Bridal Shower Conflict Problems Help Pls!!

[mandabear04]

Hey guys... I am back for now... I took a break from planning to focus on school and now i have 5 months to get it all laid down... My biggest new issue is we are planning my Bridal shower... let me explain:

My MOH is in Florida for an internship until August 15th... My wedding is October 11th... school starts September 4th and my Birthday (21st) is August 31st ...

My fiance just got this job (it sucks ps) at a car place with a 2500 dollar garuntee for the first 6 months (march-sept) if he doesnt miss one day ... well he has to work Mon-Wed, all day Fri and Sat plus the last Sunday of every month.

That means ... the weekend of my birthday and planned weekend of the bridal shower (in colorado I live in South dakota) he has to work all through... but he has never been to Colorado and I don't want to spend my birthday without him... but if he misses thosed ays he doesn't get his 2500 for august...

WHAT DO I DO!!!?? I am so lost and confused and totally stressed out because of this... if i left too many holes let me know and I will fill them in ...

Thanks :)

Manda

[val24]

hmmm that is a toughie
if the money means that much to you, could you celebrate your birthday with him after he been there six months. you could take a trip to colorado after he is done.
i know it would suck not to have him there for the bridal shower/birthday bash though
how about having the shower/birthday party sept 6 & 7? could you do that instead?

would they still give him the money if he requested that weekend off. that way he is not really missing a day, he is asking for it off.

good luck!!!

[HisMuse]

I'd say just plan for something later and go out with your friends that night.

[princessbridezilla]

but if he misses thosed ays he doesn't get his 2500 for august...

so.. what DOES he get if he misses those days?

might sound harsh, but "that's life". i've had to miss out on spending important days with important people because of a job. it sucks.

[Nekochanpurr]

so.. what DOES he get if he misses those days?

might sound harsh, but "that's life". i've had to miss out on spending important days with important people because of a job. it sucks.


Kind of agree.. I've had to miss a lot of things too, because of my job.. Couldn't afford to take all the days off i wanted. :ooh: Don't worry! Its not like hes just skipping out or anything, and you will have your girllies.. It'll all work out okay. :cloppy: