So I think....

[Elly_N_Joe]

that i might be pregnant... not really sure if this is good news or not.

I've been having some pretty weird stomach pains for the last 3 weeks with nauseau.. mostly in the morning, and ending about 10ish or so... I took two pregnancy test (at home) and they were both negative. However, I also dont' get a normal mentraul cycle, so it's possible they are wrong. Actually my SIL seriously thinks they are wrong.

this morning was a bad morning for me, i was very nauseated and was dry heaving this morning. I just layed on the bed for like 15 minutes after...and now I am starving..

Anyway, just out of coincident last night, Joe and I were talking about moving, and having kids (oh cuz of my neice) and he is like, we need to be stable at a house for awhile before we have kids... I'm like what does a stable house have to do anything with it, what does it matter where we live. He is like, well we cant be moving every year with a child... (i know he is right, but still) And I get it, cuz since we have been togehter 4 years, we have moved 5 times (cuz of me) but still! Ofcourse I freaked out... and now I am like GREAT...

He doesn't know, but I have a doctors appt on Monday, to find out, if I am infact P...

[Elly_N_Joe]

oh and let me just add, that we have been trying since about 1 month before the wedding to concieve.... and now he comes up with this.

[samantha01]

Wow. I'm sure he will be very happy if you in fact are. If its negative then....whewww close one...If its positive then YEay Congrats!

[frenchie]

Well, I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you were actually trying for awhile, then it might just be a thought he had, that it would be BETTER to wait a bit - but I'm sure he will be thrilled, if you are, in fact, expecting.

[WebLady]

Well I would try not to worry about it until you know for sure.

Hoping for the best for you!

[bichonlvr]

WOW!!! Cool, just don't be disappointed if you are not, that happened to me last month!

[septemberbride06]

My husband was the same way at first..I think it's just a random thought he had, I'm sure once you know for sure (and it's +) he will be THRILLED (especially since oyu have been trying). :whoohoo:
Congrats (if you are) and motherhood is one of the very best joys in life.

[70707Bride]

I hope it all works out for the best. I'm actually hoping that I'm not right now! Lol. I haven't had my "monthly visitor" for a while, but I also don't track. I don't feel any pains though or nausua so that is why I don't know. We didn't want kids for at least a year or two. We can't afford it right now! Lol.

[Elly_N_Joe]

Yea, I really don't know what to think... my appt. is Monday.

Right now I guess I am hoping it is... for two reasons,

1. because i want kids now, not later.


2. if I am not, that means something else is wrong, because the pains, nauseau, and as of today side back pains means something is going on.

[bichonlvr]

what prego tests have you taken???

[Elly_N_Joe]

I took two, one about 3 weeks ago, and 1 last week... they were both by Clear Blue Easy, where the end turns pink if it's working and then there is - if negative + if positive.

[bichonlvr]

hmmmmm.....so the last time you took one was 1 week ago???

[Elly_N_Joe]

yes I would have to say Monday or Tues

[bichonlvr]

And it was Negative??? Wen you called the Dr did you tell them that all of this is going on?? I woult think if you are just sick they would want to see you ASAP!

[Elly_N_Joe]

yes, earliest they can see me is Monday

[Elly_N_Joe]

See if you think about it, all the symptoms which I ahve are related to pregnancy... so they probably just figured it was another pregnancy, ,and there was no rush to get me in yest or today, that Monday was early enough.

If it's not pregnancy, then there are issues.

[bichonlvr]

hmmmm.............

Did you tell them you have had 3 neg tests?

[Elly_N_Joe]

no i didn't,.

[Nekochanpurr]

oh wow.. i hope the best!

[EarlyBird]

well,im sure he is going to be happy if you are, in fact - he will be exstatic. probably just getting nervous nd doubting himself.. thats normal. :)

good luck and sending good thoughts your way!

[AutumnSkies]

I just went through the same thing. The thing with clear blue is that it takes a lot of the hormone before it shows up. Most tests use 20 ml clear blue uses 40. This sounds crazy but the dollar store tests and the equate brands are the best. I went through 8 tests. This a crazy website but if want to know about it go to peeonastick.com It talks all about the different tests and how much of the hormone is needed.

[val24]

i wish you the best :)

[septemberbride06]

I just went through the same thing. The thing with clear blue is that it takes a lot of the hormone before it shows up. Most tests use 20 ml clear blue uses 40. This sounds crazy but the dollar store tests and the equate brands are the best. I went through 8 tests. This a crazy website but if want to know about it go to peeonastick.com It talks all about the different tests and how much of the hormone is needed.

that is true...I took multiple tests with my son and they showed negative till I went to the dr. (for the naseau and headaches) and they told me I was almost 4 months!! the tests didn;t read because my hormone levels weren't very high I guess. Then, i tried the equate brand (wal-Mart brand) and it came out positive...sometimes you DON'T get what you pay for LOL

[AutumnSkies]

See if you think about it, all the symptoms which I ahve are related to pregnancy... so they probably just figured it was another pregnancy, ,and there was no rush to get me in yest or today, that Monday was early enough.

If it's not pregnancy, then there are issues.

Make sure you tell them everything and if the test comes back negative, have then check for pelvic inflammatory disease(It's simple bacterial infection in your ovaries, tubes and uterus.). As I said in my other post, I just went through the same thing. I had every single sign of pregnancy, including a positive test but I went to the ER and they said I wasn't PG and it was PID. Which, if left untreated or not caught in time, will lead to scarring in the falllopian tubes which will causes tubal pregnancies or infertility.

Hope all goes well!