nicole and mike's baby journal

[october6]

hi everyone you might know me from onewed october 6 and my name is nicole. I got married on october 6 of this year. mike and i wanted to started a famliy as soon as we can. Alot of people say we are to young to start planning for a family. But we would like to start next month. this will be my first child and mike is so happy we are going to start trying as soon as i get off my birth control. i have been on here before but i was still in wedding mood when i came on here. we hope to have a 2008 baby.

[october6]

from ikkin510

First off, congrats on the wedding! I'm so happy you decided to come over here and join us and now start a journal. Good luck with TTC! I hope it happens quickly for you.

from rainbowtreat
Yes congrats on the wedding. And good luck on TTC. We are glad to have you here.

[october6]

http://www.babyraising.com/forums/images/smilies/please.gif just wanted to update and tell everyone that baby making is put on hold right now. because of my back my doctor does not think it is a good idea right. so im back to were i started. im not happy but what are you going to do.
so i hope we can started soon after i get the clear from my doctor.

[october6]

from airforcewife
oh dear, sorry about your back. Hopefully it will start feeling better soon and you can start the baby dance. http://www.babyraising.com/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif

from saralovesmike
Sorry about your "bad news." Back problems are a real pain and you really gotta watch yourself. Hopefully you won't have to wait for too long.

from ikkin510
Hopefully you can find somet relief from your back problems soon!

from kacie bride
I'm sorry to hear about your back problems. Hopefully you can get it taken care of and get TTC soon!

[october6]

mike said that he promise that we will have a little one by next christmas no matter what. i just hope we can started i hate to wait by that is what we have to do. today i was talk to my grandma about us getting pregnant and she said are you pregnant now. i said grandma no then she said when you do get pregnant i better be the 2 one to know for you are going to get it. i love my grandparents. this was at thanksgiving dinner too.


from jennr

hi there! Welcome! Congratulations on the wedding! And lots of luck with Trying when you get there. I am sorry that your Dr. wants you to wait until your back is better. I hope that is soon!

Best Wishes and Baby Dust!

[october6]

from twigler
Welcome and congrats on the wedding!

Don't worry about other people thinking you are too young. I was engaged when I was 19 years old and married at 21. We plan to start trying to have kids this summer (depending on if I find a permanent job and we get a house), so I will be 21 or 22 years old when I become pregnant. My husband will only be 24 or 25 (depending on when we start trying for kids). Not everyone knows what is best for you and your new hubby!!

I hope your back starts feeling better! I will be sending baby dust your way as soon as you get the ok to start trying! The best of luck!!

[october6]

just wanted to tell everyone that i had a doctor's appt on friday and i got the ok to started baby making. We are going to start try after this cycle so i so happy.

[october6]

from ikkin510
Yay! Glad you have the OK to get starting. Wishing you lots of luck!

from saralovesmike
Congratulations! Sending you lots of baby dust!

from airforcewife
That is awesome!! yea baby dance time. hehehe
As far as age, I am 23 and Nick is 26 and I got married at 22 and he was 25. We get LOTS of people sayng "But you are so young" but really it is personal prefernce of when you are going to get married and have children. It is right only when it is right for the two of you!! Good luck and sending LOTS of baby dust!

from twigler
I totally agree Katy!!

Good luck! Baby dust is being sent you way!! I will have my fingers crossed for you! Have fun http://www.babyraising.com/forums/images/smilies/tongue.gif

[samantha01]

Yeah, good luck with everything. You guys will make great parents!

[october6]

just wanted to up date at my low left side is hurtting very badly could i be oing

[Jenn060306]

How goes it? Good luck and baby dust to you!

[october6]

well it is not going good i got off my pill in nov had aperiod nov 24 and i have not had a period yet. and i took 3 test and all bfn so i don't know what is going on. doctor appt feb 19. i will let you guys know what happened.

[Nekochanpurr]

Good luck with your doc appointment!

[Jenn060306]

Ohhh i'm sorry that it has been so long. Going to the Dr's. is a great idea.

It was 45 days from stopping BCP to finally having AF show. It will take a while for your body to get back into the swing of things after stopping BCP. I was about 3 months before i started to see a pattern again.

[october6]

well im still not pg but i was put on clomid to help first cycle was nothing im on my 2 cycle now so we will see in the next few days what happens

[Nikita706]

Any ideas for names?

[Nekochanpurr]

Hey! i was wondering where you went.. Good luck! :D

[Hope75]

Good luck! Hope to hear you are pregnant soon!

[october6]

well not has been going on with im will im still not pg. my siter in law just had a new baby nad so did my cuz and now my cuz is pg and my friend is pg too so. well just wanted to update to tell u all wanted was going on.

