45 Days!!!!

[CindySue]

As of today, Kelli, Sarah and myself, have only 45 days until our weddings!! Even though I have everyhting taken care of (or will shortly) for mine I still feel like this: http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_7.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm414CPUS)
Everytime I think about the wedding, my heart races, I get butterflies and semi sorta feel nauseous........Please tell me this is normal!!!!





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[KMac]

Hi Cindy,
Yes from what I have heard from everyone that I have talked to, this is very common!Don't worry, just take a deep breathe, everything will come together. If you need anything else, let us know!
KMac :D

[Shawna Bride]

I have so many sleepless nights, thinking and worrying about every aspect.
My FH says he feels sorry for me when the wedding is over, because I'll have nothing to worry about!!

[MOB Karen]

I can't imagine being that close, but I think you guys are holding it together just fine. If you ask me, you make all the brides proud!

[CindySue]

I have so many sleepless nights, thinking and worrying about every aspect.
My FH says he feels sorry for me when the wedding is over, because I'll have nothing to worry about!!
I can only imagine how YOU feel. If I feel like this at 45 days, how is it gonna be at 8?
Brian asks me all the time what am I going to do with all my time after the wedding! Well we have put the remodeling of the house on hold until after the wedding, so thats probably where our money and time will go then.

[CindySue]

I can't imagine being that close, but I think you guys are holding it together just fine. If you ask me, you make all the brides proud!
Youre sweet....Thanks!

[WhiskeyGirl]

I think as time gets closer, you'll freak out less and less because at some point you just have to stop and roll with the punches!! Thats how it went for me!! Except for the weekend prior to the wedding when we had a HUGE terriable fight with my FIL!! We almost called off the wedding!! It was horriable!! But then you just have to remember how stressed everyone including yourself is!! And like I said roll with the punches, it will all fall into place! Also remember that things WILL go wrong but that you just have to laugh it off, that way your guests will never know that its not going as planned!! Remember to relax and enjoy your day!! I was so busy running around trying to make things go smooth that I am not sure I spent much time partying like I should have!! So relax, take a deep breath and smile!! You are marrying the man of your dreams and this is one day, but the first day of the rest of what matters, your marriage to THE ONE!!! Good luck Ladies!!

[CindySue]

I think as time gets closer, you'll freak out less and less because at some point you just have to stop and roll with the punches!! Thats how it went for me!! Except for the weekend prior to the wedding when we had a HUGE terriable fight with my FIL!! We almost called off the wedding!! It was horriable!! But then you just have to remember how stressed everyone including yourself is!! And like I said roll with the punches, it will all fall into place! Also remember that things WILL go wrong but that you just have to laugh it off, that way your guests will never know that its not going as planned!! Remember to relax and enjoy your day!! I was so busy running around trying to make things go smooth that I am not sure I spent much time partying like I should have!! So relax, take a deep breath and smile!! You are marrying the man of your dreams and this is one day, but the first day of the rest of what matters, your marriage to THE ONE!!! Good luck Ladies!!
Thanks Shawna......I needed to hear that. I pretty much have everything taken care of. Im hoping that I can relax a little and not nip pick everything to death between now and then!!!

[sarahomalley]

I know. Yikes 45 days. The lady who is doing the alterations for my dress is out of town until April 14th. My dress is the most beautiful thing I ever put on. I didn't want to take it off. I have a meeting with the florist on Saturday. I have a trial hair appointment next tuesday. I'm a little upset but the ship date for the bridesmaids dresses is April 14th. So hopefully that's enough time. Saturday is April. Holy ****. I found a little ring bearer tux and a flower girl dress online for cheap. My future mother in law decided she's taking care of the rehearsal dinner and she's going to have it in the workshop at his parent's house. It's huge and dirty. There's no talking her out of it. We are ordering pizza and drinking beer. The bridal shower she is throwing me is about 65 people. 45 of which is people I have never met. Maybe I whine too much? At any rate, it's creeping up on us. I'm still nervous none of this is going to turn out!

