Is this appropriate?

[TiggerBride]

Hi all! Me and my FH were going over the guest list last night.... I really don't want to invite my 3 cousins and their families....Is this wrong? They treated my mom with extreme disrespect at my grandmothers funeral......Do I still have to invite them since they are family?
Thanks 4 Honest input:
D.D.

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[Fairy002]

Hi it seems you're in a very sticky situation. Although it may seem that you shouldn't invite them in the long run it may be best that you do because afterall they are family. If they are cousins on behalf of your moms side she might feel bad if you don't invite them. She'll probably think she is putting you in an awkward position. Do to the incident you spoke of they might not even show up. You never know but you don't want drama to begin because of something like that. However it is your wedding and all that matters is that your happy and that you do what ever sits well with you.

[TiggerBride]

I was thinkin to go ahead and invite them....I just dont want them to think "well we're cool now so lets walk over Aunt Patty again".......