[EarlyBird]

i know its hard, but remember, it will happen when its meant to. life will take its course and you will be blessed at the right time for YOU guys - everybody is different and just b/c these other people have had their time, doesnt mean you need to .. plus think about it this way, if you were pg around the same time as them, you wouldnt have your own spot light :)

[Hope75]

I know you said you were on Clomid, did they check your tubes and hormone levels? How about DH's sperm counts?

Hope you get pregnant soon!

[october6]

hi everyone well still no baby just wanting for it to happen. started using opk and i did o so that is good. just wanting to see if im out this month or not

[gwenshack]

hi everyone well still no baby just wanting for it to happen. started using opk and i did o so that is good. just wanting to see if im out this month or not

Hi and welcome back to the board! Fingers crossed for you! :crossfingers:

[FFC]

Sounds like your journey has been a long one. I hope you and your hubby are successful very soon! Good luck!

[october6]

hi everyone well nothing really new my way we just back off on trying. right now we are going with the flow. but the werid thing is i dont know if im preg right now or not b/c i was bleeding but it was all brown and light. and only lasted 4 days. so im not sure what is going on. im sick and not feeling well. any in put would help.
thanks

[Danielle9608]

Welcome back. Do you know where you are in your cycle? I would take a test to be sure. Good luck!

[saltyveruca]

Ooh good luck! :crossfingers:

[Qtpie]

good luck, hope this is it for you

[october6]

hi well im still not feeling well i have been very sick in the morning's and late at night. my boobs are sentice and it feels like my period is coming but is dont come. sorry tmi my cm is very white and watery. so im not sure what is going on.

[Danielle9608]

Have you taken a pregnancy test?

[october6]

no i have not taken one yet

[Qtpie]

go take that pregnancy test right now. Ahhhhh....i hope this is it for you

[october6]

well i did take a test and it was neg. so i guess i was just sick. but do know something well be up if i dont get my period next month.

[october6]

well i took a test let me know what you think.
http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad247/yellowbee95/033.jpg

[october6]

here is other pic
http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad247/yellowbee95/032.jpg

[FFC]

I inverted it on my computer and *think* I see a line, but it could just be wishful thinking..... :crossfingers: *sigh* I don't know!!! I sure hope it's a line and I'm not imagining it!!!

[Heywie]

I know! I'm trying to squint my eyes and I think I can see something, but I could just be hopeful! Take another one tomorrow morning!

[october6]

thank you for looking i really hope it is true we have been at this for 3 years now. it would be nice to be preg with my sister.

[FFC]

thank you for looking i really hope it is true we have been at this for 3 years now. it would be nice to be preg with my sister.

So did you test again this morning??

[october6]

no i didnt with the 4 now stores are not open right now

[FFC]

no i didnt with the 4 now stores are open right now

Well shucks :( At least tomorrow you'll get a more clear response if you are in fact :preggo:

[Danielle9608]

I think I saw a faint line of the first one. Good luck and let us know what happens when you test again!

[Spatch4Officers]

i thought i saw a faint line too - i just caught up on your journal and I wish you all the best of luck BD'ing...hope you are BFP this month!!!!:flower4u:

[october6]

well i waited intill today to test and it was neg so im going to wait for a few more day and see what happenes. and the weird part is 2 days ago i have werid cramp on my left side so im not sure what is going on right now. im at 39 day so i thought i would have an answer my now.

[october6]

well i think this is my period after 50 some days. not sure yet but i have been under alot of stress for the past few days. so im think that is the reason why my period is late.

[LuLu86]

mine did that last month. it went 51 days and i was SURE i had a BFP. But it was stress too. I hate that our bodies can act preg and not be.

[october6]

hey everyboby well im still not preg. but it is getting hard now b/c my sister is about to have her frist baby. and the frist for the family and is it a boy too. so that is hard we have been trying for 3 years now im at my wizes end. i dont think we will every have a baby. it is hard each month after month knowing i didnt get my bfp. we are at a point were we know we are not going to get preg. hubby said we can looking into other way to get a kid. but he doesn't understand that if we did that i will never get to feel my baby kick or anything like that. sorry to make this post so long. i just dont know what to do anymore.

