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KMS
02-01-2008, 05:43 PM
Finally...I know! We started moving the day after we got home from our honeymoon. Busy, busy! I'm going to try to break this up into a few posts so it's not so crazy long.

I don't have any pictures yet! :gurn: Don't throw rocks at me please! :grinhappy: I won't be able to post any until we have a few hundred dollars to purchase the cd.

Well, the day started early! I woke up at 5:30 to take a shower, shave, all that good stuff. I spent the night with a few of my bridesmaids. It was nice to wake up with my girls around me. The second I awoke, I felt like I had rocks in my stomach though. Oh the nerves! We all got up to go get our hair done. One of my bridesmaids took a picture or two there. I need to get them from her. First mishap was that our videographer didn't show up at the salon for the getting ready footage. There was some confusion and he is throwing in a photo montage and giving us a small refund. I was kind of upset about that, but I let it slide because I just didn't want to get really upset so early.

After the hair & makeup, we went to get my e-ring all shined up and grabbed a bite to eat at Panera Bread. I had a whole wheat bagel with cream cheese, BTW!! I had no appetite, but they made me eat. I gotta say it was fun to get all of that attention there though! Haha. Walking around all prettied up in a veil and having strangers telling you congrats is not a bad way to start the day! My girls and I had fun sitting there and chatting. I felt so fortunate for all of them. I just felt so loved. It was a great experience. I kept getting waves of nerves and excitement. The emotions alone were quite exhausting.

We were actually running on time which was a surprise. I'm always late! As soon as we got to the venue it was a whirlwind. The people in this venue were the pushiest hectic people I have ever had the misfortune to meet. As beautiful as the wedding ended up being, I would never recommend their services to another happy couple. The wedding coordinator kept on coming to me with problems instead of handling it. I was so stressed and I think that you can tell in my pictures. For example, the chocolate fountain people didn't have everything that they needed to set up. The lady came running to me yelling at me about it and wanted to know what I wanted her to do about the situation. Um, fix it maybe?? My MOH stormed off with her and took care of it for me.

The cake wasn't exactly what I wanted and neither were the flowers. Incompetent people, I swear! I'll have to explain what exactly wasn't right about it when I get pictures and can show y'all. Nothing too drastic, but enough to bother this bride. Chad was bothered by the cake too. When you pay this much and it's such a special day you just want it to be what you wanted. Not perfect, but atleast what you want.

We were all led into the dressing room. It was not the beautiful room that I thought it was going to be. They forgot to tell me that the other room wasn't part of our lower priced package. Gee, thanks. I was kind of disappointed in that, but again I tried not to let it bother me. My bridesmaids had a hard time getting the dress tight enough so all during pictures I had the straps tucked in, but it kept falling. I kept doing the strapless dress pull so I had to use the straps the rest of the time. Pre-wedding pictures went well, but this guy was moving so fast that I had a forced smile on my face. All of the pictures felt so posed too. I'm sure that we did end up getting some good pictures though.

Pre wedding was so crazy. It felt like my girls and I were up in the waiting room forever. We got in a circle, held hands, and my MOH said a prayer for Chad & I. Everybody cried. It was so sweet and I wish that the videographer would have gotten it, but oh well. One of my bm kept rubbing my neck. Haha. I felt so well taken care of and special. I just couldn't sit still and I get really cold because I was so nervous. When I heard the first note of piano music played everything was so real. It was about to happen! The seating of the parents song nearly made me lose it. I was trying not to think about the absence of my mom all day, but I couldn't deny it at that moment.

NicksBride
02-01-2008, 05:57 PM
I am so happy that your married now. I am sorry some things didn't turn out as you planned, but the most important thing is you are married. I can't wait to see your pictures!!!!! I am sure you were beautiful.

Danielle9608
02-01-2008, 05:57 PM
Oh my gosh Keely I can't wait to hear more and see your pictures. I am sorry the cake ans flowers were not what you were expecting.

