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SerendipityCrafts
10-15-2007, 07:56 PM
From one of my favourite bloggers - http://www.iloveweddings.blogspot.com/

Here is her most recent entry :) :)

Great Idea? Bad Idea? You Decide. File this one under "Hmmmm".

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I am a big fan of coordination in an event. And no, I don't mean the grace with which you pick up your fourth glass of pinot, nor your crumpin' moves with a partner on the dance floor. I'm talking about the full coordination of your theme, starting with your invitations and working your way down to table numbers, favor tags and more. Continuing your theme throughout a wedding is a primary goal most brides have; I have seen this carried over into everything from the decoration of the entrance hall to the decoration of the cocktail glasses. I LOVE coordination -- it really pulls together an event.

Thats why I'm not so sure where I stand on this, and as such, will leave the decision up to you.

Kleenex has recently come up with a new on-line promotion called My Kleenex Tissue (http://www.mykleenextissue.com/), where you get to design and produce you very own, personalized tissue box(es). At only $4.99 each they're not much more then the ones you can find at your local grocery store, so price is not the issue. You also don't have to be a wunderkind at design and layouts, either, as their program is super-easy to use. And obviously, if one wanted to truly continue their theme throughout their wedding, right down to the smallest details, this would be an incredible way of doing so.

The big question: Is this tacky or not?

I've tried to think about this from both sides, and have yet to make a decision. The coordination-part of me screams "Yes!! Do it!!!", especially if one were using a clean and simple design with perhaps their monogram and some nice background colour only.

The practical side of me says "Are you crazy? People will think you've taken bridezilla to a whole new level if you've coordinated every teeny, tiny little thing, right down to the tissues. Whats next, personalized toilet paper?". The practical side of me also feels that the only people, unfortunately, who this idea will appeal to are the brides & grooms who feel it necessary to have their image on EVERYTHING (don't even get me started). Monograms = fine. Photos of you all over the place = pure tackiness. They're at YOUR wedding .... I'm pretty sure your guests know what you look like.

Truth-be-told, I did personalized water bottle labels for my own wedding, and for the guests that noticed, they were a hit. Again: for the guests that noticed. I slaved over those suckers, and only about 1/3 of my guests even realized that what they were holding in their hand was not a mere water bottle but an Andra Coulter ORIGINAL. I mean, come on people! :)

However, perhaps thats the key to a fully-cooordinated event. If your items are too obvious, then you've done something wrong. Your guest's eye should travel over the span of the reception room and take in the spelendor of it all, not fixate upon that one-garish item sitting on the counter.

Ladies, if you want to go ahead with this one, please keep in mind two words: "clean" and "simple". Though it might be tempting to throw in a bunch of the cool graphics they've got on the Kleenex site (I can't even believe I just wrote that), keep in mind that less is more. Keep repeating that to yourself: "Less is more. Less is more. Less is more.".

And if any of you DO wind up creating one of these, even just for kicks, please let me know! I'm interested to see how they turn out.

KMS
10-15-2007, 08:37 PM
Call me crazy, but I think it's a cute idea!

Nekochanpurr
10-15-2007, 09:44 PM
LoL, i don't know.. It seems pretty silly.. Maybe if you have a lot of cryers in your family..

StJohnBride
10-15-2007, 10:44 PM
These are pretty expensive - like $5 per box. Is the intention to give one to each guest to take home, or leave in the pews to share with other criers?

People do tears of joy packets, and I have seen personalized TP... I guess this is no different. I think it's kind of silly and a waste of money -- but not "tacky" per se.

I will say that as a guest, I don't want anyone else's name/monogram/wedding date/etc. in my home. I pitch it when I get home, if I remember to take it at all.

WebLady
10-15-2007, 10:54 PM
These are pretty expensive - like $5 per box. Is the intention to give one to each guest to take home, or leave in the pews to share with other criers?

People do tears of joy packets, and I have seen personalized TP... I guess this is no different. I think it's kind of silly and a waste of money -- but not "tacky" per se.

I will say that as a guest, I don't want anyone else's name/monogram/wedding date/etc. in my home. I pitch it when I get home, if I remember to take it at all.
These are pretty much my thoughts as well ;)

If you could afford it this might be a cute idea to just put out for the inevitable criers, but I don't think it is a good favor idea IMO.

SerendipityCrafts
10-15-2007, 11:22 PM
My guess is that they are not meant to be handed out to each and everyone but instead to be put strategically placed in the church and some at the reception site?

I don't know .... it's not something I would do.

LOL but with that said, FH and I were at church not too long ago and it was our minister's last service (he was moving to a new church in Toronto).

One little girl started to cry while he was giving the children's talk .... then I noticed a woman crying ... and then I noticed a man crying .... and then I heard FH sniff beside me and my floodgates opened. It wasn't long until most everyone was crying, including the minister! Wouldn't you know it? I didn't have any kleenex in my purse.

Perhaps it's not a bad idea to have boxes of Kleenex in the pews - whether it's personalized or not LOL :)