bail money

[LaceyinPgh]

Well, I am giving you girl's fair warning now. I have a feeling by the time this weekend is over I will need bail money. I don't know why I have htis feeling but for some reason I have the idea that between now and Sunday I am going to snap. :helpsmilie:

I just got an email from Sean. It read: "Lace, here is Paul's address. Add an 'and guest' too." I have no idea who the hell Paul is. So my response was, "Who in the hell is Paul and why does he get a guest?" Apparently Sean went to Notre Dame with Paul. Paul is now a doctor. They were rommates. I have never met Paul. But Sean has emailed him and told him all about the wedding and to be expecting his invitation. I might have to beat Sean to death when he gets home.

Which, he won't be home tonight or tomorrow night. This is of course after he JUST got home last night from a trip to Vegas. (It was "for work") This trip however isn't for work. He and his friends are going away from a weekend of male bonding. Which means a bunch of card palying and beer drinking. SOmeone needs to tell them that they aren't in college anymore. As he is leaving for work (after leaving me here all week by myslef and now all weekend too) he points out ot me that there appears to be a spot on the rug near the stove in the kitchen. I should scrub that this afternoon when I get home from work and by the way the car needs washed. I should do that too. Here is my response to that, "HEY! :censored: Why don't you scrub the God **** rug and wash the car while I go get a pedicure and amrtini with my girlfriends all weekend. And by the way, the sogs need a bath. Hop on that won't you Pumpkin."

This afternoon I need to go dress shopping with my mother. That is right my wedding is three months away and my mother hasn't even looked at dresses. I am just going to surrender on this little adventure right now. :kap:

Oh yes, and tomorrow morning I am going to meet with my florist to see what she can do for the wedding and how much more money this is going to cost me.

So at some point you all need to get the bail money ready and provide me with a name of some to call with my one free on from jail. Thanks and until that time, I need a drink. :cheers:

[bnd94]

I'll send you a get out of jail free card. It sounds like you deserve it!!

Should we get our chairs out now or wait till he gets back?:chair:

BTW I love your response to him! That was a great come back! :bblol:

[KMac]

Hey Lacey,
I am sorry to hear all of this. I do totally understand your frustrations! Men :censored: suck sometimes. I absolutely loved your comment back to him. That was classic! I will definitely have the bail money set aside for you! I can kick in my share! And about needing a drink, it's 11am somewhere! Go ahead, treat yourself.
KMac :cool:

[dee177]

Hi Lacey, Aw hun we will all have a collection and make sure you get out of jail, But you definatly told him where to go, that was great, Me and my other half were having similar drama, but im sure youl work it out. xx

[countrygirl]

Sounds like you need an impromptu girls' weekend--"for work"!!!!!!!!!

[Jenn060306]

Sounds like all the girls on Onewed need a get away weekend! How bout we all meet up in Mexico, drink fancy drinks and chill out on the beach!

I soooo hate it when Mark pulls that **** on me.... 'oh... the cat threw up...' or 'But you're home more then me' Thats my absolute fave.... I may be home more... but i also got 15 hours of class and they suggest 2 hours of homework for every 1 hour of class. so atleast 45 hours of school a week, plus i work from home for the paper which is another 10 hours. And you're going to tell me i have more time then you?!
Last week he gave me grieft for leaving the recycling on the counter rather then stufffing it in the already over flowing can in the closet. He insisted i do that... so i have been... and now i can't open the door properly! :censored: Taking out the recycling is one of the very few and easy jobs he has.

I'm sorry to hear Sean is gone away again. It's a pain that he is telling you to invite people, not asking if you would like to invite them. A simple 'what do you think about inviting my college roomate Paul? I would really like him to be there'

[StaceyMc]

Lacey,

You might want to call me, since we're in the same area!

Mr. Sean is getting a little bossy isn't he? I dare....no...double dog dare Joe to tell me to scrub the rug and wash the car. Ask me? That's fine. Tell me? Ahhh....if he wants to live, he really should rethink his words.

