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Jenn060306
02-05-2008, 08:08 PM
My name is Jenn, my DH is Mark. I first joined OW in 2005 i think. When i was planning our wedding. My husband and i met in November 1999. High School sweethearts. And married on June 3rd, 2006.

Shortly after our wedding I became very sick. I had sever stomach pains and was hospitalized once before getting confirmation on what was wrong. I had developed ovarian cysts and was faced with the possibility i might loose one or both ovaries since there were large cysts on both. The left was 2cm and the right was 6cm. We spent that summer worrying about the possibilities of having children. On October 5th i had surgery to remove both cysts. Thankfully nothing more! The surgery went ok. But the recovery was miserable. I developed a systemic infection which ment i had to go back to the hospital for a week because i was so sick. Once everything was healed Mark and i decided we could not risk loosing our chance again. So we started TTC November 1st, 2006.

Our journey to getting pregnant with this little blessing had been very hard. We had a hard time understanding what was happening with us and why it was taking so long. We both were under the impression that getting pregnant wasn't that hard since his older sister had very little trouble herself. By May of 2007 i had developed another ovarian cysts. Thankfully this one resolved on it's own. As we slowly approached the one year mark I began to loose all hope that it would ever happen. And gave up hope when my family Dr. sent me for an emergency ultra sound this past fall in fear of an ectopic pregnancy. There was no baby, but there was a blood filled cysts which was leaking and causing me extreme pain. I couldn't sit, stand, lay down or anything without pain. This cyst also went away on it's own thankfully. But with this it caused our Dr. to refer us to an R.E. (reproductive endocrinologist) and start testing me to Polycystic Ovarian Syndrom and send Mark for tests himself. The wait time to see the R.E. was 6 months. Refusing to wait that long i looked into alternative medicine. I began seeing a Naturopath in October.

The Naturopath started me on a Cleanse before starting me on medications to help with my fertility. She asked us to stop TTC for atleast 2 months. So i gave up everything but temping. No OPK's, didn't observe anything. It was great. We went through November which was very difficult. I cried alot. I didn't ever think it would happen for us. I also was in dis-belief that we were on the edge of being considered Infertile.

One Saturday morning. At the end of the 12th cycle i awoke and took my temp. Completely expecting to see my temp take a dive like it would every month just before AF found me. It was still up. Baffled i decided to take a HPT at 14dpo i finally had a big bright positive! I started to cry and shake right away. I woke Mark and told him he had to come see this. I took another 3 tests that morning. It was really happening for us!

So, we are now expecting our first little one on August 3rd.

Wishes do come true!

soontobemrs
02-05-2008, 10:13 PM
Awwww - I am so happy for you. Congratulations. I'm sorry you had to travel such a rough road but what a wonderful ending.

Nekochanpurr
02-05-2008, 10:33 PM
Aww, i'm glad your story is getting such a wonderful end! Can't wait to hear more from you. *^^*

august8bride
02-05-2008, 10:36 PM
What a miracle! My prays go out for you that the rest of the pregency goes along smoothly.

bichonlvr
02-05-2008, 11:06 PM
AWWWWWW....congrats!!! I can't wait to hear stuff as you go through each step!

Are you going to find out what you are having??

Jenn060306
02-05-2008, 11:50 PM
Thanks Girls!

It reminded me that i really have very little control over everything. My husband and i are very blessed.

We do not plan on finding out the sex of the baby before the birth. There is just something about the surprise that really appeals to us. Plus, i think Mark is a bit afraid of it being wrong. We both have major Girl vibes. But hey, we could be wrong.

This pregnancy has been sooo good. Very smooth. I had alot of morning sickness in the first trimester. But now i am doing much better.
I felt so horrible, we went to the Dominican just after Christmas. It was a surprise gift from my parents for Christmas since we never did take a honeymoon. So when they told us we told them they were going to be grandparents. Neither of us were sure if i could travel at that point in the pregnancy. But everything went well. I had to be careful about what i ate. Alot didn't agree and came back to visit after dinner. My poor husband. He was so good to me and didn't even bat an eye at me insisting it was time to go back to our room after a nice dinner only to throw it back up. Sorry.... that's more info then anyone really wants isn't it? :bbredface:

Last week we had an ultra sound to check for Down Syndrome, Neural Tube Defects and Trisomy 18. It was great to see the little bear. We saw them at 10 wks and the heart beat was just a little white flicker. Then at 13 weeks you could see the heart pumping. Soooooo amazing!
I don't have my next appointment until Feb 12th. It feels like it is forever away. I am hoping to get the results of the ultra sound and praying that everything will be ok. We've already decided that if there is a problem we are ok with it. There is a reason why this baby is ours. But i am sure everything is going to be fine.

Tonight I'm having trouble sleeping. DH is a musician and he's out preforming tonight. So i'm home alone. Our dog and cat are keeping me company... but nothing feels like that warm body next to me in bed.

