SIL's bf hit by car :(

[70707Bride]

We just found out that Chris's sister's bf got hit by a car today. He was crossing the road and got hit, not sure if it was accidental. He's got a skull fracture or something and as far as we know its not looking good. We are hoping that she doesn't relapse because of this. So this isn't good in several ways. Please keep him in your thoughts, it would be much appreciated!

[Dani]

Oh I am so sorry! You are in my thoughts!

[EarlyBird]

I understand the double hit of something like this. Fear and prayer for him and HER is needed right now. Its always nerve racking to worry your loved one will relapse while trying to deal with a tragedy, make sure chris reminds her to speak with her sponsar often, and take care of herself, even though this is hard, and make a meeting. (we are talking to same relapse here right??)

[70707Bride]

His sister is a recovering drug addict. She has been doing so well and then this had to happen. He has made her so happy and we really don't want to lose him.

[WebLady]

Wow, that is aweful! Hopefully he will be ok! Prayers and good vibes!

[Jacklynn]

oh no! I hope he pulls through okay!

[Nekochanpurr]

Oh man, i hope everything is okay.. :( For all involved. I'll pray for you guys.

[Measha]

Prayers going out for both of them.

[bichonlvr]

Sooo sorry for everyone involved!

Did they get the A-hole that hit him??

For sure in my thought and prayers!!!

[tinkerjew]

This is so horrible. You're all in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated!!!

[frenchie]

Oh that's so hard... I'm praying for him - and for her. Keep us updated .

[SouthernQueenBride]

I just said a little prayer! Please keep us updated on how he is doing.

[70707Bride]

Thanks everybody. I haven't heard anything else yet.

[NicksBride]

oh my gosh, Def. in my thoughts

[bradysmommy2007]

wow thats so horrible! i am so sorry to hear about that..all of you are in my thoughts and prayers!:heart:

[exoduslaughin]

I hope that he makes a full recovery, and she is strong enough to handle whatever happens.

[70707Bride]

Thanks everybody. We just found out that they took the life support off of him and he's getting shoulder surgery tomorrow!

[TangoWedding]

That's awesome news!!! If he's well enough to go through surgery, it sounds GREAT!

:whoohoo:

[Measha]

Thank God! Most literaly ^-^ Will keep them both in prayers.

[RevMatty]

Head injuries not good...I'll keep him in my prayers for a speedy and full recovery.

[NicksBride]

well it sounds like somewhat of an improvement.. I really hope he pulls through

[val24]

wow!
hope he is doing better

he will be in my thoughts and prayers

[Danielle9608]

I will keep both of them in my thought and prayers!

[lize566]

That's awful! I hope that everything goes well with the surgery and he pulls through! You are all in my thoughts!

[septemberbride06]

wow! how tragic, but good to hear things are looking up....if he is strong enough to go through surgery that is a dramatic improvement :whoohoo:

[lizardbnorton]

Like others have said, it is a really good sign if they are willing to have him go through surgery already.

How is Chris' sister holding up so far?

[EarlyBird]

oh thank goodness. i have been checking everday for some improvment----- I am so so so happy for this good news!!

[frenchie]

Oh keep us updated on the surgery... Sounds like he's going to make it through :)

[70707Bride]

Chris' sister is doing great. I guess he's got frontal lobe damage of the brain, so his personality and stuff has changed. He's kinda talking like a baby according to what they said, he bit a nurse and now has to be restrained. He recognized his mom, so that's good. He doesn't remember what even happened. We think its too early to tell if he's got permanent damage.

[Danielle9608]

That is so sad. I hope he gets better. I guess only time will tell now. :heart:

[lizardbnorton]

I hope things get better for him. I'm glad his sister is doing ok though. Hopefully they will be able to work with him to get him back to his normal self.

[SouthernQueenBride]

Hopefully none of this is permanent! I am glad that he is starting to get better.

What ever happened to the person that hit him?

[PGDesigns]

Glad to hear things are looking up. The brain is an amazing thing in terms of healing. I'll continue to keep you all in my thoughts.

[RevMatty]

The frontal lobe injury reminds me of my dad stroke, same place, and it changed his personality. It was tough for the first few months, and still is today. So I kinda know what your going through in that aspect. Not easy.

I'll keep sending out those prayers for you. Be strong and keep the faith.

[Nekochanpurr]

I hope he gets better.. Hes still in my prayers!

[70707Bride]

Oh well I don't know about the person who hit him, it was an accident. He was crossing the street in front of a stopped city bus, he must have thought that traffic stops for all buses. That's the only thing we can think of.