Right after we were engaged, Joe tried to tell me that I'd have to listen to (to his orders) him now that we're engaged. He was smiling when he said it, so I'm sure he was kidding, but my response to that was "I didn't have to listen to you yesterday, pre-engagement, I don't have to listen to you today, post engagement and I'm not going to listen to you tomorrow"

That sucks that he's going to be gone all weekend, on top of being gone this past week. Joe used to work out of town a lot and it used to p*ss me off when he'd just get home for a day, do laundry and they'd send him out again.

Hey...I'm looking forward to your stories about your mother's dress shopping adventure this weekend.

I think the Pittsburgh Girls of Onewed should get together sometime for a drink...I could use one too.

[LaceyinPgh]

I feel a little bit better now. Dress shopping wasn't too bad although my mother is already harping on what the flowers "should" be for the ceremony. So tomorrow should be great. Just when in the hell in the last almost 27 years have I ever done one thing because I should? That woman needs to stop and think. She raised me to be as opinionated and independent as I am. I think that one is biting her on the butt now.

Anyway, I got a little revenge on Sean and his friends this afternoon. Apparently they are going to West Virignia for their male bonding weekend. It just happens to be an area near Wheeling that I am overly fmailiar with having lived there for a year or so in college. So, the fools email me to ask me for directions. Now why on earth would you p.o. someone as much as I was this morning then ask them for a favor? Oh they got directions all right. They won't see a major highway the entire time as they travel through Pennsylvnia, Ohio, and West Virginia, they are going on a historic tour of downtown Wheeling out past old Fort Henry, over to McCoullogh's Leap because Sean and I were talking about that story the other day, then down the famous National Road before winding up through a state park and two college campuses before coming back off of the hill and finally ending up in Tridelphia. I actually had to dig out maps to set that one up. NOw, I am bride so we all know that I am not emotionally stable at this point in my life. To top it off, I'm mad at Sean so he should know better. But :censored: it felt good to do.

[Hayz]

Ooooh Lacey that is really really good. Man, they be really peeved off! Excellent work, good on ya girl. I give you an A+. If you want an A+++++ from me then go take the car for a drive along a dusty road, through some mud puddles, or whatever else will get it looking absolutely dirty for when Sean comes home.

[Jenn060306]

LOL Lacey thats awsome!
And definatly you should get the car super dirty and greet him at the door with a bucket and sponge. :bbmrgreen:
Sean would hopefully get it then!

[rainbowtreat]

You gotta love it. That was awsome what you did Lacey. You have to fill us in on the details when he gets back. That was great.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I'm glad my DH and I see eye to eye on 99% of things!! He would never dare say that to me or I to him, but I really commend you on the way you handled yourself and took "care" of Sean. I had a very good laugh! I can't wait to hear how his "trip" was!! Take next weekend to yourself but first make a huge mess and tell him you will be home and expect him to have cleaned the house from top to bottom and wash the car and bathe the dogs....oh and tell him to do about two weeks of grocery shopping on top of all that!!


Way to go Lacey!!

[CindySue]

I'm glad my DH and I see eye to eye on 99% of things!! He would never dare say that to me or I to him, but I really commend you on the way you handled yourself and took "care" of Sean. I had a very good laugh! I can't wait to hear how his "trip" was!! Take next weekend to yourself but first make a huge mess and tell him you will be home and expect him to have cleaned the house from top to bottom and wash the car and bathe the dogs....oh and tell him to do about two weeks of grocery shopping on top of all that!!


Way to go Lacey!!

Brian and I see eye to eye on most things too. He wont mention if something in the house needs to be done, he will tell a kids to do it instead. 9 times out of 10 its going to be someones chore they didnt do anyway and Im trying to break myself out of the habit of doing EVERYTHING around the house.
The only problem I had with him was not cleaning up after HIS dogs, but ever since I said "Im getting a puppy because if Im going to be cleaning up dog :censored: out of the floor, it is going to be MY dog Im cleaning up after," he been on top of that chore. It doesnt happen very often, but it drives me completely insane when it does!