Nikita706
05-13-2008, 04:33 PM
Okay, so we have a bit of a confusing BM situation. My sister is actually the MOH, but since she's...well...not at all reliable or financially stable enough to do a lot of the things that's normally required of an MOH, I've had my best friend helping me out with a lot of the wedding decisions and have kind of designated her 'honorary MOH'. Well, our wedding was originally scheduled for February 2009, and I remember her mentioning that she'll have to call my Mom to plan for the bridal shower. Well, eventually we moved the date up to July 5th, 2008, which only gave us 3 months to plan, and I never heard anything more about the shower.
Well, my Mom's best friend came forward a couple weeks ago and said that she really wanted to throw me my bridal shower. My Mom said that she hadn't heard anything from my 'honorary MOH' about a shower yet, and since the wedding was only 2 months away, she said she would love for her to throw one. She called the 'honorary MOH' and left a message explaining that my Mom would love to hear from her and to get her help in planning things out. Well, they haven't heard from her.
So I called about 2 weeks ago asking how she was doing and asked her to give me a call back so we could get together for lunch or something. I've probably called her 4 or 5 times in the last 2 weeks, leaving messages every time, but she's not returning my calls. She hasn't even RSVPed to the wedding. Could she really be upset that my Mom's friend is throwing the bridal shower? Even if she is, I had nothing to do with the bridal shower plans, why would she be avoiding me? I did switch my phone number a few weeks back, but I've left at least 4 messages with the new one on it and explained the situation with that. I have no idea what's going on! Not to mention that her Mom owns a bakery and is doing the cake for us, so I'd like to hear from her and make sure that her Mom doesn't need us to do anything more also.
Well, my Mom's best friend came forward a couple weeks ago and said that she really wanted to throw me my bridal shower. My Mom said that she hadn't heard anything from my 'honorary MOH' about a shower yet, and since the wedding was only 2 months away, she said she would love for her to throw one. She called the 'honorary MOH' and left a message explaining that my Mom would love to hear from her and to get her help in planning things out. Well, they haven't heard from her.
So I called about 2 weeks ago asking how she was doing and asked her to give me a call back so we could get together for lunch or something. I've probably called her 4 or 5 times in the last 2 weeks, leaving messages every time, but she's not returning my calls. She hasn't even RSVPed to the wedding. Could she really be upset that my Mom's friend is throwing the bridal shower? Even if she is, I had nothing to do with the bridal shower plans, why would she be avoiding me? I did switch my phone number a few weeks back, but I've left at least 4 messages with the new one on it and explained the situation with that. I have no idea what's going on! Not to mention that her Mom owns a bakery and is doing the cake for us, so I'd like to hear from her and make sure that her Mom doesn't need us to do anything more also.