[Spatch4Officers]

awe i'm sorry you're feeling down. I can understand those feelings you are going through. It has to be stressful for you and DH to keep getting a no when all you are looking for is ONE yes... I know that my mom's friend and her DH tried for 7 years - they had all the IVF and everything that is possible for people to try to conceive and nothing. She would get so excited b/c she'd get a positive reading and they'd tell her that 7 eggs attached and then she'd end up aborting again. Turns out her uteras wasn't able to hold the baby in and for some reason it would just not hold. I know this caused a lot of pain for her and I know she was always upset about not being able to feel the baby kick or anything like that but as soon as her and DH decided to adopt they found a baby and brought her home right after she was born. She even was able to watch the baby be born and I know it's not the same, however once they came to the reality that they were most likely never going to be able to have their own this was the next closest thing and it worked for them. They absolutely love their daughter and she's almost 8 now. I wish you the best my dear!

[f77g4]

I'm sorry you still havent gotten a BFP.

Have you and DH both been tested to see if there is a reason you haven't been able to conceive? Just a thought as it seems a lot of ladies on here have had issues and have had to seek medical help to get pregnant.

[october6]

well not much has been going on but for some reason my boobs have to hurting for 4 days now and im not even close to my period yet so. i dont know what is going on. sunday was my sister baby shower it was a little hard but i love my sister. and im on cd 21

[Spatch4Officers]

Well my dear I don't know what all these CD things mean - and I won't pretend to have a clue. Just know that you and DH are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep me updated. *hugs*

[SkippyNXC]

if you've been trying for 3 years, your doc should be more than willing to do testing/refer you to a specialist... it could be a simple fix!

[october6]

hi everyone right now we are in between health ins. so i cant go to the doctor yet. well im feeling like **** right now last night i tmi throw up 3 times and im feel like i have sleep in 3 weeks. i have a very bad headach and i cant get it to go away. i feel like im getting the flu i dont know. my stomach hurts and i have very bad pain in my lower stomach when i sezz to hard.

[Danielle9608]

Sounds like you could be pregnant. Have you taken a test?

[FFC]

Sounds like you could be pregnant. Have you taken a test?

Yeah that! I'm hopeful for you!

[october6]

not yet but tmi my nipple are a differnet color then they nomarly are and they hurt. i was trying to wait intill the test date that fertility friend gave me. which is tom. but i might wait intill friday that is when we get paid.

[Qtpie]

sounds like you could be pregnant. fingers crossed for you.

[october6]

thank you everyone for the in put. it means alot to have people who are going throught the same thing.

[f77g4]

Good luck testing tomorrow!!

[xxeverafterx3]

GL tomorrow hoping for a :bfp:

[Spatch4Officers]

Good luck testing...praying for a BFP!!!

[october6]

i just wanted to leave u all know it was a NEG. so i guess this will be a long month. but on other note im a little worried about my sister she was leaking ammoun fluid yesterday. so not sure what they are going to do.

[Spatch4Officers]

Awe I'm sorry dear. Hope your sister is ok - and I'll keep on praying for you and DH. Don't give up!!!!:hug:

[october6]

well still no period so i dont know what to think but on sunday i spent time throw up all day and i still not feel the greats. and the werid thing is im having period like cramps for the past 5 days but no period. i asked my hubby i said does it look like my nipples are getting dark and he said yes they are not as pink as they also are. so i dont know. im going to wait other few days and test again.

[october6]

and i just got a werid phone call from my brother in law that cong us. im really going to kick my hubby butt. i did forget to let you guys the last test i took came up with a very very light sec line. so that is my im waiting to test again.

[amisteratwisterandme]

I hope this is it for you! Sounds promising :yesnod:

[Qtpie]

oh my fingers are crossed for you. good luck!

[Jacklynn]

Can't wait to hear if you get a good solid 2nd pink line!

[october6]

here is the thing i took a test again. but the 2nd line is coming just but no color is with it. and it is with in the time also. so do i count that as a im pregnant or not let me know what u think.

[SkippyNXC]

get a digital, that will give you an answer with no guessing

but, technically, no color = evaporation line... tho they usually show up after 10 mins... so thats why i say just get a digital

[october6]

i just wanted to leave u all know that i got my period so im not pregnant so on to next month.

[xxeverafterx3]

i just wanted to leave u all know that i got my period so im not pregnant so on to next month.

Sorry to hear hun! Keep trying! Something good will come soon, I'm sure!:crossfingers:

[october6]

thanks that is all i can do is wish

[october6]

well my sister had her baby on 1/4/2011 he was 9lbs 11 1/2 oz 21 1/2 ins long and he is so cute. my sister has to get and emery c b/c the baby heart rate when down and would not come back up. he is so quite doesn't cry at all. my sister is in pain from the c but they are give her med for that. i beleve my sister is a mommy. well im have to go im going to see my nephew. his name is jacob. just wanted to let everyone know. i will get a pic as soon as i get them off my camera.

[october6]

well i had a very hard weekend hubby had to have his gallbladder removed. and i think we finally got preg. my test i took had a very light blue line on it. but it is so light i can see so can my husband with a light on. so we are going to wait and test again.