KMS
02-01-2008, 06:00 PM
I was so relieved when it was finally my turn to walk out. I was so ready! With the number of things going wrong, I just wanted to see my Chad. I told his sister that and she was teasing me that not only had she seen him, but she hugged him twice. Then she gave me a hug to rub off some of his hug on me. So sweet. She was one of my bm, but we're not very close so the wedding was a nice bonding experience for us. Anyways, when I walked out I had to stand at the top of the stairs and look down at Chad and all of our guests. They told me to stand there for 20 seconds, but I seriously doubt I did it for that long. It felt like an eternity! I saw Chad and my heart just melted. He was waiting for me, really? Could it be? It was just so fairy tale. I looked down at everybody and wasn't even nervous that all of these people were looking at me. I just felt so much joy and love in the room.

I made it down the stairs fine. Gracefully even, I would say. Whew! That was one big obstacle out of the way. I met my dad, who was crying, and he walked me down to Chad. The song that I walked down the aisle to was absolutely perfect. It was hauntingly beautiful, to me atleast. The ceremony did fly by. The minister ended up doing a few things that we hadn't discussed so Chad and I just looked at eachother and smiled. Afterwards I complained to my MOH and she said that a few of the things didn't seem like things we would have wanted. She knows us so well! Chad was so nervous that he jumbled up some of our vows. Poor guy. He said that the ministers lines were too long and he couldn't remember the whole thing by the time it was his turn to repeat. I did well with mine. I'm much more used to having to give presentations and things of that nature. Neither one of us really teared up until the final prayer blessing us as man and wife. When we opened our eyes from the prayer we looked at each other and we both had tears in our eyes.

The reception went by so quickly. I didn't even eat one bite of anything except for when we did the cake thing. Not even the chocolate fountain! I really regret it now, but I don't think that I could have kept anything down. The cd that I probably spent 4 hours making for the reception couldn't even be found for 45 minutes so that was really frustrating. I talked with a lot of family and friends, but I know that there were people there whom I never even got to speak to and that makes me sad. Everybody said that the wedding was beautiful, but don't they all say that? Haha. I really do think that people were impressed with the beauty of the place though. They didn't know about all of the mishaps! Chad's dad did tell us that several people complained to him about the wedding coordinator being a b$tch though. My attention to detail did pay off as many people commented on liking little things that I had done that I didn't think would really make a big difference.

It seemed like in no time at all it was our time to leave. Chad had put one of the gm in charge of decorating the car and he forgot. I gotta say this probably upset me more than anything else that day. That was always a big dream of mine to go off in a decorated car, for some reason. Oh well. The flower lady also didn't bring enough petals so there wasn't very much tossing involved. Another thing was that Chad was walking so fast that the photographer probably didn't get any good pictures because he was infront of me most of the time. The final leaving was always a big deal to me and nothing really went right about it.

KMS
02-01-2008, 06:13 PM
When we got in the car we were both just so giddy. We were so excited and kept calling eachother husband and wife. So silly, like children! We were so happy that it was just time to relax and be honeymooners.

After we left, I looked in the back of the car and none of my wedding stuff was back there. The wedding coordinator forgot to load it up for me. It was okay though because we called his brother and met up with him later to get it. I still don't know where half of the things that we decorated with are. I'm sure that they're spread between about half of my family!

It seemed like everywhere I turned something was going wrong, but I was so absolutely happy to be marrying Chad that nothing ruined the day for me or anything. I don't think that I realized all of the things that had gone wrong until I was really thinking about everything after the wedding. Darn retrospect. I do plan on complaining to the venue because I think that both good and bad feedback counts. Just last night we asked for the manager at a restaurant because our waitress was so fantastic.

I'm still a cloud 9 bride. I am sooo relieved that it's over, but sad at the same time. I will be one of those people who plan a vow renewal several years from now. I'll just have to plan something else! In the meantime up and coming OW brides will just have to be my fix.

Sorry if some of this is rambling! I wanted to get it all down in one sitting because we don't have the net at our apartment yet and I didn't want to leave y'all hanging! Well, back to the packing. Next I'll do a honeymoon post. I actually do have pictures of that! :D

xoxo

KMS
02-01-2008, 06:27 PM
I found a few pictures that some friends had taken! I'll post these here and then when I get the others I'll start a thread in the pictures section.

