Family & Relationships

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[lurenblue14]

im engaged, and i love my fiance to death, but he is a bit of a mamas boy. we just had our first child together, and in my eyes him and our daughter come before my parents and siblings...however he has said that his mother comes first to him? is it worng for that to bother me? im furious. and to top it off, we are looking for a place of our own and he refuses to leave his mother beacuse he feels the need to take care of her? shes not elderly so i dont understand? am i allways going to be second best? i dont no wat to do or think right now. they have a co-dependant relationship and i want to know where i will stand as his wife:censored:

[Kacie_bride]

You defiantely need to talk to your fh about this. You are correct in saying that your daughter comes first. He should realize this because I'm sure all his mother's life he has come first to her. He needs to realize that when we grow up we leave our parents home and make a home of our own. It is okay to help your parents out and if they become inable to care for themselves we should help out more. However, at this point in his mother's life he needs to put his daughter before his mother and you before his mother. That is how marriage and parenting is supposed to be. You are a family now. His mother is still a part of his family, but no longer the immediate family. He can still love her just as much, but you and your daughter come first. I'm sorry to say this, but if he does not change I do not see the marriage working out.