Fight

[LaceyinPgh]

Can someone explain to me why Sean and I aren't speaking right now? We actually got into a fight over where to stop for breakfast before we went to finsih registering this morning. He listed two resturants and I said no to both becuase the waits were going to be too long and the foo din general sucked. So, what parking lot does he pull into, one of thsoe two places. I could have killed. I got so mad I wouldn't even suck it up and get out of the car. I made him take me home. I am so **** tired of no one listening to what I say yet htinking that their opinions matter one **** drop to me. I swear I am going to lose what is left of my snaity before this wedding gets here.

[MOB Karen]

Because you're human and you're getting married in 2 months. Forgive yourself, and then go give him a big hug and tell him how happy you are to be marrying him.

[BridalGown.NET]

So sorry. Wedding stress isn't fun. Hopefully you can both let it go and laugh it off. Pick and choose your fights and try to let the rest roll. Easier said then done, I know, but it is a good rule to take into marriage. Now take a deep breath and exhale.....

[CindySue]

Lacey, Im sorry you have having to go through this on top of everything else, but I thing the guys are going insane too. Brian has been acting like all of the sudden I no longer can make decisions for myself. We had a big blow out this weekend over my opinions being brushed off. He will ask what I think but then go with what he wanted in the 1st place. I told him 2 could play that game and I was going to stop asking his opinion. I was just going to o what I wanted. He had the nerve to say he was trying to lift some of the burden off me. What the :censored: ? Im thinking "you want to lift some burden? Why dont you do some laundry or clean the kitchen or something"
Has he offered any excuse as to why he went against your opinion? Do they actually think that we are so caught up in these **** weddings that we have forgotten how to think for ourselves? Are yall ok now? Brian and I stayed on spearate sides of the house ALL day yesterday. He knew not to even TRY to talk to me until I was ready to talk.
Hopefully things will be back to normal after the weddings.......Thank goodness we dont have long!!!
And the other girls are right.....we do need to take deep breaths and just let it go. I will try to do if you will. Maybe it will keep me from grabbing one of these office chairs and :chair:Brian with it!

[blueeyedbride]

How are things?

[CarlosHoney]

He had the nerve to say he was trying to lift some of the burden off me. What the :censored: ? Im thinking "you want to lift some burden? Why dont you do some laundry or clean the kitchen or something" I agree 200%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We fight about where to eat sometimes too. Don't worry about it. It happens! Picking your battles really does work.. Since we started doing that, we fight so much less. I tell him that "I'm letting this one go." and he knows that is a battle that I didn't pick. So, when I don't let one go, he knows to be a little bit more open to thinking about my point, since It's actually important to me.

[LaceyinPgh]

How are things?
Absolutely fine thus far. When you have two Type A personalities like Sean and I under the amount of non wedding related stress that we are having the wedding in two months tossed in too you are going to get a mess everynow and then. It happens.

[CarlosHoney]

Yeah, Carlo and I can be so much alike sometimes that it's scary. I know what you mean, sweetie.

[Jenn060306]

Glad to hear everything is ok now.
Mark and i get set off by the little things to. The hard part is he wants to talk right away where i want to step back and cool down a little before we hash it out. It only makes him more mad that i am trying to move away and me more mad that he's following me. lol.

[WebLady]

Glad to hear things are better ... I think DH and I fight over silly things sometimes too, but it usually doesn't last long and our fights are few and far between ... more so when I get stressed or pissy about something else.

[rainbowtreat]

I am glad things are good between you two. Nicholas I don't tend to fight. We might get agravated with each other at times and we snap at each other but as for fighting we dont do it. He came to work to see me today after getting his truck looked at. It is gonna cost $300 to fix it. That is $300 we dont even have for the wedding at the moment. Of course I who gets stressed over money all the time was flipping out. He told me that every day thigns have to come first. I said yes I know this but this wedding is in place, things are paid for and others have deposits on them. These have to be done to. We said our good byes and he came home I got out early and picked up my son and went to Concord for a few errands. When I got home he appoligized for being snappy with me. I just get overly stressed over money issues. I hate having to woory. I told him if he oculd show me on paper where the money is gonna come from then I would be ok but just telling me everything is gonna be fine DOES NOT HELP.

These are the types of little spats we have. Some over the kids. He doesnt have kids and has been learning this first year he has been here. He is great with them but some things he tries are a little more strict then I am. I try to explain to him about my kids. I mean they were not babies when eh got here. They already have a life style that he cant just change. Not that he has tried to chagne anything to drastict. Like for example, this morning ( somethign so silly in my eyes ) he got cereal out for my daughter. ( he feeds her and puts her on the bus while I take my son to daycare and get to work ) I told him he had better ask her before he fills the bwol. She came out and wanted a different kind then what he had pulled out. He said to me when I was a kid it was this is what your getting so eat it. I said well when I was a kid if we had more then one kind of cereal in the house we got to choose. It is realy not a big deal. They are old enough to make a choice from 2 things.

Sorry didnt mean to take over your thread. T=Half of this just came to me as I was sitting here typeing it.

[sweetNCgurl]

I know how it gets a few months before the wedding. Everyone is getting nervous and any small thing that doesn't go your way sets you off. It's ok. Just let it go, give him a hug, smile, and tell each other that you love one another. I know, easier said than done, but you're about to be married :D