At Panera Bread:

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e102/keelyhealthnut/wed-1.jpg

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e102/keelyhealthnut/wed2-1.jpg

A fellow Student Nutrition Association officer and good friend, Norah:

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e102/keelyhealthnut/norahkeely.jpg

smileyone2002
02-01-2008, 06:52 PM
I have been waiting for you to tell us your story and how things went that day!! I am glad that everything went alright...Im sorry that some things didnt turn out right but you seem to have a good attitude about it!! How much time do you have on your hands now?!? I bet it feels weird! Well congrats once again!:D

soontobemrs
02-01-2008, 07:24 PM
I almost cried reading your story - I'm so happy for you. I'm sorry there were so many mishaps but you are now married to the love of you life, that is all that matters. You look beautiful in the pic of you with your friend - love your hair. Can't wait to see more pics :)

val24
02-01-2008, 07:39 PM
i am excited to read your journal
sorry things didnt go as planned

but you are husband and wife now!!! YAY!!!!

i am very happy for you and can not wait to see pictures!

woohoo2me
02-01-2008, 07:42 PM
hey!! i have been missing you!! Congradulations! hope everything is fine and you are able to get those pictures soon!! :D the one picture looks really preatty (the third one) its a tease shot lol.

Dani
02-01-2008, 07:50 PM
I am glad to hear from you. The pictures you have let us see are great! You look beautiful...can't wait to see and hear more about it!

PGDesigns
02-01-2008, 08:34 PM
Oh my gosh, Keely, the part about the parents song made me tear up because I know that's going to be me in a year. Thinking about my mom is one of the few things that will make me cry, and I know I'm going to be trying not to think about the fact that she's not there.

I'm so happy for you and glad the mishaps did not ruin your day! I can't wait to see more pictures. You look beautiful with your hair and veil done.

bichonlvr
02-01-2008, 08:43 PM
HOORAY!!!!!!!

I can't wait to see pics!!!!

The few that were on here were great!

nic1124
02-01-2008, 09:44 PM
Congratulations! I can't wait to see more pics! You looked beautiful so far from what I can see. :D

NOTKT
02-02-2008, 12:04 AM
Woo Hooo! Congrats!

WBandMe
02-02-2008, 05:00 AM
I've been waiting (im)patiently for this! It sounds like it was beautiful---I'm sorry you had some mishaps, but I'm so glad it was nothing to put a big cloud on your day. Can't wait for more pics, and CONGRATULATIONS!!

SerendipityCrafts
02-02-2008, 07:47 AM
Awww Keely ... I am glad you are back and glad to hear that you are married (welcome to the Mrs CLUB!!!). I am sorry to hear about the mishaps .... some is a disappointment to be sure but, some will be forgotten and some will be laughed about in years to come.

I know how you feel about the car .... my father drove us away from the church at my first wedding and didn't wait for anyone to follow him out of the parking lot. Then, he lost whomever was right behind us at a light. I was so disappointed that I didn't have the whole parade of honking cars (do you ladies do that in the states?). DH and I had a decorated car but our reception was at the church so there was no "send off".

BnB
02-02-2008, 08:52 AM
ya, finally, the happy story

couldn't wait to read this...........

more pics please;)

sjk1431
02-02-2008, 11:26 AM
I'm so glad you are back and all went well. I love the couple of pics you have posted. :grinhappy:

uptowngirl
02-03-2008, 01:32 AM
Congratulations Keely!! Thanks for the little teaser pictures - you looked beautiful! I love that you are able to remember so many details about the day - I am nervous that it will all go by in a blur, but it sounds like you were able to enjoy it - when you weren't dealing with that coordinator!

EarlyBird
02-03-2008, 01:41 AM
keely.. you story was so wonderful and im so glad to hear that through everything you were so positive and happy. I have been waiting for you to post this ALL WEEK :) cant wait to see more pictures.. Hopefully somebody took some with a digitial camera?? ask around, you'll probably be surprised!

Nekochanpurr
02-03-2008, 02:14 AM
Yay you posted it!! *^^* Your story was really great, even if there were bumps in the road, you handled it well, and i'm glad you were able to look back positively. Everything sounded beautiful, i can't wait to see more pictures! :)

firespirit
02-03-2008, 11:06 PM
Woo hoo! Congrats! You look beautiful in the pictures you've posted so far!

Now where are those honeymoon pics you promised?

Brian's Bride
02-03-2008, 11:14 PM
Congratulations Keely! Glad you're back with us! Those were quite the teaser pics, leaving us waiting for more... LOL!

Brad's Bride in 08
02-04-2008, 11:59 AM
Congratulations Keely!! I can't wait to see more pictures and hear more about your honeymoon!!