[gwenshack]

Sorry to hear about hubby's gallbladder. :(

I hope that line means :bfp: :crossfingers:

[october6]

thank you i wish i could get a good pic to show u guys.


http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad247/yellowbee95/021.jpg

[scarymary48]

I see a faint line!!! Right near your finger, right?? I hope this is your BFP :crossfingers:

[october6]

yep right by my finger tip

[dizy1j62881]

yep right by my finger tip

I see it too!!! Fingers crossed!!!!!:crossfingers::crossfingers:

[FFC]

That looks like a bfp to me!!!! Are you gonna test again tomorrow?

[october6]

ya im going to test in the morning. question it is not a evapen line do u think

[FFC]

I am convinced any line is a bfp... :crossfingers:

[Qtpie]

Looks like a BFP to me, also, if it was an evap line wouldnt it look more like a shadow and not have any color to it?

[october6]

well i took a test this morning but only one line came up so we have to get another test.but i do have to say im going between waterycm to creamycm and in also at 55 days.

[FFC]

I recommend a clearblue digital.... No doubts then!

[october6]

only the control line came up this morning so

[SkippyNXC]

don't get a blue dye test next time, they're notorious for an extremely high false positive rate....

get a digital or a First Response Early Response.... 1st response has the best sensitivity out of most brands

[october6]

well i did get my period i went 64 days and my period was bad this time. but we are on to trying again this month. hubby and i had a talk and if we dont get preg. this month we are going to stop and wait a little bit.

[october6]

well i just wanted to update you guys we taking the steps to foster and then adopt a child. if we have a baby then we do but we feel right now this is want we would like to do. all i told my husband was i just want a child from god and this kids need love too. so we are going this way to have a child.

[f77g4]

Congrats to you - how exciting!

[Nekochanpurr]

Thats really awesome! Congrats. :)

[october6]

i know that is has been a long time. we are still working on getting little ones in the house. but for right now we have our dog and our neice and nephews to watch and play with. but the good thing is im getting my period every 34 days so im happy about that. and things are going good im trying to lost weight right now. i have lost 5.2 lbs. so 95 more to go. but we will see what happen after i lose all this weight. i cant believe i have been married for 4 yrs now. just make some good changes in my life. my brother in law just got married hubby was in the wedding and my neice and nephew wass in it also. my other nephew is doing good he is growiing alot.

welll that is what has been going on


and my period is now every 34 days so im happy about that

[Nekochanpurr]

Congrats on the weight loss! Glad to have you back. :)

[october6]

well i have appt for a inferitly doc for dec 12. we didnt get any kids yet throught fostering so we are going to find out what is wrong with me and hubby. i hope it is just something they can fix and it is minor. hope all goes well and we have a baby here next year we can only hope.

[Spatch4Officers]

Congrats on the weight loss, 1 lb at a time!!! Keep up the good work, and good luck with your doc appt!

[october6]

well it has been a month and something have changed. my doc had me change my appt for feb. and i was not feeling good for the last 2 weeks. so my husband said why not take a pregnant test and see if u are and we will go from there. well this morning i took a clearblue digital and it came up pregnant. i really didnt dont belive it bc of how long we have been trying for. so hubby brought first response and i took it tonight and he said he wanted to read it and he would tell me well he said the test line came up in 3 sec. and it is darker then the control line so we are pregnant. we both cry and are so happy just have to wait intill the doc appt. have to call and make one on monday if they are open bc of the hoilday. but i do wanted to thank u all for beening with me for all of this and the up and the downs. thank u again

[october6]

http://i1253.photobucket.com/albums/hh595/october6/pregnant.png

[FFC]

CONNGRATS!!!!! What happy news!

[october6]

thank you is having morning sickness a good thing. i have found all i can keep down is ginger ale and saltness. but im so happy im preg i have wait a very long time for this and i love my baby and i have not even meet him /or her yet.

[f77g4]

Congratulations!

[october6]

well i have having bad cramps today so i went down to the er just to make sure everything was ok and it was and im pregnant the doctor told me that.

[Chele&Chris]

:congrats2: on FINALLY having your dream of becoming parents coming true!!! As my doctor told me morning sickness is a very good thing it means your body is producing what it needs to grow that little bean :winktongue: Glad to hear they said everything was ok at the ER. Praying for a healthy/happy pregnancy for you

[KMS]

:congrats2:

Yayyy!!

[Spatch4Officers]

Congrats!!!

[october6]

thank u very much is has been be long coming. we could not be more happier. we are trying not to be over happy just in case something happenes.