Help Needed Please

[Going2BeMrsEshraghi]

Ok so... here is my problem, but before I get into it, a little bit of back story:

My last period started on April 28th. FH and I use birth control every single time in the forms of condoms and the Ortho Spermicide gel that come in those individual tubes in the blue box. Surely you all have seen them... right?

Anyways, I have an ovulation tracking program in my Sidekick that is set to NOT get pregnant, and according to that, I should have ovulated on Monday, May 12th.

Last week, I noticed I was spotting a bit. Some slight cramps, and there was some reddish pink in my normal "discharge", and then it went away, only to do it again a day or so later.

I was due to start my period Monday... today is Wednesday and still nothing. I took a pregnancy test last Thursday and it was negative. I also took another one I believe Monday that said "Not Pregnant."

I'm not really cramping, my breasts aren't tender like when I am about to start my period... so what gives???

Any help... because I don't really know what to do. I haven't even spotted or have anything show up these past days. It all stopped around Friday.

Thanks in advance. I posted my problem last week on a forum and the ladies there weren't very nice nor helpful at all.

<3

[Krimangel]

This has never happend to me, but I have heard of having your cycle just with no discharge. Although I would think you would still have your other normal things, the tender breast or cramping...

I would say go to the dr. and have them check you out.

Good luck.

[June_Bride2008]

Your period might just be a little late. That has happen to me. I freak out...but my period started a few days afterwards. Just wait a few more days and see. :)

[Going2BeMrsEshraghi]

I thought about that...but I am always like spot on to the date. I can always predict when it is going to happen: day, time...everything.

This is just throwing me for a loop because back in 2002 when I was pregnant with my daughter, I did the light cramp/spotting thing and thought that my period was coming only to pop out a kid in 2003 lol.

FH doesn't mind it, and he is happy with whatever the result is. He really wants to have kids and will be an amazing dad. Only downside is that we would have to rush up the wedding to like... in the next few weeks because his family and their religion is STRONGLY against a guy and a girl even sleeping in the same bed if they aren't married, let alone bumping uglies >.<

[WebLady]

If you are really worried then you should go to a Dr.

:goodluck:

[bichonlvr]

Did you take the tests in the morning? If you have been pregnant and have had a baby, do YOU think you are pregnant? Call your Dr. Or just do what you did the first time!

[Going2BeMrsEshraghi]

Did you take the tests in the morning? If you have been pregnant and have had a baby, do YOU think you are pregnant? Call your Dr. Or just do what you did the first time!


The first one I took around 6ish in the evening. The second time I took it, it was also in the late afternoon/evening.

Does it really make that big of a difference? When I took the test when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter, that was in the evening and as soon as the urine hit the test it said POSITIVE!! It was so hilarious, I remember my mom putting it down with her eyes looking like a deer caught in the headlights saying.."maybe we still need to wait a bit..."

As for me thinking if I am or not, I don't know to be honest. I really don't, but then again I didn't think I was in the first place and told my mom to go to the store and buy one so I could take it and prove her wrong. So much for that lol!!

I have no clue. And still.... no period, no spotting, no change in color. Nothing. I have light, LIGHT cramping, but nothing that makes me say.."oh!! a period is on its way!!"

I will wait a few more days and then have a panic attack lol.

Thank you all by the way for not getting all crabby with me. Like I said in my first post about this, I had asked this question on another forum that I won't mention, and they were just awful.

:snide:

[bichonlvr]

They say take them in the morning..go to the $ store and buy a few more and take them again! Then call the Dr. Good luck!

[Going2BeMrsEshraghi]

Ok so... today has been semi frustrating for me.

For starters, about a month ago I asked my PCP (primary care physician) for a ob/gyn referral (because of my medical insurance, I can't pick who I want to go to, I have to get referred...stupid, but whatever) and I have been waiting and waiting and waiting. So after my problem that I posted on here a few days ago, I called today to book an appointment with my PCP, and they didn't have anything available tomorrow and the walk-in times were from 8 to 10:30 in the morning - problem is, FH works tomorrow morning and gets out at 10 and where he works, there is NO WAY that he would make it from work, to get to his house and get me, and then go all the way to the other side of town in time...next available appointment is June 9th and frankly that won't work.

So I inquired about the referral and was placed on hold. Then a girl got on the phone and said that an appointment was booked for me on the 29th (yesterday mind you) at 10 in the morning, and I was like WHAA!!!! :bbeek: and told her that I never got a phone call. She then tells me that they mailed something out to me on the 22nd - last Thursday, on a holiday weekend, smart... real smart. Guess who hasn't gotten it - me. When I called my mom today (because I still use her address for my insurance) and when she checked the mail, still nothing. At this point, I am pretty peeved...

I called the ob/gyn, and I can't get in until the 9th there, so I booked one just in case, plus I need a check up anyways.

Well a girl at work was like "why don't you just go to Planned Parenthood?" Not a bad idea, so I looked it up, and the only clinic open tomorrow is in a pretty shaddy part of town, but at this point it is like whatever. I still need to see what is going on, you know? So tomorrow after FH gets out of work, we will be going there.

Thing that is semi-freaking me out is that every single female in my family has had to have a hysterectomy well before the age that I am now (I turn 26 at the end of June fyi), and while my daughter is not FH's, he will be an amazing father, and really wants to have his own kids - in which I have no problem with - except that his father is a twin so I sort of risk having dos bebes at the same time hahaha. Anyhoo... I sure hope that all this craziness that is going on isn't because my girly parts are starting to take a screaming nosedive and no longer want to work >.< That would be horrible.

Also, what is in the back of my head is this....when my mom was explaining how she found out she was pregnant with me... I was a ninja baby. Literally, a ninja baby. She took urine based pregnancy tests...negative. Blood tests... negative. Physical examinations... negative. She even had a shot to get her period to start her period... and I still hung on in there. Every single test she did didn't show me until she was in her 2nd trimester. Pretty odd eh? Well, FH and I have taken 2 tests already and both have said "Not Pregnant" so I don't know what else to think except that maybe I am carrying a ninja baby LOL!!

I will know more tomorrow, so if I get on here and am erratic in my typing, you will know what happened, and I will be married in like 3 weeks - his family is Persian and with their religion, you aren't even supposed to be sleeping in the same bed or even kissing each other, let alone having the sex.

I will keep you guys posted. Fingers crossed for me please!!!

<3 :kiss: