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rainbowtreat
01-10-2006, 03:57 PM
Ladies, I have 5 months from today. June will be here before I know it. Yes i feel a little stressed. Time and money wise. But I know in the long run it will pay off. I will have a great wedding to remmeber.

My sister got he DJ. He is giving me a month to get the deposit and the contract back to him. And that is only because I am outta state. He is ginv g2 extra weeks. So glad cause it is going to take me that to get the money for the deposit.

She got the JP for us. It is a friedn of theirs. I just dont have details on that yet.

And the hall is free and she will know more tonight. All they ask is for a $50 donation to put towards the clean up of the reception. I grew up in this place and I know the woman who will be tending the bar and cleaning up. I will try to give as much as I can. It will be more then $50.

So now it is onto the rest of it. My dress for one. Wish me luck all. The worst maprt of it all is I can't do anythign till I get my taxes back. By then I will have less then 4 months to go. AARRGGG!!!!!

I want to start everythign but can't. I want to scream.

Not to mention that in Feb. our lease is up. We can stay without signing anothe ryr lease but we need a bigger place. It is jsut 2 small for the 4 of us and we want to try for a baby right after the wedding. Another thing on my mind.

We realy can't afford daycare for 3 kids. I told my boss at work tht i am not willing to sacrafice not having the children i want just because i cant afford daycare. I workd in day care for over 7 yrs before having my own. There are always people who need some sort of child care but day cares fill up so fast around here. I could put an add in the paper for babysitting. But for this i need to be married so I can be on his insurance, need a bigger place becasue i cant handle my own 2 in this place there is no way i can fit a couple of other kids in here for a few hours without going insane.

I just some answers on what to do and a break from it all. I cnat sleep at night latley.

OK i vamped on and on. Just had to get it off my chest.

Tiggerprincess
01-10-2006, 03:59 PM
Ladies, I have 5 months from today. June will be here before I know it. Yes i feel a little stressed. Time and money wise. But I know in the long run it will pay off. I will have a great wedding to remmeber.

My sister got he DJ. He is giving me a month to get the deposit and the contract back to him. And that is only because I am outta state. He is ginv g2 extra weeks. So glad cause it is going to take me that to get the money for the deposit.

She got the JP for us. It is a friedn of theirs. I just dont have details on that yet.

And the hall is free and she will know more tonight. All they ask is for a $50 donation to put towards the clean up of the reception. I grew up in this place and I know the woman who will be tending the bar and cleaning up. I will try to give as much as I can. It will be more then $50.

So now it is onto the rest of it. My dress for one. Wish me luck all. The worst maprt of it all is I can't do anythign till I get my taxes back. By then I will have less then 4 months to go. AARRGGG!!!!!

I want to start everythign but can't. I want to scream.

Not to mention that in Feb. our lease is up. We can stay without signing anothe ryr lease but we need a bigger place. It is jsut 2 small for the 4 of us and we want to try for a baby right after the wedding. Another thing on my mind.

We realy can't afford daycare for 3 kids. I told my boss at work tht i am not willing to sacrafice not having the children i want just because i cant afford daycare. I workd in day care for over 7 yrs before having my own. There are always people who need some sort of child care but day cares fill up so fast around here. I could put an add in the paper for babysitting. But for this i need to be married so I can be on his insurance, need a bigger place becasue i cant handle my own 2 in this place there is no way i can fit a couple of other kids in here for a few hours without going insane.

I just some answers on what to do and a break from it all. I cnat sleep at night latley.

OK i vamped on and on. Just had to get it off my chest.
I bet you are nervous...i wish mine was that close..

CindySue
01-10-2006, 03:59 PM
Congrats on your 5 month mark. I know its exciting. Friday will be my 4 month mark and Im like :bbeek: .
Dont worry about the 4 month thing waiting on your money. Im just now really getting started with mine. Just make you a list of what all you need and where it will come from so all you have to do when you get your money is start shopping. Thats what Ive done and trust me.....it helps alot.
On the lease thing: If you were to get pregnant right after your wedding, that puts you having the baby March or April 2007. You can stay there for another year, or a shorter lease if you can get it, and it gives you more time to weigh ALL of your options and make sure that you make the right decision for yourself and your family.

LaceyinPgh
01-10-2006, 04:03 PM
Congratulations on making it to the 5 month mark. Now, if you can survive those 5 months, it will really be something to celebrate.

rainbowtreat
01-10-2006, 04:06 PM
Congratulations on making it to the 5 month mark. Now, if you can survive those 5 months, it will really be something to celebrate.

You can say that again!!!!!!!!

bnd94
01-10-2006, 06:09 PM
Wow 5 months!! I bet your excited I would be too!!:D

Jenn060306
01-10-2006, 08:25 PM
YAY! 5 Months!
It's crazy how the time is slipping away so quickly!
Good luck in all your planning and last minute things!

LizabethDavis
01-10-2006, 08:42 PM
Congrats on that!! You know, if you are getting married in Maine, I could have married you..I am a Notary Public...:bblol:

rainbowtreat
01-10-2006, 08:43 PM
Too bad I didnt know that earlier. My sister just booked the JP for us, a friedn of hers. But hey things could be changed.

LizabethDavis
01-10-2006, 08:44 PM
LOL.... Let me know!

usahgrad
01-11-2006, 08:58 PM
I'm with Cindy...we're really getting into the expensive stuff now. We've had a few deposits here and there, but nothing TOO major...now we're hitting the MAJOR stuff...I keep freaking because money is tight, but I don't want to be trimming anymore edges than I already am.

Don't worry though...you're wedding will come out beautifully! Congrats on Four months, four weeks, and a day! ;)