Sigh..... sleep. Why do you torture me so much?!

WBandMe
02-06-2008, 02:34 AM
Congratulations on a gift undoubtedly worth the wait! Your story is so touching and I can't wait to hear more.

WendyNC
02-08-2008, 04:05 PM
What? What? What!!?!?!??!?! Wow that is amazing!! I don't even know what to say! "Congrats" just seems to fall short.

It is really nerve racking to get those tests done... but my blood tests came back saying my odds were much better (lower?) than the average, which felt good to hear.

I will check in more often for updates!

Jenn060306
02-09-2008, 12:10 AM
Thanks! It is totally amazing. Every day i wake up and think.... Holy smokes! This really is happening! We have the u/s pic up on t he fridge and i just stare at it sometimes thinking.... this little angle is in me?! WHAT?! lol! I think i am still kinda in shock about it all. I really had given up hope on it happening on it's own w/o medical help.


The last couple days have been tough. I've been sooooo tired. I went to the super market today and by the time i was getting the last couple items i was draggin my butt. Thank goodness i could use the cart to hold me up! lol!

I also stopped into Motherhood Maternity. I wanted to get some stretch mark cream. I want to get on it before i get too many. I had a look at the clothes. There was some cute things, but i'm not there yet. Still small enough to fit into my pre-pregnancy clothes. But i know soon i will need to get some new jeans. There are so many different belly styles so i'm feeling a little over whelmed as to what i will like now and later. I think i will go in a couple weeks with Mark to get some pants.

Mar is off at the cottage this weekend for the Annual Guy's weekend. 2 whole days of drinking and tobogganing down the massive hill we have there. So it's going to be a very quiet weekend for me and the boys. It will be nice. But i'm already feeling like i miss him.

Jenn060306
02-09-2008, 12:15 AM
I thought i would post pic's of my boys. I think i talk about them alot. lol.

Digby:
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c94/jenn060306/IMG_3125.jpg
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c94/jenn060306/IMG_3102.jpg
3yo. lab chow mix. We rescued him last year from the local animal shelter

Dusty:
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c94/jenn060306/Life/IMG_2594.jpg
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c94/jenn060306/Life/IMG_2202.jpg
5yo. Orange Tabby. Also rescued from a shelter. I got him as a kitten.

WendyNC
02-09-2008, 09:07 AM
Get one of those "bands" they have at Motherhood. They are kind of pricey but worth it. Supposedly they help you wear your pre-pregnancy clothes longer, but I didn't have mine til about a month ago. My maternity jeans would NOT stay up, and the band helps them to stay secure.

Jenn060306
02-09-2008, 02:06 PM
Get one of those "bands" they have at Motherhood. They are kind of pricey but worth it. Supposedly they help you wear your pre-pregnancy clothes longer, but I didn't have mine til about a month ago. My maternity jeans would NOT stay up, and the band helps them to stay secure.


I have one. I've been starting to use it with some clothes that are starting to feel tight. My SiL had one from her last pregnancy that she gave me. I'm glad it will help with keeping mat. pants up. I was a little worried about them falling with the elastic waists.

Jenn060306
02-14-2008, 07:38 PM
So, everything is going well. I had a Dr's appointment on Monday. The u/s showed that i was measuring 2 days behind. But that's not a big deal or anything. I had to go get more blood work done because the lab messed up my first round and didn't do all the tests the Dr. requested to be done. And of course. They made a royal mess out of my arm. It's nice and black and blue now. I have to go and do some more blood work either tomorrow or next week for my IPS part 2. Which had i known i didn't need to do with an ultra sound i would have done that on Monday.
I've got my 19 wk ultra sound booked already. March 12th. I am super excited about it. I cannot believe i'm already that far along. The time really is flying for me. Which is kinda nice. Although i am enjoying being pregnant for the most part right now. I'm not sick at all. Just very tired. I've had a couple mornings where i have woken up feeling like i have run a marathon. That's not fun at all.
On Monday Mark and i will be going out to do our Valentines celebrations. He's working until 9 tonight. So it's really going to be a right off for us. But he needs new jeans and i could probably get some mat. jeans soon. So i figure we can go out shopping and then for dinner. Neither of us are into doing anything too extravagant. I was really tempted to buy him a baby gift for Valentines. But since he's sounded so meh whatever i don't really care about it all i decided not too. If i get him something big he'll feel really bad and make a deal about it cause he didn't get me anything. My SiL is trying to say he will cause her DH (who my DH works with) went out and bought her flowers yesterday and left them on the table for her when she got up this morning. So, maybe. But i'm not counting on it.

lize566
10-19-2008, 05:53 PM
I know you haven't been on here in a really long time, but just wanted to post something in hopes you would drop by! How is everything going? I hope all is well!