2-2-2

[LaceyinPgh]

I have 2 months 2 weeks and 2 days until my wedding. I thought that was kind of neat.

[usahgrad]

YAY! It's coming up so fast isn't it? Do you still have lots to do or are you now stuck in the waiting stage too? :)

[LaceyinPgh]

I have so much that needs done. Tot op it all off It hink I have a bridesmaid that is trying to back out. I don't care I wish she would just tell me so I can take the appropriate measures.

[usahgrad]

Confront her!

I'm not looking forward to getting yelled at by my brother today because I have to call him and tell him what measurements we need for his daughter (who's a jbm). Well, I was complaining to my mother because everytime I have mentioned the dress my brother's wife keeps saying it's too far from the wedding and his daughter is going to grow out of it. Well, my mother called him the other night and yelled at him (wonderful) and he told her I hadn't given them what they needed measured. (I told his wife a month ago to put his daughter in one of her blouses with a number size and let us know how they'll fit; her answer was that all of her blouses are too small and that wouldn't work...she's one of those really helpful people *sarcasm*) So anyways, I have to call him today and tell him what measurements we need and I'm sure theres'g oing to be some sort of "How are we supposed to tell you if you don't tell us what you need something in there."

Ok, breakdown moment...I just want this to be over with! All I want is to be married to Jason! BLAH!

Sorry...totally hijacked your thread...

[LaceyinPgh]

Well I got an email from M. the other morning saying that she needed to talk to me. SHe asked if I would be willing to drive to her apartment to do it in person. First of all she lives an hour away. So I told her no I wasn't driving an hour after work to talk to her. If it were that important she knew where I lived. Or, she had my phone number. This by the way was on Monday morning. It is now Saturday and she hasn't responded to my email from Monday morning nor my phone call from Tuesday afternoon. I certainly am not going to waste another second. This all took place after my MOH and mother decided that they we sick of M. trying to run the shower. SO they ordered the favors that they (and I wanted) and my MOH infomred M that. M's mother wasn't makeing the centerpieces because she owuldn't listen to what my mom and MOH and other bm's wanted. So they had hried a florist. So I am sure that M. is going to be calling me and giving me an ultimatium that either her suggestions should be used or she is quitting. She hates confrontation so it will take her awhile to work up a set big enough to do so. I however, actually enjoy confrontation (I know, how sick is that.) So it won't cause me to bat an eyelash to tell her it was nice having her around and sicne she quit I'm not paying for her dress.

Hahaha I just hijacked my own thread!

[Jenn060306]

Thats awsome Lacey! You must be getting exsited.
I'm sorry that your having bridesmaid trouble at this point. May i offer you a chair?! :chair:

I've lucked out and i haven't had too many issues with mine.

[usahgrad]

Hehe...you just hijacked your own thread!

I don't mind confrontations, but with my family, that's a different story. My family is a bunch of we know everything type people so confronting them about something they did wrong is like asking God to play the Devil for a day...not looking forward to it.

So, anyways, I was posting and saw my countdown and mine is 2-2...you have one more 2 than me...but we're still getting really close for both of us! Just think soon it will be 1-1-1, then it will be just 1-1, then 1! YAY!

[WhiskeyGirl]

Is this the BM that you have been having problems with before Lacey? I hope she gets it together and grows some to call you!! If it were me, yeah I wouldn't look forward to the call but I know that it would need to be done!! I wonder just how long it might take her?! Take care Lacey!! And I am so excited for you Girl!!

[rainbowtreat]

I loved that you hijacked your own thread. lol That was good. As of yesterday I have 3 months left. And still so much to be done but I have kinda backed off for a while so I need to get my butt ( and FH's butt ) in gear and get things finished. I also have a girl who has not spoken to me nor have I seen her for a couple of months. She did this a few motnhs ago and re apeared after I stopped in a asked what her problem was. And she is doing it again. I am not hurt by it in the least. I have people I can talk to if need be and will ALWAYS be there regardless. I have already taken her daughter out of the wedding ( decided to have just my neice and nephew for the FG and RB ) but she doesn't know that yet because she hasn't been around. She is also the type of person who will decide to re apear just in time to be in the wedding. I WILL NOT have that. Either she be part of my life and the every day of it like any one else is. ( meaning, i have friends who dont live near me at all who i talk to more then i do her and these girls are not even in this state ) I dont mean she has to be here every day ( i am glad she isn't ) but atleasat be the FREIND that she was always was. I only want the ones close to me in my wedding and at this time in life she is not one of them for more then just her not being around.

Sorry i kinda hijacked your thread there for a min. too. I am excited for ya. You must be getting so excited more now that it is getting closer.

[CarlosHoney]

Aww, Lacey. Sorry! That stinks! I have yet to have BM issues, THANK GOD! I'm handling most of the stuff myself, though, so there's not room for a lot of dispute. I don't think I'm having a shower, either.. I don't care either way. Good for you, though. Tell her that she's no longer needed.

Yeah, I kind of like confrontation too. It's kind of a sick ego trip, but whatever. It's that adrenaline rush, ya' know?

Kelli, that stinks about your bro too! I mean, you can always get the dress bigger and get it altered a couple of weeks before. That's what we're doing, since I'm the incredible shrinking woman.

Gewn, I totally understand. I'm not really close to very many people, and the girls in my wedding I don't even talk to all that often. They're good friends, and have been there for a long time, but only one of them I've even seen a handfull of times since Elias was born. The others, well, I saw my MOH the day he was born.. And one twice since he was born, and the other I haven't seen at all since he was born.

It's kinda sad, but I'm only having this many because Carlo wants 4 GM, and I feel weird about having uneven sides. I know you don't have to, but I feel like you should.. And he wouldn't just have them read something or be an usher.

Everyone is feeling the sting. Wedding planning is stressful. Full 'o stress. Hey, Jen, Where's that chair? ;)

[Jenn060306]

LOL yeah.... pass arround the chairs!
Mark only has 3 groomsmen and i have 4 bridesmaids, i feel a bit weird about it but he doesen't feel comfortable asking anyone eles. He is so unsure about his relationships with other people.
Anyways... Sorry hijack tangent.

[rainbowtreat]

I have 6 girls ( well maybe 5 if I get to kick one out lol , that sounds mean sorry ) and Nihcolas only has 4 guys ( well 2 of them are only 14 & 15 ) he is not even sure who his best man is going to be yet. So we are off as well but I am not worried about it.