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FFC
04-09-2008, 01:52 PM
I've always wanted to have kids... and I'm soooo excited that I've found the man that I'm going to have them with. We have decided to wait (if we can) till Sierra is 10 before we start having kids (she's almost 8 now)- we're hoping by then we'll be a little better off and in a better living situation by then.

So, this weekend I saw one of my best friends from High School at our 5 year reunion, she's 8 months pregnant.

I saw another friend from high school who was 3 years behind me - 5 months pregnant

My cousin just had a baby 3 days ago

Matt's cousin is due any day

Today I found out that one of my life long friends is pregnant.

OMG Everyone is having babies and getting married... I can't wait to start having kids, but I know, I gotta enjoy what time I have with Matt while I can. I'm just going through the baby blues right now. :purplex:

:puppy:

sweetvenus
04-09-2008, 02:04 PM
I understand how you feel. Most of my friends are on their second kids now. I keep telling them to slow down, so when we finally start having kids, my kids will have someone to play with that is their age, lol. I only have like one or two friends that do not have kids, and I know one of those two is going to start trying this year.

grapefruit
04-09-2008, 02:16 PM
I want a honeymoon baby... but my fh doesn't want one yet...:(

FFC
04-09-2008, 02:59 PM
I want a honeymoon baby... but my fh doesn't want one yet...:(

Wow I've never heard the term "honeymoon baby" before - but I love it! I wish we could do that! We have some time though. My mom isn't any help either!! Her and her best friend are always asking me "So, are you pregnant yet?". They can't wait either!

Blusher
04-09-2008, 03:10 PM
well since everyone else is having babies you can just sneak in cuddles from their babies to tide you over ;) I'm also very anxious to have babies of my own... I'm not a patient person when it comes to stuff that I really really really want

WBandMe
04-09-2008, 03:26 PM
I got the baby blues really bad about a year ago because two of my closest friends had babies within a couple of months of each other. Now this year another one is pregnant. I'm stuck here in college and they aren't, and for awhile I was really upset about that. But now things are kind of falling apart for them a bit, and while I feel for my friends, I can't help but think "I'm glad it's not me!" I know we'll have kids when we're ready, and in the meantime I'm really trying to focus on enjoying myself and my relationship the way it is, because after kids we'll never get this back.

FFC
04-09-2008, 03:55 PM
I got the baby blues really bad about a year ago because two of my closest friends had babies within a couple of months of each other. Now this year another one is pregnant. I'm stuck here in college and they aren't, and for awhile I was really upset about that. But now things are kind of falling apart for them a bit, and while I feel for my friends, I can't help but think "I'm glad it's not me!" I know we'll have kids when we're ready, and in the meantime I'm really trying to focus on enjoying myself and my relationship the way it is, because after kids we'll never get this back.


You are so right!!!

70707Bride
04-10-2008, 07:35 PM
I've been having some baby fever too. I finally saw my friend's baby that she had last June. Then it made me want one. Chris doesn't want one for a few years. Because we or he expects to move around a lot the next couple years for his job. Poo...hopefully next year but doubtful :(.

EarlyBird
04-10-2008, 10:18 PM
Wow I've never heard the term "honeymoon baby" before - but I love it! I wish we could do that! We have some time though. My mom isn't any help either!! Her and her best friend are always asking me "So, are you pregnant yet?". They can't wait either!
Hehe stinks when everyone keeps asking bout something like that right? i work with my best friend and if i feel so much as a little sick in the morning she says, ARE YOU PREGNANT!?!!?" :) gotta love it though, at least you know the baby will be loved by so many!

dawsmi
04-10-2008, 10:35 PM
I have big time baby blues right now!! I have been trying to get pregnant for 2 years and have nothing yet! Don't get me wrong I am very happy and blessed to have my almost 3 year old daughter but we want another one!! And then to see 4 of my friends get pregnant easily and my sister-in-law pregnant with her 3rd makes me really want one more!! Why is it that the ones who really want babies can't have them?? Then the ones who shouldn't have them can have the easily?? It doesn't seem too fair to me!!:(

NowAShelton
04-11-2008, 12:26 AM
thats funny that everyone keeps asking you if your pregnant yet....thats what FH keeps asking me! he wants kids so bad! i would love to have a baby but i know in my heart of hearts im too selfish right now :purplex: i need more time with FH i guess and more time to do nothing in but what i really want to do. like if i get a chance and i wanna sleep in, i can do it. i just need to grow up a little before,but im getting there