Is it just me?

[dee177]

I dont know why im feeling like this but over the past couple of weeks my wedding planning has come to a bit of a stand still and I dont feel as excited about the whole thing any more as I did a few weeks ago, I just dont feel like buying or reading my usual wedding magazine, if any one tries to talk to me about the wedding I just give tham short answers coz I really cant be botherd to talk about it. I just feel like I cant get into the whole swing of it again and that im all weddinged out.

I really hope its just a phase that will pass over soon coz deep down I cant wait to get married but just the whole wedding planning stuff is getting me down at the minute. Leighton has noticed coz I havent been talking about the wedding as much and has asked if Im not excited about it any more. Ive tried to tell him I want nothing more in the world than to marry him but the planning stage is just getting me down, A bit like when you have been playing a board game, Its really fun to start with but the after a couple of hours you just wish some one would win so you can pack up.

Sorry for moaning guys just wondered if any one else has gone thru the same phase. xx

[Jenn060306]

I have definatly been through that phase. It can be alot to handle and do and after a while it just feels like you want it to be all over and done with.
Arround the 5 months mark i really just because totally disinterested in planning. I was becoming really depressed and having a really hard time with everything going on. It took a bit, but i got back on track and i did some really fun things for the wedding and i started feeling alot better about it all.
Good Luck! Remember to take it one day at a time. And maybe try taking some time for yourself that is Wedding Free.

[dee177]

Thanks so much jennifer, Im just so relieved that its normal to feel disintrested at some point in the planning process as it is coming up to the 5 month mark. Thanks so much for the advise. Im definatly gunna take some time out from planning and just do some wedding free stuff. Thanks again honey.xx

[WhiskeyGirl]

I went through the same thing! I think after a while, the same stress over and over again gets old and you just want nothing to do with it anymore!! Thats how I felt! Don't worry it will pass!! Take care!

[CindySue]

Im going through that phase now too. Ive completed all the planning i can do for now and I have to wait to finish....AND Im not handling it very good either. So I dont care to talk about. I have a bad case of the "I just dont wannas." I guess when the time gets here to finish, I will get back in full force.....Hopefully anyway.
Hang in there girl!

[dee177]

Thanks guys, Like I said before im just so glad that its normal. Ill hang in there and keep my chin up til im back on form. xx