went to one of those 'lingerie parties' once and it was lots of fun! Sorry to hear about the McDonalds incident, (I won't ask) I hate that place for so many reasons ;) Can't wait to see pictures, well not of the Micky D's thing.

Karen, the MOB can't know what goes on at her daughter's Bachelorette party :wink: Well, I wouldn't want my mother involved in anyway in mine ;)

[Shawna Bride]

Sorry to hear about the McDonalds incident, (I won't ask) I hate that place for so many reasons ;) Can't wait to see pictures, well not of the Micky D's thing.


The camera's were not allowed for the McDonald's incident! :-)

[Shawna Bride]

OMG! That sounds like a blast. If I could imagine the perfect Bachlorette party that would be it. Was that the Bachlorette and Bridal Shower together?? Wow...good times!!

How was you finace's night?

It was the perfect bachlorette, although I may have added drunk kareoki!
My FH had his bachlor party a few weekends ago, and him and his buddies went to Niagra falls for the weekend.
He ended up working all day yesterday and today, so he crashed last night!

[WhiskeyGirl]

Wow! Sounds like you had a blast!! And yeah, I'd keep the Micky D's incident under wraps too! lol

Are you hung over today? On my 21st b-day I partied so hard I had a hang over for three days straight!! lol!! Opps!

[MOB Karen]

Glad you had a fun time and got home in one piece ... I went to one of those 'lingerie parties' once and it was lots of fun! Sorry to hear about the McDonalds incident, (I won't ask) I hate that place for so many reasons ;) Can't wait to see pictures, well not of the Micky D's thing.

Karen, the MOB can't know what goes on at her daughter's Bachelorette party :wink: Well, I wouldn't want my mother involved in anyway in mine ;)

I know. That's what I told Amber. I would help her MOH organize it, but I would prefer not to go. There are some things that I just don't want to know.

[WebLady]

I know. That's what I told Amber. I would help her MOH organize it, but I would prefer not to go. There are some things that I just don't want to know.

That's Cool ;)

[rainbowtreat]

Sounds like you had a balst. Glad to hear your feeling better about it all now. I bet your so excited. In less then a week you will be getting married. Can't wait to see your pictures.

[Shawna Bride]

Wow! Sounds like you had a blast!! And yeah, I'd keep the Micky D's incident under wraps too! lol

Are you hung over today? On my 21st b-day I partied so hard I had a hang over for three days straight!! lol!! Opps!

Actually I'm not that bad.. I got some wise advice, and every bar we went in, first i ordered a big glass of water.. and after each round of shots I had some water... so i'm feeling fairly well today.

[Amber818]

Glad you had a fun time and got home in one piece ... I went to one of those 'lingerie parties' once and it was lots of fun! Sorry to hear about the McDonalds incident, (I won't ask) I hate that place for so many reasons ;) Can't wait to see pictures, well not of the Micky D's thing.

Karen, the MOB can't know what goes on at her daughter's Bachelorette party :wink: Well, I wouldn't want my mother involved in anyway in mine ;)

I would prefer that my mother did go. She is my best friend and I want to share every aspect of this with her. I do not know what tradition dictates but I am revising that and saying my mom is going...LOL! I would have such a better time knowing she is there. Besides I went to a Bachlorette party once and there were male strippers and everything and the MOB was there. She just wanted to be there with her daughter...and that is exactly what I want...

[Amber818]

I know. That's what I told Amber. I would help her MOH organize it, but I would prefer not to go. There are some things that I just don't want to know.

What things? Even if you didn't go, which you are going, I would tell you everything anyway...so it is final you are going ; )

[Amber818]

It was the perfect bachlorette, although I may have added drunk kareoki!
My FH had his bachlor party a few weekends ago, and him and his buddies went to Niagra falls for the weekend.
He ended up working all day yesterday and today, so he crashed last night!

That is cool. I know exactly where my FH will be with his buddies...right at the strip club...LOL...Niagra Falls sounds fun too...I've never been there....

[MOB Karen]

What things? Even if you didn't go, which you are going, I would tell you everything anyway...so it is final you are going ; )

I will go if you want me to, Amber. :hug: You are the bride afterall. But if one girl holds a dollar over my head, I will kill them!

[Amber818]

I laughed so loud all the cats got scared....we will not be going anywhere that have naked men that are all sweaty and gross. You know I am not into that....

[WebLady]

I would prefer that my mother did go. She is my best friend and I want to share every aspect of this with her. I do not know what tradition dictates but I am revising that and saying my mom is going...LOL! I would have such a better time knowing she is there. Besides I went to a Bachlorette party once and there were male strippers and everything and the MOB was there. She just wanted to be there with her daughter...and that is exactly what I want...

OMG, I just realized you were MOB Karen's Amber :w00t: It all makes since now :bblol:

But as for what tradition dictates, you are always able to revise the rules accordingly, you're the bride ;) Sounds like you and your mom have a great relationship, I wish I had that with my mom.

[Shawna Bride]

I'm so glad that we didn't go to a strip club... I just don't find it that exciting to watch someone else's boyfriend whip his wee wee around! LOL

[kheath10]

It sounds like you had a great time I look forward to seeing what my friend does for me will it be good or just ok!! I kinda feel like my friends are being really boring and I hope the thing gets better it makes me feel boring about my wedding!! When me and my fiance are just the only ones feeling happy:p
I am really happy for you!! Good luck.

[CindySue]

Shawna, Your party sounded like it was awsome! Totally understabd the Mickey D thing. We used to have those problems with Taco Bell!
Brian and I were just going to have one together, but hearing about yours makes me want to have a party by myself!

[Jenn060306]

It sounds like you had an awsome time with your friends!
I know about Mark's party coming up. I'm wondering what will happen for my own.

Anything to do with Micky D's and having a few drinks is always a story to keep to yourself. They never go well together.

[Shawna Bride]

It sounds like you had a great time I look forward to seeing what my friend does for me will it be good or just ok!! I kinda feel like my friends are being really boring and I hope the thing gets better it makes me feel boring about my wedding!! When me and my fiance are just the only ones feeling happy:p
I am really happy for you!! Good luck.

Why don't you casually mention some things you would like to happen the night of your bachlorette party?
My girls asked me first for some things I'd like to do, they said no promises but they wanted to know my feelings. One of the things I suggested was kareoki, which we never did, but looking at the night we had, I;m glad what we did.

[Amber818]

I'm so glad that we didn't go to a strip club... I just don't find it that exciting to watch someone else's boyfriend whip his wee wee around! LOL

I couldn't agree with you more....YUCK!

[Amber818]

OMG, I just realized you were MOB Karen's Amber :w00t: It all makes since now :bblol:

But as for what tradition dictates, you are always able to revise the rules accordingly, you're the bride ;) Sounds like you and your mom have a great relationship, I wish I had that with my mom.

Oh...yeah...I'm her Amber ; )

I am very lucky to have her as a mom.

[tha_mrs]

I'm so glad that we didn't go to a strip club... I just don't find it that exciting to watch someone else's boyfriend whip his wee wee around! LOL

LOL! I told my sisters the same thing. I just would prefer not to have them where I am Wow Shawna, it sounds like you had a ball! I am glad you enjoyed your night. Only 1 more week huh? GO SHAWNA GO! YOU CAN DO IT!
(you know, secretly I always wanted to be a cheerleader)

[WhiskeyGirl]

I'm so glad that we didn't go to a strip club... I just don't find it that exciting to watch someone else's boyfriend whip his wee wee around! LOL

I was the same way!! I figured I am geting married why in the world would I want to look at another man's johnson?? If I wanted that I'd stay home, put on some romantic music, light some candles and tada!! lol

[Amber818]

I feel the same way! But for some reason men(not all men, but most men) want to see T&A before they get married. I just think it is funny!

[WhiskeyGirl]

I feel the same way! But for some reason men(not all men, but most men) want to see T&A before they get married. I just think it is funny!

my Dh was very against it and told his GM "hell no!!" so neither of us saw any body parts of other people that we shouldn't lol!!!

[Amber818]

LOL...I don't have a problem with it....you can look all you want but NO touchy.....is what I say....LOL!

[tha_mrs]

I asked my brother about this.He is sooo goofy(lol) He said he would want to go because that would be his last time seeing any other T & A for the rest of his life.I guess he has that whole giving up the freedom thing.There was one thing he said that kinda stuck though.He said you have to give up something to get something better.So he said you go take one last look and realize what you have at home is 100% better,plus your woman at home gives you a dance because she loves you, and you can touch!Brothers are a trip,well atleast mine is.

[CindySue]

LOL...I don't have a problem with it....you can look all you want but NO touchy.....is what I say....LOL!
I feel the same way. Brian isnt into the strip club thing, but if he was it wouldnt bother me.

[WebLady]

Originally Posted by Shawna Bride -
I'm so glad that we didn't go to a strip club... I just don't find it that exciting to watch someone else's boyfriend whip his wee wee around! LOL

Yeah, I am not big on strip clubs either. I just don't care to see any of that business. I would much rather just see a hot guy on TV with his shirt off ;) But honestly even that really doesn't 'do it' for me

... Brian isnt into the strip club thing, but if he was it wouldnt bother me.
My DH use to frequent strip clubs before we met and even dated one. He hasn't been much since we got together. I don't really care as long as he isn't obsessed with it and keeps coming home to me ... and we have a strict rule about no lap dances and such. No one else is allowed that close to my man ;) But I do think the whole strip club thing is a HUGE waste of money, but as long as it is only once in a while than I guess it is fine, I am not going to stop him but I really don't like it ... mostly because I don't trust his friends ;)

[CindySue]

My DH use to frequent strip clubs before we met and even dated one. He hasn't been much since we got together. I don't really care as long as he isn't obsessed with it and keeps coming home to me ... and we have a strict rule about no lap dances and such. No one else is allowed that close to my man ;) But I do think the whole strip club thing is a HUGE waste of money, but as long as it is only once in a while than I guess it is fine, I am not going to stop him but I really don't like it ... mostly because I don't trust his friends ;)
I can understand where you are coming from there. I had a real good friend that was putting herself through nursing school by dancing and I went to work with her a few time. I didnt dance but I just hung out. I know there are "good" ones and "bad" ones. At this place the men spent more time playing pool and just drinking beer than watching the girls dance. I mean they did watch but it wasnt like you see on tv, these guys looked more like the were watching a documentary than half naked girls!

