Bachlorette Party

[Shawna Bride]

If you got to choose what to do on your bachlorette, what would you choose?
My BM's keep telling me I'm in for an entire night of fun, but won't give me any details!

[countrygirl]

My MOH and BM have all agreed that we are not going to have a stipper at mine. None of us are really in to that. We are planning to rent a limo, and go clubbin', but my MOH says there are things that I have to wait to find out about.

[officiant-fica]

Mine was a suprise also, and they took me to a strip club. At first I was soooo uncomfortable, but after a few drinks and as long as the dancers stayed away from me I was OK. But I did make us leave there early.

[LaceyinPgh]

My girls all know that strippers are totally out of the question. I can think of NOTHING more disgusting than that. I als hate the bar scene. I have made it well known that I want either a spa day or just a nice quite dinner out. Nothing more.

[CindySue]

I think Brian and I are having a "Jack and Jill" type party. Wouldnt mind a party with just the girls, but he doesnt really have friends he could go do the guy thing with so we agreed to do it together. But HEY......at least I get something!

[countrygirl]

I think that ours will start out separate, but then end up at the same place later on. Our friends are mostly all in the same group, and we all have more fun together!!! Josh liked the idea too. He and his friends aren't really the stripper type either.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I also said NO strippers and made sure that my FH knew! (though I didn't have to tell him twice and he told me he felt the same way!!) If you want to look at naked men or women right before your wedding, what is the point of marrying this amazing person anyhow?? Ya know!! They should be the only person you want to see naked, not some hussy shaking her tiny little body on my FH's lap!! My MOH (SIL) was upset with the both of us for not wanting strippers!! I wanted to scream at her, maybe that is why your husband cheats on you!! Because you never layed down the law from the start!! My DH's GM were completely ok with not taking him to the strippers and my girls (Except my MOH) was cool with a "Intimate items" party and then drinks at a lounge afterwards!! Neither of us came home hammered and neither of us were feeling sick or regretted anything the next day!! Like I said, we were didn't need to see other people naked, we could come home at the end of the night and see the other person without guilt!! I've heard too many WRONG stories about strippers and grooms!! My brother, mysteriously lost his hat and ended up puking behind a dumpster!! I saw him the next day and he looked like death warmed over!! I don't think he really enjoyed himself that much....he even got sick on my dad's boots!! And yes, the stripper still has his hat to THIS DAY!!! If that was my husband, I'd be choked!! (The story is sketchy on how she got it, but it does happen to have something to do with boobs in his face....and more!! At this point, I really want to disown my own disgusting brother!!)

[Shawna Bride]

I said no stripper as well.
They mentioned something about doing many activities that are my favorite, so it sounds like it's going to be fun!!

My FH's bachlor party is next week, and I have a feeling that strippers may be involved.... Oh well, I trust him.

[officiant-fica]

See if you can find the "That Guy Game" it's a "scavenger hunt" type game. You don't have to talk to any guys or anything, but it's too fun! There's a crd for "Too old to be here guy" and "Too tan guy" oh and my fave "Mullet Guy" I had so much fun with it! Now whenever I am out with girlfriends I have it in my purse just in case.
http://www.areyougame.com/interact/item.asp?itemno=EL001&q=that+guy

[Shawna Bride]

That looks like so much fun!
I just feel awkward telling my girls to do this, since they are planning the party.
I have to force myself not to micro-manage everything!

[Jenn060306]

I wouldn't want a stripper myself, and i don't think i would be thrilled with the idea of the guys getting a Stripper for Mark. I totally trust him, i just think its kinda gross. His Best Man, John feels the same way which is nice.

I don't know if we're going to have a bachelorette party. One of my BM's Laura was thinking we should all go get our nails done and go for lunch with my mom and Mark's mom the Thursday or Friday before the wedding. So i would be happy if thats all we do.

One of Mark's GM has mentioned they would like to throw a jack and kill type party for us. Have everyone buy tickets and such. So that should be a great party!

[officiant-fica]

Don't feel awkward! Once they see it chances are they'll think it's funny too. Plus coming up with games for parties can be hard, your friends might welcome the suggestion.

[WhiskeyGirl]

One of Mark's GM has mentioned they would like to throw a jack and kill type party for us. Have everyone buy tickets and such. So that should be a great party!

Ummmm...A jack and kill party??? Ummmmm...Lol.

Just bugging Ya Jen!! That sounds like a lot of fun! After I got home, our GMen and my DH were sitting around the fire place out behind of our house, but that was short lived because then one of them started feeling like he was going to puke and left to go to bed. Unfortunately they started the fire with diesel because the wood was wet (dumb A$$es) and the fire smelled horriable so I started feeling sick and left too! (it wasnt from drinking but from the fact that I can't stand the smell of diesel!!) I guess that's what I get for marrying a farm boy and him having farm boy friends!! Lmao!! But it was nice to meet up with everyone after a night of partying and just chill!!