stressed out already

[angel308]

I Have Been Engaged For A While Now But My Wedding Day Is Coming This June 10. I Was Fine Until Just Recently Because Now I Am So Nerveous And Confused. I Am Planning Everything Myself But I Never Thought It Would Be This Stressful. I So Afraid That Everything Is Going To Fall Apart On Me. My Questions Id Should Seek Help Even Though Everyone Is Trying To Change Things? Mainly My Mom.

Thanks
Angel308

[rainbowtreat]

Fist of all welcome. And hey you share a wedding date with me. I also am getting married on June 10th. Less then 4 months and I know where you stand with feeling like things are crazy. While I don't have anyone trying to change things I am concerned of having enough money to pay for what is left to be bought or paid on.

Any questions or concerns you have don't feel sorry for asking or venting. We all do it and every one here is willing to lend a helping hand in any way they can. They all have some thing to say to help us all through the things we have to deal with.

So ask and vent away. We are here for ya.

[WebLady]

Don't be stressed easier said than done, huh ;) You are not the first stressed out bride and you won't be the last.

Try not to let your family get to you. Something is bound to go not quite as planned, and even if it does, no one is likely to notice but you.

If by 'help' you mean a planner/coordinator, that can sometimes help but is not always necessary ... I do recommend a director for the Rehearsal and Ceremony at least. Maybe look around and see what the going rates are for in your area.

Remember, don't sweat the small stuff and it is all small stuff :wink: Whatever happens, you will still end up married and that is the most important part of all this, right?!

But I know how parents can be ... If you need to vent more or need more specific advice, feel free ... we are happy to help where we can.

:goodluck:

[CindySue]

Welcome to the board and congrats on your upcoming wedding.
I believe it was about the 4 month mark when I had my minor meltdown. I still have moments when I feel everything is going to blow up in my face, but I work through it and everything is just fine. I too am planning my wedding myself, so are most of the girls in here....if not ALL of them. What helped me was writing a list of things I had finished.
Good Luck!!