[Amber818]

[quote=tha_mrs]I asked my brother about this.He is sooo goofy(lol) He said he would want to go because that would be his last time seeing any other T & A for the rest of his life.I guess he has that whole giving up the freedom thing.There was one thing he said that kinda stuck though.He said you have to give up something to get something better.So he said you go take one last look and realize what you have at home is 100% better,plus your woman at home gives you a dance because she

That is sooooo true! I couldn't agree with you more. Your brother put it perfectly....

[tha_mrs]

[quote=tha_mrs]I asked my brother about this.He is sooo goofy(lol) He said he would want to go because that would be his last time seeing any other T & A for the rest of his life.I guess he has that whole giving up the freedom thing.There was one thing he said that kinda stuck though.He said you have to give up something to get something better.So he said you go take one last look and realize what you have at home is 100% better,plus your woman at home gives you a dance because she

That is sooooo true! I couldn't agree with you more. Your brother put it perfectly....

Yeah I guess that's what kinda made me say, well whatever!I use to have a joke a long time ago.When I was in college my friends and I would say strip clubs aren't the problems,hell they can go watch those girls and I can do the same thing we he gets home.Now the problem is gymnist(sp?) and figure skaters(lol)Cause there ain't no way my legs can do that stuff!(lol)so we said whenever we got married that our husbands could go to the strip club,but they were forbidden to ever attend the Olympics!(lol)It was our little joke.

[CindySue]

Now the problem is gymnist(sp?) and figure skaters(lol)Cause there ain't no way my legs can do that stuff!(lol)so we said whenever we got married that our husbands could go to the strip club,but they were forbidden to ever attend the Olympics!(lol)It was our little joke.
Thats cute. I will have to remember that!

[usahgrad]

Jason isn't really a frequenter of strip clubs. I hear he's gone once or twice with some people, but it's not his deal. He didn't want a stripper at his bachelor party...he didn't even really want a bachelor party...so his BM brought him and some guys over for a bonfire a few weeks ago. I kept joking he needed to see a stripper, just so he could get one last good look at a big set of tatas before he settled down with these pancake lumps! He said he liked my pancake lumps. :)

I don't think I'm having a bachlorette party. I don't really know anyone in the area and all my friend who are out of the area don't have the money or the time to be here before the wedding, so I'm not going to plan on anything. However, if I did have a bachlorette party...I would definitely not have it at a strip joint! I don't want to see some naked man. A man in the flesh is only good if you love him and the only one I love is at home, not dancing in a strip club (that I know of ;) ). Like Shawna said, I could go home, light some candles, put on some romantic music and tada! That's the best strip show anyways! And not because it's free! :)

[ikkin510]

Steve has been to a strip club once for a friends bachelor party and hated it. So I know he won't be doing any of that for his. He has already threatened his GMs, lol.
I don't think I'll really be having a party either, which is fine by me. 3 out of 4 of the BM will be away at college and won't be coming back until the day before the wedding. But my MOH is coming in early so the two of us are going to a spa for the day. I consider that my party.

[Shawna Bride]

So, I mentioned that the girls made passes for everyone to wear. Each pass had a different picture of "Me", here they are;
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/skatershawna.jpg

http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/tennis.jpg

http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/shawnalisa.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/playboyvouge.jpg

[Shawna Bride]

i'LL HAVE TO DO IT IN A FEW POSTS:
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/playboypic.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/playboy9.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/playboy4.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/playboy3.jpg

[Shawna Bride]

http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/playboy.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/motherteresa.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/kidsmarriage.jpg

[Shawna Bride]

http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/elle.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/baby.jpg
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/americanidol.jpg

aND THIS IS THE ONE I WORE OF MY FUTURE HUSBAND (WELL, IT'S PART OF HIM!)
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f217/shawna_bride/myman.jpg

[rainbowtreat]

Those are too funny.

[WebLady]

OMG, too funny :bblol: Some of them were done up really good ... you shouls put them in a scrap book or something ;)

[MOB Karen]

How fun and creative!! I love it!!

[ikkin510]

Those are awesome! I would definatly put those in a scrapbook! Great idea!

[WhiskeyGirl]

Those are great!! They are so funny!! lol

[usahgrad]

I have to echo everyone's opinion...those are great! :)