[CindySue]

I know. Yikes 45 days. The lady who is doing the alterations for my dress is out of town until April 14th. My dress is the most beautiful thing I ever put on. I didn't want to take it off. I have a meeting with the florist on Saturday. I have a trial hair appointment next tuesday. I'm a little upset but the ship date for the bridesmaids dresses is April 14th. So hopefully that's enough time. Saturday is April. Holy ****. I found a little ring bearer tux and a flower girl dress online for cheap. My future mother in law decided she's taking care of the rehearsal dinner and she's going to have it in the workshop at his parent's house. It's huge and dirty. There's no talking her out of it. We are ordering pizza and drinking beer. The bridal shower she is throwing me is about 65 people. 45 of which is people I have never met. Maybe I whine too much? At any rate, it's creeping up on us. I'm still nervous none of this is going to turn out!
Dont feel bad....Im more nervous than I thought I would be. Im going back over EVERYTHING making sure that all my bases are covered! My FSiL is doing my make up and we are going to try a few things this coming weekend. Shes going to do my make up again after my shower on April 15th when my sister is going to be playing with my hair styles, so we can see what the whole look will look like. Im so ready for this to be over with!!! My only issue is there are 2 possible dresses I can wear. Both are Ivory. Brian is wearing Khaki pants and a white polo shirt. Should I get a white dress? I have time and the money to get something pretty but not too fancy.

[sarahomalley]

Ivory would be fine I would think, but I also am a shopping freak! Any excuse to buy something new and I'm all over it.

[countrygirl]

45 days, wow!! It's seven months for me, and it seems like a lifetime away!!

[CindySue]

45 days, wow!! It's seven months for me, and it seems like a lifetime away!!
Yeah well its sneaks up on ya.....When I started, I had 9 months to plan, and that seems like it was just yesterday!!

[countrygirl]

I worry now about worrying then. Does that make sense?? I know how much of a stress case freak I can become. :bbtwisted:

[CindySue]

I worry now about worrying then. Does that make sense?? :bbtwisted:
Yes....it does. I worry that Im going to be a nervous wreck right before. Thats if I havent gone psycho and killed everybody! http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_2_10.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm414CPUS)





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[rainbowtreat]

Cindy I think your going to be just fine. You have been one of th eones who seems to have it all together. I can't b eleive it is that close already. I have 70 days. And there are times I wonder if I will have every thing finished and paid for. We are not even moving to the new apartment untill The 1st of May at the earliest. It might be a little later then that. So I will have just about a month to get that place in order before my friend from Austraila gets here the 1st of June. And to get all the details worked out for this thing. I have a huge list of things that I just cant' make up my mind on and get no feedback from Nicholas.

Any how, like I said your gonna be just fine. Just make sure you enjoy the day. It will be gone before you know it.

[usahgrad]

WAHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok, so can y'all tell I'm excited??

Yes, I worry, but at this point, I would really like for all of this to be over. I know that this Saturday is six weeks and I can't wait! I have so many appointments in a couple of weeks that the thought of it makes my head spin.

My mother keeps trying to get me to come up and visit her sometime in the next couple of weeks which is my only time to even half breathe (I have a lot of stuff I need to get done including thank you cards for the bridal shower, mugs to be finished, stolls for the bridesmaids, finishing the bm's gifts, and now we've decided to make our own cake topper as the one we like doesn't come small enough! ACK!). So I'm trying to convince her that me coming there is not going to happen...but it's not working.

I know that, once her surgery is scheduled, we'll be there for that weekend, so that leaves me four total weekends to get everything done, not adding in the appointments and the trip that's going to take half a weekend to go get the not-champagne for the toasts!

Wow, I sound crazy. Wish I was nearly as calm, collected and ontop of things as you are Cindy. Your wedding is going to be beautiful! And I'm sure that at least some of the time, the nerves will give way to excitement...you may even get giddy once in awhile (which is what I am when I come out of my sleepy state...)! Good luck for the next 46 days! :)

[CindySue]

Calm and collected? Me? Not to hear Brian tell it! Im just always wanting to be doing something wedding....thats what I feel like I should be doing. And when I dont have anything to do , I keep feeling like I forgot something!

[Jenn060306]

I think i will be freakin out at 45 days too!
I am already having trouble sleeping and anxiety about it. I started to freak last night when i was trying to organize all the weekends between now and the wedding.
I might eat my own words later. But.... try and relax, don't let everything get to you. Maybe take some time off form wedding and have some Cindy time :D